Black parents are dream killers, take their advice with caution, dont let them indoctrinate you

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Wouldn't say my parents were dream killers but I do believe there was a certain road my mom wanted me to travel but I didn't.

I've been a dentist for a lil over two years and I'm still not sure if she's proud of me.


:yeshrug:
 

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Soooo no bank loans? I find that hard to believe but okay..What type of buisiness is it?

I ain't lying, but I been on that outside of 9 to 5 tip for a while. You see it when the time comes.
 

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I ain't lying, but I been on that outside of 9 to 5 tip for a while. You see it when the time comes.

Hey hustle breh..imo...dont matter how you get it as long as you get it. That is to say there are several ways to get this bread. The goal is to get it.
 

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Because they had no access to the sane doors we do. Yall are to oblivious to the landscape of America prior to the 80s/90s. When I say laid the groundwork that refers to civil rights...labor laws...affirmitive action...changing the poltical landscape...bridging the maibstream gap.

We have access to the things you mention because of thier sacrafice. It wasnt thier job to break into those fields. Its ours.
There was another thread about this already, my grandparents went to college in the 40s as did a few of their siblings :yeshrug:
The majority of Black people weren't actively pushing for any of that, the "talented tenth" were also the 10% or so who actively worked in the Civil Rights Movement, and helped push large-scale legislation nationally.
Most people were just chilling: going to work, having children they couldn't afford, retiring with little to no savings, etc.
 

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Ppl will get mad at you and say you're lying, but if they feel that way they should answer this, if older black ppl were actually building like that, where are all the black businesses they set up to employ our ppl (so that we wouldn't have to be so dependent on the offspring of those who enslaved us for employment)?....yall can get all emotional but you know it's true :yeshrug:

And I know a nikka will say, "b-b-but what are you doing nikka?" I'm doing the opposite of what old nikkas did. BUILDING.
yall are so disrespectful :snoop:
 

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By not qualifying his statement with "a lot" or "most" or "some," the implication is that he meant all. Furthermore, if he didn't mean all then there is no premise for this thread. At the very least he is saying that the overwhelming majority of black parents are bad... but the reality is the same could apply to American parents of any race. His opinion of what makes a bad parent is one based primarily in HIS OWN opinion of what a good parent should do. Working for "the white man" can make people millioniares and put them into position to allow their children to build. But apparently he wants to skip that step. Wealth isn't created out of thin air. If my parents didn't work for "the white man" and "the white government" I wouldnt have been provided with the same opportunities I have now (like free healthcare until 26. Now my mother is a retired VP bank branch manager and my step dad is a government contractor after serving 30 years in the military. Now maybe I can start my own business because of them... and that's just ONE of the flaws in his argument. Fl

All of my friends growing up have what I'd consider good parents except for 1. All black. They are now a lawyer, a doctor, a PA, a Health Director at a hospital, an Assistant AD at a D-1 school, a social worker and an E6 in the military... and we all went to the worst high school in our city with a 70% black population.

Sidenote: My mother was a single parent at one point as well. Luckily my step father wasn't a coli member or my mother would have had to work twice as hard to give us the same opportunities.
sir, stop it. you know very well that if a person makes a general statement and the shyt doesn't apply to you, you aren't offended by it.

If someone came out right now and said "black people are poor" im black, im not poor, that shyt doesnt bother me because it doesn't apply to me.
He's saying that the overwhelming majority of black parents are bad, because news flash, they are. All i gotta do is go to west philly and see kids running around unsupervised, while their mom is out clubbing or doing whatever but not raising their kids. These type of situations are extremely common and not just in west philly, in north philly, southwest, baltimore, chicago, your hood, and every other hood the same bullshyt is going on.

You can keep trying to pretend that the stats dont show blacks in last place in every good statistical category all you want, while i'll continue to adress it and do my best not to end of being just another statistic.

Your comments about working for white people are true, I don't disagree.

Still cant ignore the fact 27.4% of blacks are living in poverty compared to just 9.9% of whites, 13% of asians so how can we apply this samething to all american parents like you stated above?

so how many black parents out there are like yours? not many at all and it's a shame because there needs to be more.


Alot of facts support drx's claims so it is a very educated opinion and so he can make generalizations based upon research that points in that very direction...


sidenote: Poverty rates for Black families vary based on the family type. While 23% of all Black families live below the poverty level only 8% of Black married couple families live in poverty which is considerably lower than the 37% of Black families headed by single women who live below the poverty line. The highest poverty rates (46%) are for Black families with children which are headed by single Black women. This is significant considering more than half (55%) of all Black families with children are headed by single women.
 

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There was another thread about this already, my grandparents went to college in the 40s as did a few of their siblings :yeshrug:
The majority of Black people weren't actively pushing for any of that, the "talented tenth" were also the 10% or so who actively worked in the Civil Rights Movement, and helped push large-scale legislation nationally.
Most people were just chilling: going to work, having children they couldn't afford, retiring with little to no savings, etc.

Hate to say this, but you right. :francis:

Too many black folk were content on being basic and living average that now, in this era, being basic will bite you in the ass. Having kids OOW ain't smart financially or socially, but too many black folk were stuck on the tradition of dysfunction.
 

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There was another thread about this already, my grandparents went to college in the 40s as did a few of their siblings :yeshrug:
The majority of Black people weren't actively pushing for any of that, the "talented tenth" were also the 10% or so who actively worked in the Civil Rights Movement, and helped push large-scale legislation nationally.
Most people were just chilling: going to work, having children they couldn't afford, retiring with little to no savings, etc.

College is not the end all be all though.Yall got to stop with these one size should fit all mindsets. Its pigeon holding philosophies.
 

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Hate to say this, but you right. :francis:

Too many black folk were content on being basic and living average that now, in this era, being basic will bite you in the ass. Having kids OOW ain't smart financially or socially, but too many black folk were stuck on the tradition of dysfunction.

See the post above:martin:
 

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College is not the end all be all though.Yall got to stop with these one size should fit all mindsets. Its pigeon holding philosophies.
This is reductive thinking.
College certainly isn't the "end-all be-all" but there certainly shouldn't be any opposition to it.
We as Americans have this odd thinking that college is somehow "seperate" from middle school and high school. Its not, its a continuation and should be treated as such.
Nothing "pigeon-holing" about pushing higher education: we will continue to need more doctors, engineers, programmers, accountants, researchers, etc.
 
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