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The ones that aren't telling the truth, are prolly the ones who said they WERENT abused.
BET: 60% of Black Girls are Sexually Abused By 18
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The ones that aren't telling the truth, are prolly the ones who said they WERENT abused.
A Woman's Opinion
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calixprynce
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So thankful me and my sisters were raised in a upper middle class environment
Don't worry, Jake gone share you with Brad and Seth just how you like
Single motherhood, poverty and broken families leaves children vulnerable. That's the core of this issue.
This is one of those issues that can be used to attack either gender for personal agenda but here's the real tea:
A PSA for blk women:
They are going to call you lame. Say ur p*ssy is wack. Tell u ur going to be alone for the rest of your life. They are going to ghost you. Replace you. And dump u as soon as u tell them. But tell em u must.
Tell em u not fukking them unless ur in a steady relationship or married. And ur damn sure not fukking them raw. Stop having sex with men that do not want to marry u, do not give a damn about you, do not want to make a family or a legacy with you. I don't care how much you have convinced urself that you fukking cuz u just gotta have the dikk. I don't care if it gets u attention or if ur just lonely and will take anything from a man even one night to keep from being by yourself.
Stop opening your legs for men who do not love (that's right fellas I know I'm tripping) LOVE you.
Why? Because you are hoping that trapping a man with a child will keep him in ur life or ur lonely so a child will fill that void. But what u are really doing is creating a situation that places children in situations that increase the likelihood of this type of abuse happening.
How much of this abuse came from strange men u brought into ur children's lives out of desperation?
How many children have gon to their mothers to confide in them only to see a stranger look back b/c momma so desperate to keep a man that she'll turn a blind eye to some sorry nikka raping her children?
This shyt got to stop. Even a dog in the street will defend her young. You literally got the power of life between ur legs. Protect ur kids.
And I'm very aware that this isn't just a single mom phenomenon b/c I know of PLENTY of children from two-family homes who have gotten raped as well. But poverty, broken families, single parenthood, and secrets kept out of some warped sense of racial familial solidarity is ravaging our children.
And if there is a blk man wondering what the men of our race can do to help stop this, I got some ideas for ya'll too. Namely, stop fukking every bytch that offers you some p*ssy in order to make urselves feel like men. Stop messing over ur women. Stop using them. Stop abusing them. Stop fukking women raw that you don't care about. Stop pressuring women into fukking u and supporting ignorant ass abusive beliefs about women to break them down to make them more sexually available. Stop procreating with broken bytches that you KNOW you shouldn't let anywhere near ur dikk. Stop hood hunting for broken black women that u can exploit for easy p*ssy. Stop justifying that bytch ass pimp and hoe culture b/c healthy forms of masculinity have been blocked in our culture.
Everybody just fukkin stop.
And to the blk men and blk women who don't do this shyt, sorry if u caught any strays. It's hard b/c the worst elements of our community are acting in ways that have a much larger impact than their numbers b/c most blk men aren't predators and most blk single moms aren't negligent. But the people having the most children in our community are dealing the most damage b/c they the ONLY ones having children in our community.
This is one of those issues that can be used to attack either gender for personal agenda but here's the real tea:
A PSA for blk women:
They are going to call you lame. Say ur p*ssy is wack. Tell u ur going to be alone for the rest of your life. They are going to ghost you. Replace you. And dump u as soon as u tell them. But tell em u must.
Tell em u not fukking them unless ur in a steady relationship or married. And ur damn sure not fukking them raw. Stop having sex with men that do not want to marry u, do not give a damn about you, do not want to make a family or a legacy with you. I don't care how much you have convinced urself that you fukking cuz u just gotta have the dikk. I don't care if it gets u attention or if ur just lonely and will take anything from a man even one night to keep from being by yourself.
Stop opening your legs for men who do not love (that's right fellas I know I'm tripping) LOVE you.
Why? Because you are hoping that trapping a man with a child will keep him in ur life or ur lonely so a child will fill that void. But what u are really doing is creating a situation that places children in situations that increase the likelihood of this type of abuse happening.
How much of this abuse came from strange men u brought into ur children's lives out of desperation?
How many children have gon to their mothers to confide in them only to see a stranger look back b/c momma so desperate to keep a man that she'll turn a blind eye to some sorry nikka raping her children?
