Marc Spector
the 4'11 Cuban
yall mad but its the truth
Nearly every Black male in my life had children with women they werent married to and only a few married the women they had children with. Its something we gotta accept.
Big Sean Juelzing Like a Coli Breh when Asked Why He Had Baby with Jhene but Didn't Marry Her.
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Nearly every Black male in my life had children with women they werent married to and only a few married the women they had children with. Its something we gotta accept.
I thought it was a nice conversation between two men in similar situations. CTG didn’t come at him crazy at all. It seemed that he was giving good advice. The only downside was that Big Sean seemed uncomfortable discussing it on camera, but it’s a pretty good convo for those willing to have it.
A lot of people are going back and forth pointing fingers at each other about accountability, but this is what accountability looks like. It’s men talking to men and women talking to women from a place that’s constructive and positive.
From what Big Sean is describing, it seems that he has love for Jhene but doesn’t see it for her overall. They both seem to have a lot of issues. They should have been cut ties but instead had a baby to make sure they stayed linked without a good foundation. Same story, just another day.
A lot of people are going back and forth pointing fingers at each other about accountability, but this is what accountability looks like. It’s men talking to men and women talking to women from a place that’s constructive and positive.
From what Big Sean is describing, it seems that he has love for Jhene but doesn’t see it for her overall. They both seem to have a lot of issues. They should have been cut ties but instead had a baby to make sure they stayed linked without a good foundation. Same story, just another day.
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I wound't be surprised is Big Sean met another woman and got married after a year and a half.
cyndaquil
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This is true. You can love someone but not see marriage with them. That's where it gets hard. The other thing is people change especially when they are younger. Goals and values shift and you drift apart. So many young people getting married early before they truly know themselves and who they are and want they want. Marriages take work and effort but at the same time you can't put yourself in a situation where you wake up every morning feeling dissatisfied with who you wake up next to.A man will do anything for a woman he truly loves......thats what marriage is. Men know how much marriage means to women and give them that as their ultimate gift because they want them to be happy.
He waiting for the woman he truly loves to come into his life .....just because you look nice that don't make you nice to be around
I was with someone for a long time who I tried to make it work with. She wanted marriage I did too but there were qualities she was missing that I wanted in a partner and that was holding me back. So instead of breaking it off, because I loved her, I instead listened to her and believed she would change and take on more of those qualities. She did for a while but would revert back to her previous ways in the end with similar excuses. In the end I began feeling resentment and I knew I couldn't continue living like that so I broke it off. Focused primarily now on knowing myself more. With that when I find a woman who truly enhances my life I'll know and be able to lock her down.
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There is really no need for millionaires to get married just because they had kids. Them children still going to want for nothing growing up.
Bunch of starving kids with two parents in the home that would happily trade places with a kid who gets to live in two mansions growing up.
Bunch of starving kids with two parents in the home that would happily trade places with a kid who gets to live in two mansions growing up.
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
Tragic. This worse than just getting married young to the wrong one. No kids you can still split and start over clean. After a few months of unpacking your baggage.
Idk shyt bout child raising so im not gonna comment on this. Only thing I've seen is that statistical outcomes are better for kids whose parents are married. Idk if that correlation involves being happily married and applies to high net worth individuals. Would be interesting to find out tho
They should have got together and made a song that isn't dogshyt before they made a kid 
I grew up in NY. I've been around rich folk with kids.
They have everything in the world but are a total mess because mom and dad aren't there giving them what actually matters in life.
