So they approach you or do you approach them. I didn’t know women asked men out. I keep hearing on the coli that black women don’t check for them. What does that mean?
They don’t come to you and ask for your number, they don’t smile at you. I am trying to understand what you mean by that.
Read my previous post about black woman not knowing or watching or having good examples of communicating with man in public and courting them without fully courting a man, those other race of woman go to college with expectation to find somebody who can take care of them. Those woman come to college and experiment themselves too, so yeah they will go find a brother to see what it's all about.
To a man that cannot get a black woman to look him in his eye or signal they have interest in him, the minute someone finds light in him, his gone. These are man that don't have many options. They are lucky if woman are into them in general.
Nobody is saying black woman don't face this same problem too but they have advances from man coming someway somehow. Those ugly swagless nothing that sticks out at surface black man have no option compared to a ugly swagless woman who knows a few guys are desperate enough to try to court her. She'll go out and play her options, often the ugly swagless nothing that sticks out at the surface brother will not be her go to option. Black woman can be skinny, fat, whatever - she has man advancing her letting her know she holds some weight to someone. Man do not get advancements unless they are those highly wanted males.
So it leaves a pile of what our community deem wierdo brothers hoping any woman comes in to give them what all man want. These nikkas are suckers, from top to bottom, now if a man with no option finally has 1 option, he'll take it and bounce.
You think black woman "loyalty" comes out of no where? No, it comes from years from childhood to adulthood of brothers hollering and gassing them up. It's the same reason, alot of woman from other races that are thicker than usual have a loyalty thing to dating brothers, because they grow up with the experience of being gassed up by those man.
I do not excuse c00ns by anyways but please stop painting the image has if it's the same. The man's and woman experience in the dating scene is completely different.
That is not the sense that I am getting, at all. You guys love exaggerating. I’ll speak for myself.
I went to a white college but there a sizeable black/African population. Anyway, some of the black dudes only approached black girls to do things for them (homework help, cook for them or play pseudo black solidarity to get favours) then off being with the girls they really want expecting nothing from them.
One of the other black dudes that I was friends with, had us in a car with his with another black guy and went on a rant on BW being too mouthy and on and on while have three black girls in the car, we were friends are so I thought, we laughed it off but very awkward, while his Italian girlfriend was giving him grief and he always ran to us for moral support. Then they broke up for the millionth time and he had a fling with an Arab girl in our group and now he is married to a girl from Oman, covered to Islam to get her parents to accept him. I don’t hate him, but he was not looking for a black chick. It wasn’t lack of options.
But let the coli, tell it bm like this don’t exist. They only date out cause BW don’t want them. The dating market is competitive, and at times very superficial and status heavy.
My point is regular/non athletes black guys can be just as picky and can place non black girls on a pedestal even if they surround themselves with black girls opposite of the stereotype. - This is all correct, that's why they all get the c00n card regardless of the situation
None of these men were with extraordinary beauties just average girls,
But like I have always said, average from another race is seen as better than black by many black people. - Yup c00n mentality, look at Issa Rae herself
You prove my exact point they are man with tons of options not the dweeb who cannot get himself laid. No woman is putting up with shyt from a man when she knows she can do better in whatever department of life that she is attracted to him for. You think that nerd ass nikka who is whatever is having woman cook for him
I always tell woman around me, date one of dweeb that you know damn well you don't want. Take something and learn something from it.. you don't know what you might end up with.
The nikka you are talking about is just a fukking c00n. Him running to y'all for moral support is probably in connection to you being like his mom; a black woman and guilt for his bullshyt ass choices.
Who said c00ns don't exist