Being Handsome can hinder your interactions?
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Redwood
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People play more games 
but it could just be for anyone though 
but it could just be for anyone though 
Allegedly I am but I'm also invisible so my computer can't pute an answer for this.
Yo Mama
...the sweeter the juice.
I dont know. Maybe you guys need to put a bit more elbow grease in when you wash your mirrors, that includes your wing and rearview mirrors...
I dont think its all duck tales. But it does sound like some of you guys confusing some general human interaction with "woe is me im too fine-ness"...
Being handsome shouldn't hinder any thing. If anything, people are drawn to beauty.
An ugly woman knows shes ugly, coz trust that society will let her know. Buy an average-mildly ugly guy might not know that hes ugly.
I dont think its all duck tales. But it does sound like some of you guys confusing some general human interaction with "woe is me im too fine-ness"...
Being handsome shouldn't hinder any thing. If anything, people are drawn to beauty.
An ugly woman knows shes ugly, coz trust that society will let her know. Buy an average-mildly ugly guy might not know that hes ugly.
Couple times I noticed bytch ass dudes passively hating on me..
With women it varies...most treat you better...I've had a couple instances where usually at a store the broad working there would automatically give me attitude for no reason at all. Had one older black chick say " I don't like your hair
" ..I didn't get emotional outwardly but inside that bytch pissed me off 
Some women see attractive dudes and think they need to humble them..it's insecure shyt.
I expect women to act like children but the unjustified hate from "men" is funny. But hey I'm a lightskin breh with freeform dreads, can play guitar...so when you're gifted it's always gonna be some haters
With women it varies...most treat you better...I've had a couple instances where usually at a store the broad working there would automatically give me attitude for no reason at all. Had one older black chick say " I don't like your hair
" ..I didn't get emotional outwardly but inside that bytch pissed me off Some women see attractive dudes and think they need to humble them..it's insecure shyt.
I expect women to act like children but the unjustified hate from "men" is funny. But hey I'm a lightskin breh with freeform dreads, can play guitar...so when you're gifted it's always gonna be some haters
can u imagine the unwanted attention and hate at work and in public handsome brehs have to deal with daily?
i dont want that life
i prefer to fly under the radar
i dont want that life
i prefer to fly under the radar
What are your experiences as far as being handsome and interacting with women and men.
Men - test your gangsta. Call you pretty boy. Take you for a joke. Ask you where are the bytches. Might call you a batty mon for then noticing you look good and not being comfortable in their own sexuality..
Women - are 2 fold it's either it's a lot easier to bag them or they put up an extra fight because you are handsome. They will not let their guard down even tho you know she is feeling you. She will go out of her way to ignore you but make sure she is noticed. ( for example some random fine shaped broad in a body suit whisked by me real quick to show her strut with a fast pace) ( she was thinking i was going to chase i slowed my walk down.) ( seen her later on walk past me while looking.. i kept it moving for her playing games with grown folks
If your brolic, tall , handsome or even all 3 what has been your experience?
Few broads I worked with would just use me for attention so they could all be seen talking to me and shyt on the sales floor.
I picked up on it one was this single mom with a bad ass body...she would bite her lip and eyefukk me up and down but would never wanna give her # out so I knew what it was...
I remember I was going to the elevator and she rushed to walk in front of me she was wearing a dress and that ass was poking but I didn't acknowledge her...and she got all nervous and walked off quick.
I'm stubborn I like to give attention when I want to give you my attention...I've had broads standing behind me bumping into me on person so I would notice them and I would ignore them harder.
Based on your commentary, you're either naive, not considered attractive or a combination of both.
Don't assume that people who are generally deemed as good looking always have it easy because there will invariably be some people who are envious of others physical appearance or individuals that have negative preconceived notions based on ones beauty/handsomeness which can/will affect their interactions with people.
Yo Mama
...the sweeter the juice.
Negative reactions about apperance are likely to come from the same sex as yourself.
WoMen are not likely to hate a man coz he is handsome. They may be apprehensive and think hes a player... But to reject him simply coz hes handsome... Not likely. They would have to have super mental issues and extremely low self esteem.
Someone of the same sex as you may feel intimidated, threatened or jealous...
Call me what you will but I dont think normal people see the beauty of others as a thing to hate. What does it take away from you to acknowledge or see a beautiful person or thing? I'd prefer a world where everyone was really visually pleasing.
Both ugly and goodlooking people do not "have it easy". Maybe being a beautyful being will give you something of a leg up...
Yo Mama
...the sweeter the juice.
This is completely inaccurate. Sometimes women "hate" or low key despise men who are handsome or extremely attractive simply because they know or think they have
no chance of being with a man they desire sexually or in a dating/relationship scenario.
Unfortunately, many women do have "mental issues and extremely low self esteem" which will reflect how they may negatively perceive or interact with a handsome man.
Furthermore, some women feel imitated by handsome men due to the constant attention he may get or because they assume he's shallow.
I don't think that some people "hate" beauty in & of itself, they really "hate" the fact they aren't attractive.themselves & don't receive the adulation of the opposite sex
Different issues for different types of people.
KillerB88
Superstar
I'm all three, and it can be a "hindrance" in cold approach situations; not so much in mutual friend circles.What are your experiences as far as being handsome and interacting with women and men.
Men - test your gangsta. Call you pretty boy. Take you for a joke. Ask you where are the bytches. Might call you a batty mon for then noticing you look good and not being comfortable in their own sexuality
Women - are 2 fold it's either it's a lot easier to bag them or they put up an extra fight because you are handsome. They will not let their guard down even tho you know she is feeling you. She will go out of her way to ignore you but make sure she is noticed. ( for example some random fine shaped broad in a body suit whisked by me real quick to show her strut with a fast pace) ( she was thinking i was going to chase i slowed my walk down.) ( seen her later on walk past me while looking.. i kept it moving for her playing games with grown folks
If your brolic, tall , handsome or even all 3 what has been your experience?
At the gym for example, I get looked at repeatedly-- mirror stalking and all that jazz. We even make eye contact multiple times, but sometimes these women try to be too cool. Won't even crack a smile to create any kind of opening.
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