Black women are not loyal to black men

[marcuz]

Black women are the more loyal to their race then any group of people on the planet. They've been accused of being TOO loyal at times

they're loyal to the wrong men and aspects of our culture

i had a woman try to prove the same argument to me. she said she was loyal because she supported her man in jail, held him down and such. my question is, why were with you even with such aguy? just cus a black woman will stay loyal to the worst aspects of our culture (pimps, drug dealers, robbers) doesnt make them loyal; makes them dumb enabling bytches.

 

[Kings County]

Title is correct. Body is incorrect.

what about when her man does an extensive prison bid 5-15 years and she holds him down send him moeny and stays faithful thats not loyalty ?

 

[Will Ross]

It amazes me how happy y'all get at even the thought that Black women are unliked by the world. As far as reality goes, I don't know any Black woman who has not experienced being hollered at by men of many races. The simple fact is, the majority cannot see themselves/are not comfortable with non-Black men. For the ones who might even be open to it, it takes a ton of consideration before they would ever give it a try.

Also, how is it that in one thread that talks about Black men abandoning their kids, the blame is on Black women because in the end women always choose who they want to be with. Then, in a thread where you all get the opportunity to try and take digs at Black women's desirability to other races, all of a sudden men are the choosers and aren't choosing Black women?

Smh. Lemme stop.

White man= god to black women
thugged out black man= king to black women

 

[Sierra Mist]

Brothas. Now it's time for me to get at you. You guys are going to get mad but fukk it. Let's talk about why (oh shyt justification) American black women have their disposition towards black men. Yes I know these women aren't 400 years old but when you grow up in a community where the men have historically failed of course your mothers will raise you to be independent and not need a man. That's just a reality. Why they keep choosing those types of men is a mystery to me, but I think it has something to do with integration. After integration a lot of educated men went off to school only to graduate and not have any jobs available to them. Meanwhile Ray Ray was making dope money on the block or he was working in a factory somewhere. Those factory jobs are gone, so now what do women have left to do? Gain the mentality of being the "men" of the community because the men have failed. The history is really fukked up.

 

[marcuz]

what about when her man does an extensive prison bid 5-15 years and she holds him down send him moeny and stays faithful thats not loyalty ?

stupidity != loyality

 

[Sierra Mist]

what about when her man does an extensive prison bid 5-15 years and she holds him down send him moeny and stays faithful thats not loyalty ?

I broke that down in another post... being loyal to a nikka is not being loyal to black men. People need to read everything I say before replying. It's a lot but I cover all my bases because I've done my homework.

 

[ikbm]

I wasn't talking about you. You think about me 100 times a day. Hop off my dikk for once. nikka making threads begging another dude for a video. get a life fakkit. No one was talking about your corny irrelevant ass.

no one begged you to lie about making a farewell video you pathetic seeker of attention. why dont you really go away like you said you would?

lmao "corny irrelevant"...your entire existence is to remain relevant on hip hop boards whether you're a man or a woman according to your alias
you're the biggest attention whore ive ever seen. i hope you die legitimately a horrible, horrible death.
hold up this fakkit ass nikka **** is the king of editting his post and adding fictional shyt. yo fakkit...pouring my heart? nikka you were on aim pretending to be a woman for years crying about trying to commit suicide. you need jesus you fukking homo.

 

[TBD]

. It amazes me how some black men accuse black women of not being loyal when black men date/marry out 2x as much as black women do. But yet, we're the ones who are not loyal ?! Please stop it.

 

[Sierra Mist]

no one begged you to lie about making a farewell video you pathetic seeker of attention. why dont you really go away like you said you would?

lmao "corny irrelevant"...your entire existence is to remain relevant on hip hop boards whether you're a man or a woman according to your alias
you're the biggest attention whore ive ever seen. i hope you die legitimately a horrible, horrible death.
hold up this fakkit ass nikka **** is the king of editting his post and adding fictional shyt. yo fakkit...pouring my heart? nikka you were on aim pretending to be a woman for years crying about trying to commit suicide. you need jesus you fukking homo.

Let it all out.

 

[marcuz]

. It amazes me how some black men accuse black women of not being loyal when black men date/marry out 2x as much as black women do. But yet, we're the ones who are not loyal ?! Please stop it.

and for whatever reason, thats who most of yall focus on. we have 80% of our women focusing on the 25% that are with white women

i swear, black women can ignore a brother his entire life; until some white chick scoops him up. then they'll act like they wanted that black male their entire life; even though they ignored him

 

[JT-Money]

they're loyal to the wrong men and aspects of our culture

i had a woman try to prove the same argument to me. she said she was loyal because she supported her man in jail, held him down and such. why question is, why were with you even with such aguy? just cus a black woman will stay loyal to the worst aspects of our culture (pimps, drug dealers, robbers) doesnt make them loyal; makes them dumb enabling bytches.

I lost count of how many black women I've met who dated married men knowingly. But they would pass up single dudes left and right hoping the married guy would leave his wife for them. Which almost never happens but they carry on these dysfunctional relationships for years. And then wonder why no sane guy would date them after they allowed themselves to be used like that. I had one shorty who told me she had an affair with some married dude for an few years it kind of turned me off about her.

But not enough not to hit it.

 

[PartyHeart]

How can you tell someone's mood from an forum post? I don't think most dudes posting in this thread are happy or sad but just telling it like it is.

Ok. I'm not going to try to convince you, you will believe what suits you. But speaking as a woman who happens to be Black and lived 24 years on earth that way, its not hard to get a non-Black man. I exercise my ability to date out, most Black women I know don't and won't. Believe what you want

 

[AAKing23]

. It amazes me how some black men accuse black women of not being loyal when black men date/marry out 2x as much as black women do. But yet, we're the ones who are not loyal ?! Please stop it.

Nobody is saying that black men are loyal, we actually really aren't that loyal ourselves


Our gripe is with the black women who try to act like they're so much more loyal than us

 

[Will Ross]

Brothas. Now it's time for me to get at you. You guys are going to get mad but fukk it. Let's talk about why (oh shyt justification) American black women have their disposition towards black men. Yes I know these women aren't 400 years old but when you grow up in a community where the men have historically failed of course your mothers will raise you to be independent and not need a man. That's just a reality. Why they keep choosing those types of men is a mystery to me, but I think it has something to do with integration. After integration a lot of educated men went off to school only to graduate and not have any jobs available to them. Meanwhile Ray Ray was making dope money on the block or he was working in a factory somewhere. Those factory jobs are gone, so now what do women have left to do? Gain the mentality of being the "men" of the community because the men have failed. The history is really fukked up.

As black men we tend to be the most forgiving of a woman's faults. In all reality we are the nice guys that finish last

 

[Sierra Mist]

Ok. I'm not going to try to convince you, you will believe what suits you. But speaking as a woman who happens to be Black and lived 24 years on earth that way, its not hard to get a non-Black man. I exercise my ability to date out, most Black women I know don't and won't. Believe what you want

Yeah I'm not buying the whole "no other men want black women" bs.