Black men how do we convince black women to love their natural hair?

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Your projecting you c00n thoughts on black men.
:mjlol: you acting like these are not the thoughts of this cats saying they won't even look at a chick with weave don't think like. Why try to deflect a issue? btw what im trying to say is that many of our black men and women still see "natural" hair as being ugly.
 

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That you're with an Asian woman and she's perfect.

She is. She's respectful, supportive, understanding, good looking, healthy, educated, conservative, family oriented, culturally sound, and treats me just as good as I treat her, if not better. :ehh:

That doesn't have too much to do with me thinking good looking black women with natural hair, look good to me.:yeshrug:

What's your beef, pleighboi?:ld:
 

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Your saying black men dont like women with dreads?

Your obviously projecting your c00n thoughts on black men.

I said most though............ Most dudes idea of natural is the light skinned jawn I posted but would ridicule a girl with "natural" hair in the other pic. But obviously you're baiting for daps and reps here so ill let you cook
 

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A girl dressed in a hijab & robe could have the lowest self esteem in the world.:mjpls:
:mjlol: & My belly button? That's not even sexual.

You're clearly seeking attention. You want some sort of approval. Classic narcissism. Dead giveaway of a person with low self esteem.

You think I'm new to this game?
 

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Man i dnt even look at a chick the same when i see that nasy ass yacky on her head :deargod: how can u proudly wlk around with sum foreign bytch hair in yo head :deargod: most weave wearers dnt even keep they shyt lookin nice or whateva due to financial issues. Not only does it look dumb the psychological affects it causes is tremendous, lil black girls are taught to hate their "nappy" hair and instead put all this unecessary stuff in they head causing damage. The have no actual role models when it comes to natural beauty; lets not even get into the fact foreign companies are making money of bw's insecurities. Natural bw please chime in too.
is fake hair really that bad?

I have never thought about it this deeply, school me breh
 

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Yup when they think curly natural hair what they don't tell you is that they really mean this

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NOT this
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Then got the nerve to be talking about natural hair when most shave themselves practically bald, so that they don't have to "deal" with it. Then the ones with long natural hair are like "well I did it why can't you"? Knowing damn well that they only wore one style for 3 years, and barely touched their hair. Something people would look at women crazy for doing. It'll be "why don't you switch your style up" and "you should change your hair". Manipulation is the mortal enemy of natural hair, and when women find a low manipulation hairstyle (weave) it's a problem? Then the big elephant in the room... blacks have been told that their hair is less than, unkempt, unprofessional, and a whole other host of negative things for centuries. Of course some people are going to believe that indoctrination. But, no let's worry about women who don't wear their natural hair and make fun of them instead of doing something like educating our people and building a black economy. Oh, and all this coming from someone with natural hair. :stopitslime:

Brehette you're beautiful. I said so. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise. :wow:
 

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Just simple encouragement of the ones (young and old) that do wear natural hair should suffice :yeshrug:

I'm torn on the issue overall because I'm not just attracted to black women so I like different kinds of hair. Natural afro, to curls, to straight. I even like women with short hair now, I never used to like it much on women when I was younger. So to me, I think that black women should be encouraged to wear whatever style they want, personally. Of course, they shouldn't be ashamed of their natural hair at all, but at the same time - it's just hair.

I'm not exactly "against" weave either.
 

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this is like the chicken or the egg argument.

i think the responsibility is on BW to love their hair first. if a son grows up in a home where his mother and sisters are perming, wearing weaves, etc; why would he grow up and love natural hair that he hasn't seen? or when he does see natural hair, 9/10 its short and damaged? yall have to set the example for us.

fukked up part is BW will call BM gay for trying to critique their hair. getting yall to go natural as a BM is hard. it takes a WM to come along and tell y'all to love your hair before you actually do it

I agree with you on that point, however, black men need to change their mentality.
 

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She is. She's respectful, supportive, understanding, good looking, healthy, educated, conservative, family oriented, culturally sound, and treats me just as good as I treat her, if not better. :ehh:

That doesn't have too much to do with me thinking good looking black women with natural hair, look good to me.:yeshrug:

What's your beef, pleighboi?:ld:

:wow: sad
 
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