Black wench moved to Greece to pay all the bills and subsidize her husband

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This is false. Plenty of black women put up with unemployed black men, let them live in their homes for free, and have their children. Those men aren’t marrying them. That’s the biggest difference between black men and white men. The white man will do women dirty, but marry them. The black man will do them dirty, and still not marry after stringing her along for years.
:sas1: interesting thought here

would black women shut up if the bums they chose married them?
 

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In all honesty the are black some who do this for black men who don't do shyt but stay home. Only difference I can think of is that these black women are as successful financially.
Black women will do this if the black man in question is a certain type of black man, that black women love alot (thugs).
 
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Why? Speak on it. :jbhmm:
You tend to live the same lifestyle you were raised in. If you had two married parents, and most of your friends had two married parents, you’re more likely to follow in their footsteps.

I think @Houston911 was joking.

But anyway there are two things here mixed as one--the first correct the second maybe a fallacy.

First, White men do have an overall higher rate of marriage though this is rapidly shrinking for the lower middle class and working class White men.

However, just because White men have a higher rate of marriage, does not mean that BW chances of ending up married with a White partner are much higher.

Interpreting White men's overall likelihood to getting married to be equal to a Black woman's chances a White man will marry her in a given relationship is bad logic and faulty inference.

First, the out of wedlock birth rate for Black women and White men isn't that much smaller than that for Black men when you control for education. Overall, BW marriages with White men is skewed towards educated BW--but educated BW typically have kids in wedlock with BM too.

Also, there is a bizarre amnesia in Black dating about the White men that string Black women along and don't marry them. Partially probably because Black women don't want to advertise past relationships with White men that ended poorly whereas Black men get aired out. This reinforces the perception that makes people think marrying down for a White person is somehow a win.
Just because they THINK those men will marry them, doesn’t mean it will happen. The kind of black women who “divested” have it in their minds that their relationships with white men will automatically be better than black men, or that those white men will support them. Other black women, who just so happened to fall in love with a white man tend to be more realistic. That idealized vision of a white partner has many non white people accepting things they normally wouldn’t. This applies to both genders.
:sas1: interesting thought here

would black women shut up if the bums they chose married them?

For some, yes. They value the title, and status of wife more than the actual relationship.
 

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This is false. Plenty of black women put up with unemployed black men, let them live in their homes for free, and have their children. Those men aren’t marrying them. That’s the biggest difference between black men and white men. The white man will do women dirty, but marry them. The black man will do them dirty, and still not marry after stringing her along for years.

I said HAPPILY

Not sing along to Mary j blige songs and complain to their friends
 

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It is her life and her money. If she is fine with the arangement, then I see no reason to be upset about it. I only have a problem when they try to use Black men, or in the case of Black men doing it, Black women as the reason why they are doing it. Don't blame the rest of us for decisions you made that may not turn out like you had hoped.
 

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I said this before, somebody told me that she felt shame and doesn't know why that she puts up with more from non black guys than black. She was with an arab guy who lived at home with his parents(the guy is in his 30s living with parents), but she didn't want black guy who made under 100k

The think pieces they're going to write about racial dynamics and how WS seeped into all fabrics of society 100-200 years from now is gonna be crazy. Assuming we don't blow each other up.
 

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She was a fool.

If you have debt you have debt. Do you want to marry the person despite the debt? Are they going to make the effort to pay it off before you marry?


I mean, I’m not turning down the offer :sas2: , but I def ain’t paying off a man’s debt so we can get married. He can just pay it off faster once our combined living expenses decrease 🤣


Type of fairytale foolishness is that.






And same for this story. I’m not leaving my country to finance a white man :what::stopitslime:


My fam would disown me

Only way I'm paying off $50,000 in debt for a woman is if i'm so wealthy that it's a drop in a bucket.

Otherwise, shorty gonna have to thug it out :stopitslime:
 

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I think @Houston911 was joking.

But anyway there are two things here mixed as one--the first correct the second maybe a fallacy.

First, White men do have an overall higher rate of marriage though this is rapidly shrinking for the lower middle class and working class White men.

However, just because White men have a higher rate of marriage, does not mean that BW chances of ending up married with a White partner are much higher.

Interpreting White men's overall likelihood to getting married to be equal to a Black woman's chances a White man will marry her in a given relationship is bad logic and faulty inference.

First, the out of wedlock birth rate for Black women and White men isn't that much smaller than that for Black men when you control for education. Overall, BW marriages with White men is skewed towards educated BW--but educated BW typically have kids in wedlock with BM too.

Also, there is a bizarre amnesia in Black dating about the White men that string Black women along and don't marry them. Partially probably because Black women don't want to advertise past relationships with White men that ended poorly whereas Black men get aired out. This reinforces the perception that makes people think marrying down for a White person is somehow a win.

One of my boy's mom was on that wave. My boy was lightskin but looked black, kinda like the guy who played Divine on the Wutang tv show. Wholetime I thought my bruh was black. After 2-3 years of knowing him, he finally felt comfortable enough to tell me his dad was white. Said he was a Joe Dirt lookin cac too. He dipped out on his mom after she got pregnant. His mom was smart though. She married a lightskin Braxton Hartnabrig lookin nikka and had a bunch of kids with him so everybody assumed my boy was his son too.
 

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I know a bunch of Greeks and they tend to be good with women. :yeshrug:

Lowkey of all the Europeans they the most Americanized when it comes to what they do to have fun too. Just get some drinks, some spliffs, and see where the bytches are at.
 

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Europe is nice, but as a Black American I fail to see why a lot of people relocate there nowadays. This isn't the 1940s-1990s where Europe was booming economically and liberal and was welcoming of the few Black faces around. It is becoming very right wing and anti-nonwhite. Greece is going the same way



And before you say the MAGA GOP is the same, at least we have citizenship, rights, and numbers here. If shyt goes left there her husband and his people are all she got.

I’ve had zero desire to visit europe
 
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