Also, nobody gonna date a Black 4 to keep Shea Butter Twitter happy when they can date a White 7.
nikkas would be in black marriages tomorrow if they could consistently find Black 7-8's to marry but, these chicks are a struggle for alot of dudes as they want other types of men. After failing enough times, nikkas expand their dating options and realize that they can get a non-black woman that's cute that does find them attractive......and they're gone in the wind. Don't get mad at the nikkas dating out of race. Ask the Black chicks why they didn't find them attractive before.
Bottom line it comes to this, woman always have access to dikk at all times, man do not always have access to p*ssy at all. This shapes and creates a dynamic of how both parties think and move in the dating scene. Woman know they can prolong finding a spouse and try to obtain the best man that fits that bill. Man which many man will not admit, the average man solely just wants access to p*ssy and whoever is willing to take him up on his advances.
Man will lower their standards and change course of the kind of woman they are spitting game at for access to p*ssy. That's where the whole man pay and woman will not pay dynamic comes from.
Woman have the luxury of having 5 different brothers coming at them.
I don't think there is any excuse to ever being a c00n especially in America. Especially in Donald or Issa case, you know the struggles your people go through in your own art and what needs to be done to fix it. Always be the solution. Could never see myself not having having full black children. Walking around in society with my partner with a stigma on my back, cool off that.
But I understand has someone who has had several woman of other races make advances knowing that I was going somewhere with my future. I feel that black woman do not often get to see or witness how they should approach a man especially a man who doesn't fit their normal bill of attraction. Those other race of woman often court those man whether it's in college, job places because they this guy will be worth of something later on. Black woman are not raised to go to school and look for a husband, or go to places where success black man roam.
Those other race of woman are brought up to sucker easy man often like their dad's. A lot of black woman do not have this experience at home or fall victim into society idea of a black man image.
This does not deflect from all you c00ns though. Y'all hate yourselfs, man and woman. Finding every excuse in the book for why black people don't like you. You will go out the fukking way to do for your "other" partner because you feel so special that they chose you. But would never break your neck or deal with the same standard held by your people.
That''s for the brehs who want curvy black woman but out here PAWGing and PAAGing brick stone wall surf board bytches. That's for you brehettes who want a 6'2 nikka need to be superman in every field of life to satisfy your needs but out here with a cac who looks like he works at Verizon.
Lol, you really think no sista checking for a tall, 6'4 muscled nikka in grad school? That's like someone saying no nikka checking for Serena or a Serena type. You telling me this?
Also, stop saying no one checking for Donald Glover, he went to NYU, for crying out loud, there is always a sista open to a nikka in school at a high level if he ain't ugly.
Lol at anyone thinking Luke Cage is not some black man prototype
The levels some of our people will take to make their struggle real.
For me it's all about understanding where it stems from and why it continues to happen in our community.
Woman have options, the worse of the worse woman have options while man the lower they are on the totem pole of whatever category woman want out that man.
Woman know man are suckers, just look at social media. It's a bait and switch. They post those nice photos so they can select out all you thirsty ass nikkas they deem is worthy.
The problem is the man they are advertise to save situations and the man that actually move their family and lineages forward are not parallel. If a man has options to the most desirable thing in the world to all man which is p*ssy, for free! Why the fukk would he work any harder for it. Now for the brother that does not have such easy access, he'll have to present something more than physical for woman attention.