This shyt got to stop. Even a dog in the street will defend her young. You literally got the power of life between ur legs. Protect ur kids.
And I'm very aware that this isn't just a single mom phenomenon b/c I know of PLENTY of children from two-family homes who have gotten raped as well. But poverty, broken families, single parenthood, and secrets kept out of some warped sense of racial familial solidarity is ravaging our children.
And if there is a blk man wondering what the men of our race can do to help stop this, I got some ideas for ya'll too. Namely, stop fukking every bytch that offers you some p*ssy in order to make urselves feel like men. Stop messing over ur women. Stop using them. Stop abusing them. Stop fukking women raw that you don't care about. Stop pressuring women into fukking u and supporting ignorant ass abusive beliefs about women to break them down to make them more sexually available. Stop procreating with broken bytches that you KNOW you shouldn't let anywhere near ur dikk. Stop hood hunting for broken black women that u can exploit for easy p*ssy. Stop justifying that bytch ass pimp and hoe culture b/c healthy forms of masculinity have been blocked in our culture.
Everybody just fukkin stop.
And to the blk men and blk women who don't do this shyt, sorry if u caught any strays. It's hard b/c the worst elements of our community are acting in ways that have a much larger impact than their numbers b/c most blk men aren't predators and most blk single moms aren't negligent. But the people having the most children in our community are dealing the most damage b/c they the ONLY ones having children in our community.
this is hardly surprising. Sexual abuse runs rampant in the black community and it doesn't effect just girls. There are quite a few men who've also been molested.
I am seriously surprise this number is only 60%. Almost every black women I have ever talked to has been touched inappropriately. This is why there appears to be so many dysfunctional black women. That fault isn't black men as most of you are probably thinking the article is eluding to. The problem is our culture. The onus is on all of us, men and women.
I am seriously surprise this number is only 60%. Almost every black women I have ever talked to has been touched inappropriately. This is why there appears to be so many dysfunctional black women. That fault isn't black men as most of you are probably thinking the article is eluding to. The problem is our culture. The onus is on all of us, men and women.
SmokyQuartz
Young Skull
Black boys are the most scrutinized and criminalized children on the planet but you say they need to be "taught" not to abuse women cause its in there natureFirst, ACKNOWLEDGING there is a problem.
Next, Teaching boys at an early age to control themselves sexually. About "Bad touch", Or have dire consequences.
Stop sexualizing young boys & girls.
More supervision.
. Black people need "supervision" around kids what is this starting to sound like. And when you say its a problem your implying that nothing gets done about sexual abuse even tho both black men and women make up the majority of the prison population . You think all them nikkas behind bars are Nelson Mandela or some shyt
? are their creeps and perverts of course and when you see fukkery happens behind the curtains we as a community should handle it. BUT lets not also pretend what this is really about. Remember this movie The same people who run BET come from the same people who made this movie
. And don't forget this movie is coming out soon
A Woman's Opinion
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I agree, that's street harassment. The thing is, a lot of women consider any type of compliment to a woman on the street as harassment. Telling someone they're beautiful is not harassment.
Ah. Male entitlement at its finest.
You don't get to define what another persons perception of harassment is. Period.
A woman walking from the store to her car may not want to be gawked at, and have comments made about her physical appearance.
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Damn that was the deep. Hold this rep.
I'm a man bro
Well because we are talking about this issue with our Black little girls. We need to be focused on that now and little boys who have also been molested.
David_TheMan
Banned
Worthless unscientific survey from a crazed politically oriented anti-male group.
From their own website you can see this is a psuedo scientific organization.
shyt doesn't even make sense using their own internal logic.
From their own website you can see this is a psuedo scientific organization.
gender and race are disparities that need to be erased but the group is targeted specifically for women who are black.
shyt doesn't even make sense using their own internal logic.
Its sad though, I beleive the stat is around that.
Its also sad that these are the women u have to choose from. 60% damaged. Unless u plan on exploiting and using em which will further damage em, theres no point. And it aint even their fault.
Sad all around
Its also sad that these are the women u have to choose from. 60% damaged. Unless u plan on exploiting and using em which will further damage em, theres no point. And it aint even their fault.
Sad all around
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that's a cultural responsibility
i don't encourage my younger family members to welcome creep ass females advances
but that's not the case for many young men we are conditioned to proudly take that as just another body caught
it's a matter of being more present in the lives of our young men/women not just pushing one side
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