Being Handsome can hinder your interactions?

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

You sound like an average looking nikka who thinks he's handsome.

I've NEVER had any of that shyt happen to me. But I'm all three...classically handsome, 6'2", 225 and in good physical shape.

But I will answer honestly to add to your thread...

It has ONLY hampered my interactions when I was hollering at the occasional average-looking female, who had her shyt together and knew I was just after the ass. They knew the routine. They knew I was going to hit and dip. These women were smart, btw.

It's not about the man's looks though. It's all in the confidence and smile. Psychology and energy.

When I'm feeling good, people respond positively to me. When I'm in my head feeling low, I might as well look like Cee-lo.

So are you saying you reserve relationships for women on your level physically, and try to smash the average ones? Do you find average looking women are more intelligent and interesting to talk to?

 

[BaggerofTea]

I am assumed to be a player

Everytime.

They think I am up to no good and juat want to pound them guts n bounce.

I think they have a point


I am considered to be untrustworthy and a cheater too

 

[King Eros]

So are you saying you reserve relationships for women on your level physically, and try to smash the average ones?

Yes, except I tried to smash all of them. I was a prolific p*ssy hound in my 20s-early 30s. If she had BODY, I wanted to fukk. If she had the personality and face to match, then I'd often get in some trouble.

Do you find average looking women are more intelligent and interesting to talk to?

Generally speaking, yeah. Not always, but there's way more airheaded fine chicks then average-looking. They already know which lane they're going to be in by high school, so the fine ones get finer...and the average ones get educated and make paper.

(generalizations)

 

[DamienWayne]

Girls at work constantly annoying me for attention but do so by being annoying and trying to get my attention. Kicking my chair and shyt. I ignore them and don’t react and it drives them insane

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Negative reactions about apperance are likely to come from the same sex as yourself.

WoMen are not likely to hate a man coz he is handsome. They may be apprehensive and think hes a player... But to reject him simply coz hes handsome... Not likely. They would have to have super mental issues and extremely low self esteem.

Someone of the same sex as you may feel intimidated, threatened or jealous...

Call me what you will but I dont think normal people see the beauty of others as a thing to hate. What does it take away from you to acknowledge or see a beautiful person or thing? I'd prefer a world where everyone was really visually pleasing.

Both ugly and goodlooking people do not "have it easy". Maybe being a beautyful being will give you something of a leg up...

And alot have low self esteem

When chicks think they have no chance with you they reject and in some cases give you a shytty attitude.

While I've had plenty chicks throw it at me I've had plenty of gave me the as well.

Women judge by outward appearance if your attractive they assume you have tons of hoes, and that you're probably overly cocky..

I can read energy and signals and know when people passively come at me almost like they're trying to humble me.

 

[Big Skilly Films]

I make bytches make me sandwiches and scratch my ass when it itches

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Yes, except I tried to smash all of them. I was a prolific p*ssy hound in my 20s-early 30s. If she had BODY, I wanted to fukk. If she had the personality and face to match, then I'd often get in some trouble.

Generally speaking, yeah. Not always, but there's way more airheaded fine chicks then average-looking. They already know which lane they're going to be in by high school, so the fine ones get finer...and the average ones get educated and make paper.

(generalizations)

True


Except for a few fine ones I went to high school with, and they got fat....really FAT

 

[EBK String]

the only bad thing is all the hating ass insecure nikkas, and wack broads who know they can't have.

 

[Music Fiend]

You sound like an average looking nikka who thinks he's handsome.

I've NEVER had any of that shyt happen to me. But I'm all three...classically handsome, 6'2", 225 and in good physical shape.

But I will answer honestly to add to your thread...

It has ONLY hampered my interactions when I was hollering at the occasional average-looking female, who had her shyt together and knew I was just after the ass. They knew the routine. They knew I was going to hit and dip. These women were smart, btw.

It's not about the man's looks though. It's all in the confidence and smile. Psychology and energy.

When I'm feeling good, people respond positively to me. When I'm in my head feeling low, I might as well look like Cee-lo.

This.

Also a couple other situations. Some women didn't want to let me hit until I pursued them a few times. Like they want some sort of power of you.

I've also had situations of it hindering me because I wasn't cocky. Just thinking you are faking or playing with em.

Other parts of life I've been cocky and attractive and off rip they would try to devalue you until they see you in action with other women.

 

[Yo Mama]

Humility is something that is sorely lacking on this site.

Humility and a firmer grip on reality it seems.



But then there are some things that actually happen that if a person has never personally witnessed/experienced it it will sound like ducktales.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

The main thing is women thinking you can’t be trusted. An insecure woman can’t handle being with a really attractive dude

nikkas can be funny as hell tho. Saying shyt like

“I know you know where the bytches at”

 

[Gothboi J]

The main thing is women thinking you can’t be trusted. An insecure woman can’t handle being with a really attractive dude

nikkas can be funny as hell tho. Saying shyt like

“I know you know where the bytches at”

That smiley

 

[MollyGalaga]

You unknowingly hurt your friends feelings because women are always choosing you
Some dudes will press you just because their girl was checking you on the low


Every now and then your boys will rely on you to approach a group of females so they can cash in on their friends
Average chicks that smash will get extra hurt when you leave


And gay dudes will definitely shoot they shot :Fframe:

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

The main thing is women thinking you can’t be trusted. An insecure woman can’t handle being with a really attractive dude

nikkas can be funny as hell tho. Saying shyt like

“I know you know where the bytches at”

Going out with brehs and they expecting you to be doing all the work getting the broads hitting on every bytch glancing your way.

I've actually had this happen twice where I would be talking to some chick just being friendly and dudes come up and try to get competitive and steal her away


I've had a few times walking on the street and a dude would kinda spit before I walked by on some passive aggressive shyt ..I enjoy those because they all come from fellow brehs

It's like damn if you're gonna be a hater just do it 100% and just call me a bytch or something of that nature...the sly comments annoy me more.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

In some cases.Some chicks will mean mug & give you attitude strictly because they ASSUME you're a player/womanizer who's

dipping into all kinds of various vagina.On some "I'm not about to be another one of your victims!" shyt before they even get to know you.


Male bytches do it, to.They'll reckon you're snatching up all the chicks & start hating.Some dudes never let go of that jr high mentality