Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.

[ultraflexed]

If she wants 'pretty privilege', she has to put in 'pretty work'. She's not ugly facially, but for her to get pretty privilege, she has to do something to distinguish herself from the other women out there. If she hit the gym hard and got out of Cali, then I'm sure she'd get a ton more attention, but it sounds like she wants that 'pretty privilege' just by showing up as is and in a state that isn't the best for black women in terms of dating. Not going to work like that. She wants that 'dream guy', money in her cash app, etc., aka elite woman benefits without putting in that work to be elite.

Breh as someone that's lived in LA, the competition out there is SEC level, she could do all that an still be invisible

 

[RubioTheCruel]

Heffa got a couple screws loose

 

[ultraflexed]

Need to move out of Cali. That would be a 6-8 out here smh.

sadly that’s a Cali 5, too competitive out there for both genders

Naw, a 4 would be more accurate, but that depends on her shape

 

[FeloniousMonk]

She's a pick me.

Ain't nothing wrng with her.

I bet dude holla, just not the ones she wants.

 

[Geordi]

Since she mentioned her butt, I'm gonna need to see those cheeks before I make an assessment of the situation.

My butt was too damn big! From getting made fun of in elementary school to being fetishized in high school , Oh, and going out to clubs was the worst! Only getting hit on when you were showing everything and being completely ignored if you weren’t?

So she admits she gets hit on AND has a nice body? This complaining byatch is pissing me off Dudes wish we could say something like this.

 

[xXMASHERXx]

Need to move out of Cali. That would be a 6-8 out here smh.

sadly that’s a Cali 5, too competitive out there for both genders

Cali isn't the problem, what she is aiming for in a man is. If she wanted a man today she could get one. She said she tends to date bottom of the barrel guys. Maybe she isn't at the level she believes she is. If all I was getting bottom of the barrel women, I would look in the mirror and reevaluate myself instead of blaming things on my skin color.

 

[duckbutta]

She can get male attention, just not from the type of men she wants, which is a problem that all women face.

 

[ultraflexed]

She isnt ugly

She can find who she looking for in cali





Dating would be much easier for many if people dated on they level more

This is exactly what Kevin is talking about, a 4-5 needs to be looking at 4-5's but refuse

 

[ultraflexed]

She's not ugly though, as long as she keeps herself clean and together looking. She will be all right.

Nicca she almost 40.....she's not all right

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

She needs a dose of reality. Men learn real quick what they working with and what they need to do to bag a woman. She probably out here trying to box outside her weight class.

Truth be told she ain't ugly and she got a big ass. She would get some play here in Atlanta quickly.

Where her ass at? I need a some pics

 

[87 others]

Halo effect is a very real thing for both men and women.

 

[Adebisi_Said]

She looks good for 37. That's all I got.

 

[V Skyye]

Didn’t watch the video. But at 37 years old she’s worried about the wrong things. Getting drinks bought at clubs, invited to VIP parties, and cash apps are a young woman’s game. She can’t compete and shouldn’t try. She needs a therapist and some grown folks hobbies that will introduce her to different circles of men.

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

If she was male she would be labelled as incel

 

[Monoblock]

She in the wrong state