I see what you're saying brehette, but you're still kinda dodging the question. I'm not saying it's socially acceptable or anything but if we're just talking about hooking up with young women in the black community, I wouldn't call them thugs, but the "bad boys" ON AVERAGE are going to have an advantage over the "nerd". Probably for a plethora of reasons, social status, social skills, etc. the point is, it still happens. Though exaggerated dudes haven't been pushing this narrative for no reason. I know the general response to this would be "well guys shouldn't just be chasing after sex," obviously but that isn't the point of this topic let's just keep it 100 here for a minute.
All that being said the textbook definition of the nerd lost because he simply lacks charisma and social skills. I consider myself a "nerd" at heart, but I still eat with women yes including black women because I know how to at least carry a conversation with the opposite sex. Lot of nikkas in frats, black orgs, are the farthest things from thugs and kinda corny but they still eat and really you don't even have to do that much. But if you don't at least look halfway decent and can't string a sentence together I don't blame a woman for not fukking with you. Now are there women out there that would still take a thug over a social-lite nerd everything else being equal? Yes, don't let any Coli women tell you different either, but if you look decent, have some sort of game and can stop yourself from being an awkward fakkit in front of the opposite sex, the thugs shouldn't matter because you will be eating regardless. Let's be honest a lot of you guys are just extra lame and/or unattractive which is the reason you're not getting women.