Black Men Confessions

[RoyalQ]

That one dude about dark skin girls liking light skin men is the truth and whether they want to admit or not they push darkskin men away so we put the light skin women on pedestals instead of them

Its starts at a young age and when men get grown that feel is still there

Interesting because ive noticed the opposite. On bw forums they seem to prefer dark skin men iver lightskin men, and men prefer light skin over dark. Make a thread on lipstickalley that says post handsome men and youll get flooded with darkskin black men and very few lightskin men. Make a thread here that says post beautiful women and youll get flooded with lightskin women and non-black women with very few dark Bw. And i see this in real life too. Many dark men marry lightskin women, and many dark women marry lightskin men. Just my observation.

 

[agnosticlady]

Oh look... nikkas in here calling the dudes "gay" just like what the posts say they would do.

Lol, I wonder what makes them gay.Nobody on here really know these men. They are just expressing a thought, I could say, "Confession I don't know how I'm going to pay my bills today" People would assume that I'm going broke, but it could mean that I'm over at someone's place who has no internet and no car.

 

[RoyalQ]

I can't lie, when I was like 16 I was called a "p*ssy" and "gay" because I didn't have a gf, let alone multiple bytches on the roster. As a brown or black kid the stereotype is that you're hypersexual, and if you happen to be shy or a little aloof like I was fro whatever reason (I has just left my home in CAR for France, was living far from family and didn't really have any friends, but no one wants to hear that) then obviously there's something "wrong" with you. The stereotype is well ingrained, as we can see here on the Coli.

I hate how hypersexual the media makes black men. Like all yall supposed to do all day is smash chicks. Its disgusting and dehumanizing. And some bozos play it up too and emphasis having sex constantly. I cant listen to a hip hop or r&b song nowadays without hearing about how much a black man us going to sex a woman up. I cant imagine what that does to a young black man psychologically. You guys must feel so much pressure to be hypersexual and hypermasculine. I wish all black men can just exhale and let it all go.

 

[AAKing23]

I hate how hypersexual the media makes black men. Like all yall supposed to do all day is smash chicks. Its disgusting and dehumanizing. And some bozos play it up too and emphasis having sex constantly. I cant listen to a hip hop or r&b song nowadays without hearing about how much a black man us going to sex a woman up. I cant imagine what that does to a young black man psychologically. You guys must feel so much pressure to be hypersexual and hypermasculine. I wish all black men can just exhale and let it all go.

It's like being strapped in with a seat belt that's extra tight with little to no leeway.


Black men are put in a very tight constraint of masculinity, it's so much pressure to stay within those confines.


It's the reason that so many black men resort to hyper-masculinity for the fear of being called gay or weak. As evidenced by this thread.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

eve said it in some interview about her husband, and they act like every black woman with a white man says it

Lately I've been looking at your post like. Either you haven't been on the Internet much or you're blind to it, but I've heard the tamed statement from plenty of black women dating white dudes. As of recent I even heard a 40 year old with 2 kids say she only dates white men smh

 

[underwaterboogiebaby]

Good to see/know the other emotional side of black men DOES exist. A side I really wish I could get to know, but often times, they themselves don't even like to admit exists

 

[miranda]

Lately I've been looking at your post like. Either you haven't been on the Internet much or you're blind to it, but I've heard the tamed statement from plenty of black women dating white dudes. As of recent I even heard a 40 year old with 2 kids say she only dates white men smh

what have i posted that has you upset? and sorry, i just remember the tamed statement from eve

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

what have i posted that has you upset? and sorry, i just remember the tamed statement from eve

I'll have to scour through recent messages you've left

 

[iBrowse]

Oh look... nikkas in here calling the dudes "gay" just like what the posts say they would do.

You see it too

 

[YouCherThatGirl]

It's like being strapped in with a seat belt that's extra tight with little to no leeway.


Black men are put in a very tight constraint of masculinity, it's so much pressure to stay within those confines.


It's the reason that so many black men resort to hyper-masculinity for the fear of being called gay or weak. As evidenced by this thread.

This. It took me forever to realize it, but the easiest solution is to just shield yourself from the noise. Cut off the radio. Turn off the TV. And feel the difference. Alot of nikkas haven't had an original thought in years and don't even know it. All that shyt is programming. nikkas, however unwittingly, are conditioning themselves for a life of fukk shyt and mediocrity and pointing fingers at everyone but themselves. It's a simple fix. Turn that shyt off. You get out off anything what you put into it. You eat garbage all day, you feel like shyt, and you look like shyt. Same goes for your for your mind. You let trash into your subconscious, your thoughts will be riddled with filth and you're gonna put that right back into the world. shyt's not rocket science.

 

[JMill782]

 

[JMill782]

 

[JMill782]

you bruhs fukk with Punk Rock ?

 

[iBrowse]

I hope coli nikkas aren't making those posts.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

Well i feel like i can't do anything anytime i start doing what i like its a problem and i have to conform for everyone else