Black women try to defend gold-digging in a debate with black men...

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watched both parts

they couldn't disagree at points because whenever they introduced common sense they'd be yelled over :mjlol:



They couldn't even come up with a clear definition of gold digger. They all agreed that women seek security like men seek beauty and there was NOTHING wrong with that.


Where was the ether
 

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in the end, I think it comes down to age.

If I'm 20 and I strike it rich somehow, I'm not caring if some chick is with me for the money. I prob dont know any better.

If I'm 30 and I strike it rich I prob had to work really hard for it, so I'll feel her out. If she's playing me, I'll play her until I'm tired of her, then tell her to :camby:

If I'm 60+ and rich, well then I'll take whatever 20 something yr olds I can. I know why they're there and at that age I won't care.
 

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They couldn't even come up with a clear definition of gold digger. They all agreed that women seek security like men seek beauty and there was NOTHING wrong with that.


Where was the ether

you wouldn't notice it unless you have an objective perspective which you don't

any agreement was a result of convolution and contradiction from the women... not a big deal, just observations

a lot of women aren't great debaters unless trained or practiced, because as you can see in this video they're more emotional - which i actually like about women :yeshrug:

regular dudes know how to debate because for us, actually getting emotional (as opposed to yelling over football or whatever) when you're chopping shyt is a huge no no
 

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When it really comes down to is a lot of men don't want women to have certain standards b/c they don't make the grade so they throw around terms like "gold digger" to try to shame women into accepting less.
 

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Some things I don't think men and women will ever fully see eye to eye on
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Most Women don't adhere to honor codes that's why most of them like scandalous shyt and vehemently defend treacherous shyt like gold digging and the shyt that black chyna did.

Being a feminist and a gold digger is funny shyt, but that's ok. Complain about there not being enough men to date in your desired salary range but not realize that's because you're competing with them. You will be finessed when the pendulum fully swings.

Japan has a whole generation of men tired of handing their wives money. p*ssy straight up ain't worth the annoyance those jr cacs
 
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You're a gold digger if you wamt certain shyt from men but dont set the same standards for yourself

Dont know why that takes a whole debate
 

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When it really comes down to is a lot of men don't want women to have certain standards b/c they don't make the grade so they throw around terms like "gold digger" to try to shame women into accepting less.

no shyt
women have unrealistic standards just like men do
and then you realize that fantasy person you thought up doesn't exist and you have to settle for someone real
 

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It's 100% true! What's funny?


Men that have money don't care how much money their woman has.It doesn't even bother them that certain women don't want to date broke men. They shouldn't. Jamie Foxx even said this.

It's only broke men who have this issue.
What's ironic is there isn't a lot of rich men to go around. What should majority of women to do in the meantime?
 

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When it really comes down to is a lot of men don't want women to have certain standards b/c they don't make the grade so they throw around terms like "gold digger" to try to shame women into accepting less.

And women choose to be offended by the term.

Women could come up with a derogatory term to label men that chase "dimes". You think brehs would really give a f**k?
 

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These types of debates are so weird to me. Who goes around saying "I want a man who makes xyz?" I never heard a chick who really gets those types of dudes make that statement. You just look good and be in tbe right place at the right time and they come to you. If you need to declare that you need this or that you probably don't/can't get it.

It's women that aren't putting the work to get those guys, or aren't willing to sacrifice what they want in terms of looks/swag/style.

I've known a few women that have talked that I want a provider type rhetoric, but dealt with dudes with average ass incomes. What they wanted is the type of dudes they dealt with to have a six figure salary. The men with six figure salaries that they had access to, they wasn't really trying to get at.
 

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When it really comes down to is a lot of men don't want women to have certain standards b/c they don't make the grade so they throw around terms like "gold digger" to try to shame women into accepting less.
there's nothing wrong with having standards the problems come from wanting something from the opposite sex you don't even have
 
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