Black woman living in LA laments not having “Pretty Privilege”.

[ThrobbingHood]

Yeah it’s long but it’s a brutally honest video. Most of us guys already know what she’s saying is true. I feel bad for her.



For the tl:dr crowd:

• Never felt pretty growing up.
• Went out to eat with her friends on her b-day. Dressed up, got zero attention. Her married mixed creole friend turned heads immediately.
• Her pretty friends wake up to money in their cash app just for being pretty.
• Tends to date “bottom of the barrel guys”.
  
• “HVM don’t want to spend money on me.”
• Ciara and Lori Harvey attract high value men because of their looks. She could pray for hours and never get her dream man.
• She doesn’t hang out with pretty girls because she was once elbowed out of the way by a guy to get to her friend.
• She has to be loud and funny just to get attention.
• When you’re dark skin and don’t have pretty privilege, you pay double the tax.
• She was on a flight and this black guy she was next to the whole didn’t acknowledge her. He gets on plane and spots a Latina/Indian looking woman. Within 5 minutes they exchanged social details and she was invited to a private party in the Hollywood hills.
  
• Pretty women at work get away with a lot more and have men offering them help. She works as a teacher and only gets help from the kids.
• Steve Harvey was right about men and women not being able to have platonic relationships.
• She doesn’t have any male friends. She fell in love with a gay male friend because she was getting male attention but it ruined their relationship.
• The only attractive feature she had in highschool was her butt, and the attention she received from it was ‘traumatic’.

I hope she doesn’t call into Kevin Samuel’s show.

She should really move from California. Not an ideal place if you want a black relationship.

 

[Secure Da Bag]

She should really move from California. Not an ideal place if you want a black relationship.

I think you've solved her problem.

 

[Bushmaster69]

It is what it is.

Men have to deal with this all the time. Maybe she should workout more, change the style of her makeup, and learn new skills.

 

[BlackDiBiase]

For the tl:dr crowd:

• Never felt pretty going up.
• Went out to eat with her friends on her b-day. Dressed up, got zero attention. Her married mixed creole friends turned heads immediately.
• Her pretty friends wake up to money in their cash app just for being pretty.
• Tends to date “bottom of the barrel guys”.
  
• “HVM don’t want to spend money on me.”
• Ciara and Lori Harvey attract high value men because their looks. She could pray for hours and never get her dream man.
• She doesn’t hang out with pretty girls because she was once elbowed out of the way by a guy to get to her friend.
• She has to be loud and funny just to get attention.
• When you’re dark skin and don’t have pretty privilege, you pay double the tax.
• She was on a flight and this black guy she was next to the whole didn’t acknowledge her. He gets on plane and spots a Latina/Indian looking woman. Within 5 minutes they exchanged social details and she was invited to a private party in the Hollywood hills.
  
• Pretty women at work get away with a lot more and have men offering them help. She works as a teacher and only gets help from the kids.
• Steve Harvey was right about men and women not being able to have platonic relationships.
• She doesn’t have any male friends. She fell in love with a gay male friend because she was getting male attention but it ruined their relationship.
• The only attractive she had in highschool was her butt, and the attention she received from it was ‘traumatic’.

I hope she doesn’t call into Kevin Samuel’s show.

She should really move from California. Not an ideal place if you want a black relationship.

props for the cliff notes, its a sad read.

especially the joint i highlighted, i do sense though she might be into IR talking all that dark skin stuff when women who are confident know its got nothing to do with the pigment of your skin anyway men get it 10x worst.

she is talking about love and stuff, she can get a sexual partner by the click of her fingers most men cant do that. so shes got herself on some sort of pedestal she has a right but yeah this is a sad read.

 

[The Observer]

Don’t think OP understands what tl:dr means

 

[CopiousX]

I think she just needs to compete.


she is having a logic disconnect. Rather than solve a problem, she is just staring at it. Men like XYZ, and she doesn't have XYZ. So now her task is to go out there and hunt for her own XYZ to compete.

She doesn’t hang out with pretty girls because she was once elbowed out of the way by a guy to get to her friend.

I've actually been guilty of this one too. An OG told me when I wasyounger that it's a complete waste of time to engage with the ugly(or less attractive) friend, so I just didn't and I ran with it ever since.

 

[EA]

More loser “woe is me” content

Rather than go online and make these kinda videos, why don’t these people work on themselves. If she really loved herself, she wouldn’t be looking at what her friends attract and feel a way about it.

 

[Lurking Class Hero]

She needs to go over to an incels forum and

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

It is what it is.

Men have to deal with this all the time. Maybe she should workout more, change the style of her makeup, and learn new skills.

Basically. Five minutes in I’m like and your point is?

Most attractive women are pretty dumb and develop serious mental issues and attention disorders once they age out like child stars.

Fuxx, the internet and social media have really done a number on society

 

[graduation track six]

She isn't unnatractive. she should get out of California.

 

[I Really Mean It]

Most attractive women are pretty dumb

A lot of you dudes really live in a far different world than I do.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

I ain’t never dated or dealt with an really attractive woman that had a serious grasp on reality. Most live in these balloon like atmospheres where everyone is a yes man/woman.

Most of em don’t even like being treated that way but they just go along because of the esteem in brings in feeling better than others.

Try telling one of those women the truth and you will get hit with the

 

[Killer Instinct]

Men who are 5'5 with receding hairlines don't get handsome gang privileges. I'm also sure a guy like that wouldn't qualify as her dream man, either. It's called life. You play the cards you're dealt or make the moves necessary to shuffle a new deck. If you want to blame anybody, start with your parents.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Delete

 

[DropTopDoc]

Thanks for the cliff, but a lot of women i imagine suffer from that, and it’s like look being attractive is the same as having money as a man, it allows you to circumnavigate some bs and live in a different world, but the goal shouldn’t be to get cash dropped on you it should be to find love, i wonder how many nikkas she shot down because they didn’t fit this ideal dude