The issue isn't that women aren't checking for these dudes, the issue is that Average dudes expect extraordinary women
If you're an average height, average looking, average dressing, average job .500 breh...don't expect some dime to give you the time of day
The issue is that people (men and women) tend to think much higher of themselves than the market. Women think that because they "go to the gym" occasionally, that the dress they are wearing at the club doesn't show the fat that they just can't burn off. Brehs who are "ambitious" but still broke want to pretend that they are balling when a Two Chainz or Migos song comes on, but be upset when they can't pull a dime in a Ford Taurus
If we keep it a buck, people need to stay in their lane. I'm a 7 looks wise (not bad, definitely not phenomenal, good shape but not 6'4'') and I'm ok dating another 7