They don't say anything parallel because they only want white men. When black men jump the fence they are eclectic. Black women just want that white knight. They don't talk about it.... up until they get a white man. Then it becomes "I got a white man and you can get one too."
A lot of these arguments are kind of dated though.
You have nothing to back this up besides this post and an episode of your favorite talk show. Just stop.