While I definitely feel what they are saying but these days I find myself having a "survival of the fittest" philosophy more and more. I know a lot of successful black men from my fathers generation - doctors, lawyers, engineers, business owners etc - and the one constant between all of them is that they don't waste time complaining.
Through 24 years of life I can only recall one experience where any of them complained. And these days, that's a philosophy that I'm adding on to my own life. One of the best things a man can do for his life is to adopt the mindset of Bruce Lee and pray "Not for an easy life but for the strength to endure a hard one."