Your attempts to make this about feelings ignores that people have expectations when they spend money. Aligning yourself with problematic organizations in exchange for money is a long term recipe for disaster even if it means short term benefits like being able to buy Black kids computers.
You're arguing that this is about ego when in reality it's about ethics. Uber could have silently donated money to this group if they were genuinely interested in helping anyone who isn't Uber but they NEED people to know they're donating money to minorities, that's literally the only way they'll get their money's worth.
You're still harlem shaking the question.
Which is more important to you:
140 underprivileged black girls getting $1000 programming rigged up laptops
Or
Uber not getting positive publicity off of donating to your movement.
Just answer the question. Do you really believe it is more important that Uber does not get positive publicity off your organization than the 140 black girls that money could have helped out?
Because I'm saying it's more important that those black girls get those laptops. What are YOU saying?