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no such thing as true love, but I do agree when you love yourself first and don't look for anyone to vfill any voids you will be astep ahead

Of course true love exists, but we must first define what that is because it means different things for different people. But I'm sure since we're both believers, we can agree that true love can only exist when you and your spouse love God above all else!
 

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Of course true love exists, but we must first define what that is because it means different things for different people. But I'm sure since we're both believers, we can agree that true love can only exist when you and your spouse love God above all else!

unconditional love is only possible between God and you, and if you have a child. True love between you and someone of the opposite gender is based on conditions. IF your true love cheats on you, infects you with hiv, pours gasoline on you sets you on fire but you survive I'm sure your true unconditional love will fade in due time.
 

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Girlfriends are expensive as fukk though. Single money is a benefit.

This is true bc when I think about the bread spent on the wedding, home, cars, etc. :whew:

..............but wouldn't trade her in (or anything) for the world.:whoo:

Plus, its cheaper to keep her.:youngsabo:
 
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unconditional love is only possible between God and you, and if you have a child. True love between you and someone of the opposite gender is based on conditions. IF your true love cheats on you, infects you with hiv, pours gasoline on you sets you on fire but you survive I'm sure your true unconditional love will fade in due time.

You dont believe that God can provide you with your chosen fated spouse and bless your marriage? :troll:
 

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btw no has to be single if they don't want to, you can always "settle" there are tons of people looking for a male like you
 
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Don't worry breh. You are smart and fine (:noah:) i have hope for you.
Thank you dear.
I used to think this way but I actually enjoy being single :yeshrug: , can't really describe why I just do.
There are days I feel like this, and there are days I don't want to be single.

Maybe it's because I've had 2 girlfriends in my life. Maybe it's because I was never one to be constantly shacked up. I was and still am a lone wolf in this world.
 

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Yea I feel sorry for you single men..married life is going quite well with the casual argument and fight here and there..steady sex at least three times a week and my baby moms living with us helps to...dealing with 2 women is not easy but we've become best friends so its cool..being single does suck and I wish to never go back to it.
 

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You dont believe that God can provide you with your chosen fated spouse and bless your marriage? :troll:

He can but many people value human love more than God’s love. I believe God is in control of everything, but He does not intervene just to make our lives easy. God brings people across your path and encourages you to love them, but He lets you manage your relational responses ala free will.

I'm cautious i've been in horrible relationships that stressed me out so I don't mind being single, I'm either going to find a woman who meets all my checkpoints or I'm going stay single. And i'll be fine anyway :manny:
 

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:camby: No thanks women are gross....

You forgot your obligatory - No homo...

Love yourself first and enjoy your own company. When you feel you don't need someone in your life to complete it... that's when you'll find true love.

Great advice... Hey remember when you replied to yourself? Are you an alias or was the male poster your alias? Also, are you female? Are you Black?
 

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Thank you dear.

There are days I feel like this, and there are days I don't want to be single.

Maybe it's because I've had 2 girlfriends in my life. Maybe it's because I was never one to be constantly shacked up. I was and still am a lone wolf in this world.
Well it could be because I've never been in a serious relationship or in love so I can't miss what I've never had. I mean I do think about "what if" from time to time but I don't pine for it anymore especially considering I could be one of these chicks who are knocked up by some bum or getting game ran on her,cheated on, played, etc. I'd rather be alone, I can make myself miserable I don't need a man for that.
 
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