Black woman ain't fukking with the avg black man anymore. That's why u gotta chase the bag.

[Draje]

I don't think some of these nikkas live in reality

 

[Larry Lambo]

I'm focused on this paper chase but not gonna blame women for my shortcomings.

If I can't pull what I want, I can't pull what I want. Either settle for less, or level up.

 

[Weaver31]

average women won't willingly date average brehs. that's the problem. you have 8-9/10 beautiful looking nikkas (no homo no deray no skittles) using 4-6/10 women as a nut rag so these women think they're a 8-9/10. they won't settle for average brehs until they 30 with 200k miles on their p*ssy and realize the tall dark handsome won't happen.

social media is another problem because women want 8-9/10 men they can show off to their friends. then the ones who can't cuff a good looking guy won't settle because she doesn't wanna be seen as inferior to her friends. associating with an average breh for them means they're settling.

i've had multiple 4-6/10s think they're too good for me 6/10 because i'm not tall dark handsome. says more about them than about me. im not bitter about it, just keeping it real.

This is true. You have women who are basic, overweight and even unattractive who think their "market value" is higher than it is. This is due to thirsty dudes who are rated high and the simps. The thirsty supposedly "top tier" dudes are the worst because they are in the top 20%, and most women want them and they give attention and dyck to middle tier and low tier women which makes those women think they are high tier. The 80/20 logic towards female attraction has been discussed on here many times. It makes it very tough for the 80% of men who are not in the top 20%.

Simps also gas up women too much online and in social media as well as offline. That potent gas from the simps as well as the attention and dyck from the top 20% of men who just want to fuk or lead those average women on makes those women think their shyt don't stink. The playing field doesn't level out until she gets older, puzzy gets high azz mileage and she out of her prime. By then, she is willing to settle for the men on her level or slightly above or below whom she rejected earlier in her life...but those men probably don't still want her since she out her prime and looking worst than she did back in the day.

The game is much tougher for men unless u in the top 20%.

 

[New Username]

Insecurity leads to self hate and hate of others

 

[LuckyLibra619]

That blm thing was bullshyt...that was for gays, lesbian's, trans gendered and woman rights i see the guise of marching for black men being murdered by the cops

Because when u see a bw on the street she ain't checking for u....unless u some Reggie Bush looking nikka...no homo

BM aren't respected by no baby in this society unless they can got money, can ball, slang fandango dikk or spit a fire 16

Other than that you're invisible

Reggie Bush is a bad example to use even tho I get your point. That breh stays with a Non-Black woman on his arm, a good number of Black Women probably loathe Reggie Bush by now

 

[Weaver31]

The problem is, the average woman in general is overweight.
Any woman whose over 25 and doesn't have a gut or in shape is usually a dime, because most women in her age group are overweight.
So of course the in shape woman will get the most attention, and shes probably going to want a swole ass dude who looks like Drake or Omarion.

If you want a slim girl, who doesn't have a kid and you're over 25, its slim picking brehs unless you stalk college women. And thats not even taking into consideration their education. Sh-t I'd take over a 25 year black girl with no kids, and in shape. But in America, more than not she will be considered a dime, because of the obesity problem here.

You really notice the obesity here after you travel. Go to the Caribbean, every woman and man you see no matter what age has a flat stomach. You see so many women who are dimes when you travel, because 90% of the woman there under 50 have very little fat.

Meanwhile here, you are hard pressed to find a guy over 30 without a gut. I have a 2 uncles in Barbados over 60, and both their bodies look like Tupac in his prime.

Obesity is a huge problem in this country period. And yes its harder finding a woman who is 30+ with a slim waist and is healthy and works out. Sometimes its just due to the combo of giving birth, aging, poor diets of processed and fatty foods, and genetics/metabolism. Men in this country are overweight as well so u just can't put that on the women.

Then a lot of larger obese women don't have a problem finding dyck. Some (and I mean some cuz some big girls be pullin) may struggle finding a husband or a long term bf....but a fling or dyck...nah. And don't let her be an obese woman with confidence, sense of humor and a personable pleasant personality with a good fashion sense/hygiene....she got it made. Plus more black and Hispanic men are way more accepting of obese women...so those women may not feel the need to lose weight unless its health related.

 

[phcitywarrior]

These threads are always funny to me as a Nigerian. Like someone said, if you are always looking to grow, have your values in check, and maintain some humility you'll be good. Water will seek it's own level.

 

[DrX]

You such a doom and gloom ass nikka.
I don't see how you get out of bed every morning with type of mentality smh.

Naw it's called reality... But nikkas always wanna talk about bullshyt everyday and ignore having tough conversations about reality... it's going to come a day where were going to be killed on mass numbers.... black people have no idea what's going on....

We're in the meat grinder and don't even know it

 

[LuckyLibra619]

There is very little truth unless you ugly as fukk and a loser combined. Any dude that's halfway decent looking, not afraid to open his mouth, and definitely if they have something going for theirselves don't seem to have these problems. It's the nikkas with no lives that seem to be the most whining ass crew. Same for women just the qualifications change up some. I don't care what nobody says only unattractive broke folks out here consistently whining about this type of shyt period.

/thread

 

[DrX]

Reggie Bush is a bad example to use even tho I get your point. That breh stays with a Non-Black woman on his arm, a good number of Black Women probably loathe Reggie Bush by now

I'm just using him as an example of somebody that's aesthetically pleasing...no homo....

Handsome and muscular men will be able to smash and be used as arm candy....the rest will be rendered useless ...that's why I need the bag... because you'll have some leverage

 

[11101]

Naw it's called reality... But nikkas always wanna talk about bullshyt everyday and ignore having tough conversations about reality... it's going to come a day where were going to be killed on mass numbers.... black people have no idea what's going on....

We're in the meat grinder and don't even know it

Being pessimistic and being realistic two different things.Your outlook that the sky is falling is 100℅ pessimistic. If black women really don't like average black men that much, what's the problem? Nobody likes average anything. What's so hard about getting in shape and developing skills so you can make money. Nevermind let's all whine about how black women don't want us instead

 

[Hagendas]

OP can you go get a prostitute you sound like you have a life time of stress to release you stay making the same threads

 

[EARFQUAKE]

Lower your standards and you'll be ok

 

[AAKing23]

Black women only defend us when we are dead six feet in the ground from police brutality or when we are babies. We are only LOVED by them when are dead or a baby.

 

[DrX]

Being pessimistic and being realistic two different things.Your outlook that the sky is falling is 100℅ pessimistic. If black women really don't like average black men that much, what's the problem? Nobody likes average anything. What's so hard about getting in shape and developing skills so you can make money. Nevermind let's all whine about how black women don't want us instead

That's why we're in this mess... Because of nikkas like u...always justifying shyt

nikkas always wanna justify something instead of calling it is what it is....