Black women in LA go to NY to get validation

[Commish]

As someone who was born and raised in California, these women are putting extras on it!

First off, when people tell a story or their perspectives, they will usually do so that will make it look favorable on their side.

Next, let's dead the myth that Black men in California isn't dating/marrying Black women! It's a damn lie!

Most people, regardless of where they from or live, will be with someone from their respective ethnic group.

Granted, California may be a state where one may see a fair amount of IR couples than other states, but people need to factor in that California has a high population, yet a low Black population and the places which as a fairly decent Black population is concentrated in metropolises like L.A., S.F., S.D. and adjacent counties/cities...

Bottomline...

The women talking about needing to move outside of California to find a Black man is really talking about finding a specific type of Black man.

BTW, those same men they claim to look for also live in California, but either they don't see them or really isn't putting themselves out there to be seen by them, so the easiest way to deal with that is to move somewhere where there is a higher concentration of available Black men which will be in the Southern, Midwestern, Mid Atlantic and East Coast.

At the end of the day, a woman who really wants a man can find one. Will dude be everything she is looking for? Maybe not? Will she be everything these men are looking for? Maybe not?

But, what isn't true is that NO Black men on the West Coast is checking for Black women. Those women are probably real picky and being picky will limit options.

 

[kingofnyc]

them bytches just wanted to look more "black" cuz that was the wave they was on

they wasn't researching specific island cultures and trying to pick and choose aesthetics...

stop playing yourself

them bytches grew up on 90s/00s hip-hop trying to be the next hip-hop video vixen & knew exactly what phenotype nikkaz preferred

so, they studied , copied and duplicated ….. Gloria Velez ; Rosa Acosta and Vida Guerra that’s a Puerto Rican, Dominican & Cuban {multi ethnic / racial ambiguous look = Spanish Caribbean]

so stop it ….. because you’re the only one playing yourself

 

[Biscayne]

It’s so much to do and so much variety you learn not to sweat a bytch out here other places nikkas hound for the box over here it’s easy come easy go and these TRANSPLANT bytches hate that because where they from they use to nikkas doing the most just because p*ssy the only thing to do in that city..NY nikkas on the block cat calling is good when the bytch trying to make a point but you think she giving any of them play?

And all these bytches want nikkas with CLOUT and MONEY which means he doesn’t have to settle for you if he wants an exotic toy he wouldn’t have access too if it wasn’t for the CLOUT AND MONEY which is the same reason the black women want the breh.. see how that sounds when worded out?

Nothing else needs to be said after this. You summed it up.

In the South and on the Eastcoast, black men actively chase black women. The Eastcoast is the catcalling and chasing capital of America. I figure Westcoast brehs are more reserved. And if they’re especially financially stable, they don’t have to go out of their way to “hound” a blk woman for attention. And it comes across to blk women as “c00nery”.

 

[Biscayne]

NYC has always been more Pro-Black/conscious than Cali especially when it comes to women.

For the most part, to us NY nikkas Black women are like God in this city. In Calif., they're just bit*ches and hoes (excuse my language) by curiosity of Cube, Snoop, Eazy, and many many other trailblazing California names

Black women in NYC never have a problem finding a Black man whereas California girls do

Gods? Breh, stand up!!

 

[Biscayne]

More hypocrisy. There's been dozens of threads on here about "where do brothas get the most play?". These women are just tweeting about where they get the most attention. Even if you think they are a 5, they are still getting more attention in NY, and it's OK to like attention from the opposite sex.

When have black men ever hated getting catcalled and getting attention from black women? We’re confused in this thread, because black women have actively and publicly spoken out against street harassment by black men in NYC. Just to turn around and tell other black women that they should travel to NYC to get street harassed to boost their confidence. Very strange.

 

[Biscayne]

normally… i would call bullshyt


but i gotta remember nyc isn’t real nyc , it’s overly gentrified : so who knows

You’re saying black women didnt get catcalled and simped in the old NYC?

 

[stepbackj34spud]

Sounds like LA is


NYC got best looking black women in the world cuz we got ADOS, Caribbean, Afro Latina and African baddies


shyt you could go out and meet a group a chicks and they all be bad and be from completely different backgrounds

ive lived in nyc all my life. We do not have the best looking black women.

 

[stepbackj34spud]

That's a complete lie.


Houston and Atlanta easily whoops LA's ass in terms of attractive Black women

Atl definitely has the best looking black women. Easily.

 

[Don Snow]

ive lived in nyc all my life. We do not have the best looking black women.

What part of NYC you from


Flatbush
Canarsie
Bed Stuy
Harlem
Dyckman
Washington Heights
North And Southside Queens say different

 

[Mass]

But I’m wrong for leaving my home state to find women who actually thought I was attractive

 

[stepbackj34spud]

What part of NYC you from


Flatbush
Canarsie
Bed Stuy
Harlem
Dyckman
Washington Heights
North And Southside Queens say different

The Stuy. bytches walking in timbs and bonnets wearing street wear type outfits aint the wave. Spanish bytches who have a filthy mouth, sound like dudes and use the N Word more than us. None of this is the wave.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

Look at the pictures of the women saying they get more attention when they leave LA

What's wrong with the ones in the op? They look attractive to me

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

It's always about the men they want. ALWAYS.
Dudes be mouth breathers and smell like dirty socks tryna Holla at em in dirty black forces with no ability to read social cues. They want them dudes to leave em alone.

I bet 95% of the men that holla at women on the street are of the dusty variety. Judging by the comments I would wager that several dudes here fall in that category

 

[Serious]

I was in Hollywood, went to Roscoe's and everything.


Most Brothas were with non White women

Roscoes is wack a poor example that’s where tourist go.


The closet black spot, that’s not south of the 10 freeway is, Hot N Juicy, on La Brea.


Guarantee you will see 90% black people with other black people….

 

[Serious]

Coli is breaking down. I can't do quotes....

Anyway someone said [I thought women hated feeling like they're being harassed for doing everyday mundane tasks. Now she's saying that she appreciates that behavior?]

Why do people assume the same group of women who hate cat calling are these women who need public validation? We're talking about two different types of women.

And how are men to differentiate between the types of women of


So risk being seen as annoying, sexually harassing women or validate women.

Especially when women aren’t necessarily giving context clues about wanting to be approached.