Black men HATE Weave, But Give Us LESS Play Natural. Why?

[Elle]

They black to me.

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afro cuban (3 black grandparents 1 100% native amerikan one) , Jamaican ( 1 white great grandparent so looks mixed tho) , West African

WHO THE hell knocked up hally again.... I just looked up her daughter and seen this? ? She's preg?

Her husband. That little boy is probably one or two by now.

 

[Swirv]

I love naturals. They make me want to put babies in them.

 

[philmonroe]

Sure I am different than them but you're entitled to your opinion. I'm not saying that NO women with short, "nappy" hair receive attention from guys, I'm saying the typical guy that claims to love a woman with natural hair is NOT thinking about a chick with a nappy fade. Even Marcuz admitted that men want length. Yes, there men that don't have a preference as long as it's natural. It's not a big deal either way.

Bold is too funny like dude represents all black males. shyt dude would get laughed at probably commit that talking to real people offline with his silly views so next time use a better person than him to get your point across. Thanks for reminding me I'm entitled to my opinion had forgot all about that. I still hold to the fact people have excuses for everything even this stuff and you're right we can agree to disagree.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Honest Question Bruhs...


I am natural, but I also wear sew ins & weaves SOMETIMES as well.


I notice that I get MORE play from black men with long weave than I do when my natural hair is out and kinky.


Why?


Do black men only like natural hair when it's long and straight like a Europeans or Asians?

I see this thread has already gone 5 pages. I'm sure it took the usual "weave thread" route where 100% of the dudes state that they only date natural women and every woman in their family wear their shyt natural.

The truth is this... men don't care about your hair. If you look good, we're good. Might we prefer natural hair for non-attraction related reasons? Sure. But is a weave gonna break the deal? Absolutely not.

 

[bdwind01]

I prefer natural

Would I be wrong if I thought black women liked the natural hair texture of a mulatto or white woman over their own?

 

[Rawtid]

Bold is too funny like dude represents all black males. shyt dude would get laughed at probably commit that talking to real people offline with his silly views so next time use a better person than him to get your point across. Thanks for reminding me I'm entitled to my opinion had forgot all about that. I still hold to the fact people have excuses for everything even this stuff and you're right we can agree to disagree.

It's lovely that you and all the men you know like bald head, nappy hair, women. The typical guy looks for length. This isn't the first thread on this topic and I can assure you that very few women with a cut like Lupita's has ever been pictured as a natural hair preference. Again, it's nothing wrong with a guy that doesn't like short hair.

You can disagree with Marcuz if you want about other things, but he's on point about the length and I can assure he would get props, even from your friends, if he said men prefer length lol. You just like to disagree, even when you know you're wrong.

 

[Poitier]

I see this thread has already gone 5 pages. I'm sure it took the usual "weave thread" route where 100% of the dudes state that they only date natural women and every woman in their family wear their shyt natural.

The truth is this... men don't care about your hair. If you look good, we're good. Might we prefer natural hair for non-attraction related reasons? Sure. But is a weave gonna break the deal? Absolutely not.

Yup

Say no more

Hair is a non issue given black peoples condition.... Far greater things to address

 

[philmonroe]

It's lovely that you and all the men you know like bald head, nappy hair, women. The typical guy looks for length. This isn't the first thread on this topic and I can assure you that very few women with a cut like Lupita's has ever been pictured as a natural hair preference. Again, it's nothing wrong with a guy that doesn't like short hair.

You can disagree with Marcuz if you want about other things, but he's on point about the length and I can assure he would get props, even from your friends, if he said men prefer length lol. You just like to disagree, even when you know you're wrong.

Thats not what I said but continue to hype things up for no apparent reason. The typical guy don't care but I guess that's what you learned from Marcus though. In a setting like this where you can answer the question logically yeah that sounds good but IRL it don't work like that at all. I never said it was something wrong with a person that didn't like short hair. He wouldn't get props from my friends and I'd bet my life on that talking about hair length and shyt over facial looks. Oh another person studying me saying I like to disagree to disagree show the proof or stfu with the lies.

 

[MoonGoddess]

It's lovely that you and all the men you know like bald head, nappy hair, women. The typical guy looks for length. This isn't the first thread on this topic and I can assure you that very few women with a cut like Lupita's has ever been pictured as a natural hair preference. Again, it's nothing wrong with a guy that doesn't like short hair.

You can disagree with Marcuz if you want about other things, but he's on point about the length and I can assure he would get props, even from your friends, if he said men prefer length lol. You just like to disagree, even when you know you're wrong.

Lol, anything we say as women is automatically dismissed as not true. It's like we just talking out our ass. Like it's impossible for these guys to understand that we are talking from experience. They can complain and generalize but we are just making shyt up. Like how the fukk you gonna tell me what I've gone through or people that I know that's had the same experience. The only thing is I know it's not all men that think like this. I remember when I let my hair grow natural and this dude that was in love with asked when I was gonna perm that nappy shyt on top of my head lol. These nikkas don't want to be honest.

 

[Be@t Bangerz Fan]

I love the natural look (I've always been attracted it), but I don't discriminate, I love the weave-heads, too. You just gotta know how to how to pull it off. It can't be over-done.

 

[King Poetic]

look of course black men going to give women with more long hair play than with natural hair.. that's how brainwash negroz are because of america society and image

just like women hate bad boyz and men with a bunch of kidz but give educated men with no kids less play, why??

we live in a image conscious society... but give me these types of women anyday

 

[Be@t Bangerz Fan]

Lol, anything we say as women is automatically dismissed as not true. It's like we just talking out our ass. Like it's impossible for these guys to understand that we are talking from experience. They can complain and generalize but we are just making shyt up. Like how the fukk you gonna tell me what I've gone through or people that I know that's had the same experience. The only thing is I know it's not all men that think like this. I remember when I let my hair grow natural and this dude that was in love with asked when I was gonna perm that nappy shyt on top of my head lol. These nikkas don't want to be honest.

, damn! I've actually had the exact opposite happen before.

Me: Your hair looks real nice like that. It fits you well and it compliments your look...gives you that natural beauty. It's sexy!

Her: I don't like my hair like this, plus it's hard to keep up the maintenance on this nappy shyt. It's expensive! I'mma put a perm in it and call it a night. I can't deal with this natural look.

The next time I saw her, her hair was permed.

 

[philmonroe]

Lol, anything we say as women is automatically dismissed as not true. It's like we just talking out our ass. Like it's impossible for these guys to understand that we are talking from experience. They can complain and generalize but we are just making shyt up. Like how the fukk you gonna tell me what I've gone through or people that I know that's had the same experience. The only thing is I know it's not all men that think like this. I remember when I let my hair grow natural and this dude that was in love with asked when I was gonna perm that nappy shyt on top of my head lol. These nikkas don't want to be honest.

This where shyt sound stupid at. Y'all talking from experience but we not eh? That makes no sense we both have experiences its just some are different than others period. All that stuff you saying can easily be turned around and asked right back to you so what are you really saying at the end of the day?

 

[Raava]

@Mowgli has seem all my partners... ask him if they are all black in his opinion.
if they are black would I still be a c00n just due to the 3c < shyt ?

Do you prefer one texture over another?

I hate this excuse.

Black men have the same hair, but somehow it's not a "hassle" for black men to maintain their hair on the daily. How can your own hair be a hassle?

Peace

most men don't even keep a lot of hair on there head. That is not an equal comparison. Dreads are easier to maintain.

 

[Blackking]

Her husband. That little boy is probably one or two by now.

Her black husband? ?