Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.

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good looking people get first dibs, its called 'ATTRACTive' for a reason. they attract people easier.

she's not uber ugly, she just needs to lower her standard and play with the cards she's dealt with. if shes looking for a swagged out model or a millionaire, she's in for a rude awakening. like someone said earlier society isn't fair. doesn't mean she has to be lonely though. im sure she could find a blue collar OG that would treat her right.
We have to stop that. Society is fair, however, society is not equal.
 

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A woman with no options? Yeah right

she wants the pretty girl lifestyle thats all, all she gotta do is some squats and eat healthy and she’ll get plenty of dudes cashapping her, men are not complicated sweetie

also she’s capping on the prayer part, if she praying to the one TRUE God for her dream man she’ll get him if she has actual faith, she just don’t :yeshrug:
 

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It's interesting whose pathetic cries we value and don't value. Youtube is full of dudes crying because women don't choose them, they can't find dates, never had a girlfriend, etc. For them we laugh and call them incels. Yet I'm supposed to feel bad for this woman because she's allegedly ugly and her cute friends are more successful with guys? It's time to stop applying everything to the "privilege" chart. It works for race, gender, sexuality, and money. Applying it to looks gets us closer to arguably the weirdest shyt anyone believes - "sexual market place" bullshyt, a concept created by ugly/loser dudes.

People date who they are attracted to. If you are not attractive to most people, your goal should be to expand your horizons and find someone in a similar position who actually likes you. Some might call this "settling" but I call it being realistic. Often times with these loser ass dudes and loser ass women, they feel entitled to attractive people. As if a hot chick is going to date a broke 5'8 guy. Or in this case, as if a handsome successful man is going to date a bitter, bald chick.
 

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This heffa a weirdo. All she got to do is join some of these black organizations and go to conferences and she will meet plenty of eligible black men who she can date.

No hate on heterosexual women. But they are the most hustling backwards complaining jokers when it comes to meeting the opposite sex. Bull daggers and straight men will travel all around the country, join groups, join churches, pledge to organizations all in the name of meeting women...:russ:.

Dudes will literally join a church and go every Sunday and Wednesday cause they found out some fine broads at the church.

shyt one of my homies old lady got tired of not being able to meet single black men in san diego. So what she do? Some of her friends she had in atlanta had met their husbands at AKA / Kappa meet and greet conferences. So she says fukk this shyt I am going to every AKA / Kappa meet and greet and finding me a man. Like twice a year they had a conference on the east coast she went to them for about 2 years. Met my homie at one...they started dating and 3 years later got married.

Couldn't even hate. Gave that sista props for thinking outside the box and going out to get what she wanted. :lolbron:
 

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I ain’t never dated or dealt with an really attractive woman that had a serious grasp on reality. Most live in these balloon like atmospheres where everyone is a yes man/woman.

Most of em don’t even like being treated that way but they just go along because of the esteem in brings in feeling better than others.

Try telling one of those women the truth and you will get hit with the:picard::hhh:

That’s what happens when you’ved lived in the American bubble.

Go to Russia. Model quality chicks are pretty much a normal everyday sight and get treated like throwaways.

Big world out there buddy.
 
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She isn't unnatractive. she should get out of California.
True she isn’t she’s average at best knowing she can’t compete with better looking women.. That’s her problem thinking she’s on equal footing with a pretty broad who ain’t gotta do shyt but just be pretty.. What homegirl need to do is if she wants any semblance of pretty privilege she needs to hit the gym and make her body a ten… Trust her overall look will bump from a 5 avg to an 8.. So her friends my have a prettier face than her but she would have a better body than them and in turn she would look better..

But her woe it’s me and lookin like she takes what she can get ain’t gonna work for her
 

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She isn't unnatractive. she should get out of California.
She can eat out here. There's quality dudes that'll date her. She just has to know her lane and what she wants. Also, yes you have to ask her is she down to get busy in the gym and take it to another level if things are that bad. And a lot of the females she's envious of invest in their bodies either naturally or under the knife. Its not a California thing, its just a cold world period. She would probably have the same issues no matter the state she lives in. Guys have to deal with the same sh*t if not twice as worse
 

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She's not unattractive or ugly, but she's delusional.

Saying men have never bought her a bunch of drinks or how when she walked into a club/room everyone didnt turn their head and look at her.

She sounds like she wants the treatment dimes get, and to me that part is what's unattractive. Like men should just bow.

If she has a pleasant personality, I can think of many dudes who would like her. But...
 
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