People that don't want to be lonely will listen. People that pursue out of their league will continue to be stubborn and miserable. Goes for any and everyone.
But why are you assuming that those men struggling with women are pursuing those women "out of their league"?
Your entire point is premised on a false narrative.
That's basically what it is....people keep obstructing the conversation with their bullshyt arguments..."you want a dime"
Wanting a pretty woman IS NOT wanting a dime. It's wanting a woman you're attracted to and there's nothing wrong with that.
All these average/kinda cute chicks are in harems with bad boys/alpha males and he has a rotation of 5-6 different women who are sexually available to him whereas the man that would have married those average/kinda cute chicks are empty handed because the bad boys/alpha males are boning 5-6 different women at a time.
Like you said....this woman
Ignores this man
and tries to "date" this man (really, she is one of his 5 fukk buddies)
Then years later she's this woman, has a baby or three, that guy is GONE IN THE WINDNow it's "All Black Men are NO GOOD and DEADBEAT DADDIES" because she kept fukking a guy raw who had 5 other hoes he was fukking and had no intentions of every marrying her dumb ass
It's the same story everytime bro. That's why I laugh and date non-black women. It's so much easier yet, nikkas keep playing themselves.
Corporate breh is eating, belee dat.That's basically what it is....people keep obstructing the conversation with their bullshyt arguments..."you want a dime"
Wanting a pretty woman IS NOT wanting a dime. It's wanting a woman you're attracted to and there's nothing wrong with that.
All these average/kinda cute chicks are in harems with bad boys/alpha males and he has a rotation of 5-6 different women who are sexually available to him whereas the man that would have married those average/kinda cute chicks are empty handed because the bad boys/alpha males are boning 5-6 different women at a time.
Like you said....this woman
Ignores this man
and tries to "date" this man (really, she is one of his 5 fukk buddies)
Then years later she's this woman, has a baby or three, that guy is GONE IN THE WIND
It's the same story everytime bro. That's why I laugh and date non-black women. It's so much easier yet, nikkas keep playing themselves.
You're starting to learn. The only thing @DrX has accomplished so far this year are some featured threads. Is that the kind of guy you want to get real life advice from? :yadontsay:I truly don't know how to feel about threads like these anymore
On one hand there definitely be some hard truth being spoken
On the other hand a lot of shyt just sounds plain ol wrong & hurtful
Complexities...
The issue isn't that women aren't checking for these dudes, the issue is that Average dudes expect extraordinary women
If you're an average height, average looking, average dressing, average job .500 breh...don't expect some dime to give you the time of day
The issue is that people (men and women) tend to think much higher of themselves than the market. Women think that because they "go to the gym" occasionally, that the dress they are wearing at the club doesn't show the fat that they just can't burn off. Brehs who are "ambitious" but still broke want to pretend that they are balling when a Two Chainz or Migos song comes on, but be upset when they can't pull a dime in a Ford Taurus
If we keep it a buck, people need to stay in their lane. I'm a 7 looks wise (not bad, definitely not phenomenal, good shape but not 6'4'') and I'm ok dating another 7
This is true for men AND women but people will slit their wrists b4 admitting to it because everybody has to give a certain amount credence to what their genitalia regards as attractive while pretending others don't exist. And b/c people are married to their victimization b/c it lends credence to future c00ning endeavors. ("I was amazing and nobody wanted me so I had to get a white man/woman!" Translation: My goofy ass mad b/c the above average men and women of my own race ignored me, but I'm better than the dudes/chicks in my lane so I'm going to try and be the very best like no one ever was to attract a non-blk mate and show those bytches/nikkas what they missed out on! Yeah!The issue isn't that women aren't checking for these dudes, the issue is that Average dudes expect extraordinary women
If you're an average height, average looking, average dressing, average job .500 breh...don't expect some dime to give you the time of day
The issue is that people (men and women) tend to think much higher of themselves than the market. Women think that because they "go to the gym" occasionally, that the dress they are wearing at the club doesn't show the fat that they just can't burn off. Brehs who are "ambitious" but still broke want to pretend that they are balling when a Two Chainz or Migos song comes on, but be upset when they can't pull a dime in a Ford Taurus
If we keep it a buck, people need to stay in their lane. I'm a 7 looks wise (not bad, definitely not phenomenal, good shape but not 6'4'') and I'm ok dating another 7
In reality if I'd put forth that same effort for the people of my own race, I probably would have-- who cares about reality! I'll only improve for white people to teach blk people a lesson about overlooking me!
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