Black Men Should Never Go To this particular black female therapist
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It speaks to how black men interact with each other. Then again, doing so with a level of respect is seen as "coddling" and "wanting to be talked to as women" by some black men on this very forum, let alone our community. Until we push back on the toxic elements and those who push it, it's a problem that will continue and even more, lead to some wanting nothing to do with their own race.
As for this bytch, while it is clear that men would be good to be more discerning in their choices, it seems like the men that have her riled were doing just that and even then, there is a veneer of victim-blaming in regards to how this is being perceived. The simple fact is that not enough is done to comment on the women who have actual hatred for their own people and that is a serious problem.
Even in this day and age most Black men would clown you and call you weak and a cac for trying to seek mental help via therapy (just see the replies in this thread) but nobody on this board is ready for that type of discussion.
This is not true. Of course there is some type stigma associated with going to see a therapist. However, it’s nowhere as big as y’all make it seem. I got a big circle of friends and all we do is clown each other. I’m talking about non stop. In person, in the group text, etc… Calling nikkas sensitive, calling nikkas gay, calling nikkas ugly, etc… But ain’t no one ever gonna clown anyone for seeing a therapist to they face or amongst each other.
Last week I literally just told one of my partners he needs to go see a therapist. The nikka got a history of mental illness and got a psychiatrist but I don’t think he seen them in a while. He came up here and I was telling breh he needed to get it together. He was like, that’s why I came up here cause I knew you would keep it real with me. I was like yeah, but you got real mental illness issues so you need to go to your psychiatrist as well.
I don’t think the average black man is gonna clown you for seeking therapy. That’s simply not true.
From what I remember, the DC mental health community was pretty small.
Can you use services in MD or VA?
I think you’d have much better luck.
feelosofer
#ninergang
There are a lot of great Black female therapists out there. But this lady is not one of them and these women should be called out and exposed. There are not a lot Black males in this space and there needs to be more of them
Fixed the title for you OP
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Thread title change 
I see coli brehs are growing up
I see coli brehs are growing up
Jean Jacket
NOPE
Some of ya'll need to stop pushing negative stigma about therapy.
If/when you need to talk to somebody you need to handle that.
Find an LPC...over a LCSW (social worker).
They have a more well rounded approach and more education/certification requirements.
If/when you need to talk to somebody you need to handle that.
Find an LPC...over a LCSW (social worker).
They have a more well rounded approach and more education/certification requirements.
AlbertPullhoez
The Takeover
Thread title changed. Folks must have gotten on OP's head 
I think I may need to make a thread on how to find a decent therapist.
There are things that aren't obvious to folks who haven't been in that space before.
Finding a good one for YOU is it's own work.
For real. Even the well off brehs needs to release mental stress with a professional therapist by talking bout their problems.
All this super tough "rah rah" shyt will lead you to an early grave.
Busted_Toes
Veteran
My last two therapist have been Black women, didn't work. Next time i'm going to try Asian.
