Black Male privilege is as real as White Privilege

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So the new wave is calling Black Men "KKK members" and "agents?" I see you :obama:
 

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Look at your posts about Black women, single motherhood and welfare and tell me if you can distinguish them from something you'd find on st0rmfr0nt? Look at your posts about how supposedly undesirable Black women are to everybody, and tell me where else you could find that but from the mouth of someone who hates Black women? Look at your posts downplaying or flat out ignoring the racism and sexism Black women face and tell me that isn't out of the rule book for whites denying their privilege?

Yes, you may as well be a klansman. To be fair I actually don't know that any of you are really Black, so by all intents and purposes you really could be klansmen. But whatever the hell you are, you have their talking points about Black women down to a T.
 

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:dead: at pointless rant and then goes on to keep attempting to derail the discussion into prying into my background. No. Go ahead and focus on the argument at hand and your virulent hatred of Black women.
derail what discussion, you didn't address anything. :dahell:

but seriously, are you nigerian? i'm always perplexed at africans, or black women in other parts of the world ( @LadySimone ) defending black american feminism.
 

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derail what discussion, you didn't address anything. :dahell:

but seriously, are you nigerian? i'm always perplexed at africans, or black women in other parts of the world ( @LadySimone ) defending black american feminism.

There was nothing to address :dahell: You don't bring statistics or any semblance of facts to the tablet first of all, then second of all you straight up say you are going to ignore statistics when they are brought to you. Thats what you did to The Real and myself.

If you're talking about that nonsense post where you responded to me inside my own quote (who does that :dahell:), I told you to reformat it so that I can address it, even though I'm sure none of your responses actually addressed the mine that you were responded to. If I have the decency to write my responses in a way that you can easily address them point by point, you will do the same.
 

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There was nothing to address :dahell: If you're talking about that nonsense post where you responded to me inside my own quote (who does that :dahell:), I told you to reformat it so that I can address it. If I have the decency to write my responses in a way that you can easily address them point by point, you will do the same.

someone addressed me in this thread with the same quoting style, which is why i used it. now stop tap dancing, are you nigerian or what? where are you from :pachaha:
 

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Look at your posts about Black women, single motherhood and welfare

If the shoe fits.

I criticize out of love and care.


Look at your posts about how supposedly undesirable Black women are to everybody, and tell me where else you could find that but from the mouth of someone who hates Black women?

No, I say Black women are to everybody BUT Black Men. Why is that a problem?

Look at your posts downplaying or flat out ignoring the racism and sexism Black women face and tell me that isn't out of the rule book for whites denying their privilege?

How? I say domestic violence and beauty standards are a legitimate issue for Black women.
 

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If the shoe fits.

I criticize out of love and care.

No, you do it out of hate. That much is obvious. Why women you hate are so on your mind is the real question.

No, I say Black women are to everybody BUT Black Men. Why is that a problem?

Because you say it as an insult to BW. Its one thing for me to say BM are the least educated group, its another thing for me to frame it as Black men being idiots. You do the latter as it concerns BW and desirability. The kicker of course, is that in regards to BM, non-BW display the same amount of dispreference for you. Thats what those OKCupid studies you all love to quote to bring Black women's esteem down say. But you jump through hoops to downplay this and talk about how high BM's IR rates are, as if that isn't in direct correlation to Black men's pursuit of other women despite their dispreference for you.

How? I say domestic violence and beauty standards are a legitimate issue for Black women.

Lies. I have been in a colorism thread before on this site with you in it. You all threw every issue back in the face of Black women and made it our fault and merely about a lack of confidence and security in ourselves, despite the fact that among women our self confidence tends to be the highest despite the constant jabs at us outside and inside the community. That Tank thread is a prime example of the way coli militants handle issues that concern Black women.
 
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No, you do it out of hate. That much is obvious. Why women you hate are so on your mind is the real question..

I hate BW, why? Because you say so? Because you can't handle criticism?


Because you say it as an insult to BW. Its one thing for me to say BM are the least educated group, its another thing for me to frame it as Black men being idiots. You do the latter as it concerns BW and desirability. The kicker of course, is that in regards to BM, non-BW display the same amount of dispreference for you. thats what those OKCupid studies you all love to quote to bring Black women's esteem down say. But you jump through hoops to downplay this and talk about how high BM's IR rates are, as if that isn't in direct correlation to Black men's pursuit of other women.

You have never seen me glorify non Black women or boast about IR.I bring up desirability to point out that BM and BW cannot run from each other. We are in this together.

Lies. I have been in a colorism thread before on this site with you in it. You all threw every issue back in the face of Black women and made it our fault and merely about a lack of confidence and security in ourselves, despite the fact that among women our self confidence tends to be the highest despite the constant jabs at us outside and inside the community. That Tank thread is a prime example of the way coli militants handle issues that concern Black women.

The Tank thread attempted to shame BM for liking mixed women and continued the false narrative of Black Women being loyal and how yall are turning down stadiums of WM

I never said anything to denigrate any skin color

The point remains that I agree that BW should own media platforms to control their image and that we as a community need to address domestic violence against BW
 
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@PartyHeart You are African. Go nag African men about their "privilege" and "hate" of BW.

That explains it all. I was dating this half African half white chick who was a staunch feminist. That's when it clicked, she may technically be more Afro-American than me, but we are not the same people, don't have the same history or heritage, and don't have collective experiences. They think all it takes is being treated the same by white man that doesn't know them from Adam, but black people are more than that. I say black and that only belies our situation in this country: the fact there is no commonly accepted word to delineate us blacks descended from slaves from a 2nd Gen nigerian. There's a difference and when they talk about their culture or are around their own culture they get it for sure, but when it comes to us they want to be down too because white men on the street view us the same way. Na, being "black" is deeper than that. And again I'd use another word since we are both black but I don't have one. Back to the point, yea it makes sense. If she was "black" she'd probably be more keen to the nuance of being a black man in the US. In any event, she shouldn't be talking any more than I should be about whatever country she's from.
 

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Yea African dudes get automatic child custody in the motherland and beat their women with impunity. I know African dudes that moved to the US and bytch constantly about how their women now behave since in the states. They even insult the shyt out of US black women and call them crazy and question how I can handle one. I can totally believe African black men exercise a certain amount of privilege over African black women in the US. But US black men and US black women have different relationships. That's why when you put a US black man in a place like DR or Brazil they lose their shyt.
 
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