Being a man is hard and u can't hide it

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I always figured this. Woman respond best to a man who represents strong leadership.

And not just just giving orders but leading with integrity, honesty, consistency and direction.


The problem is I dont think most dudes got that sort of home training.

To get a woman to cast aside any and everything she though she was attracted to physically, a man has to present himself as a rare find first, then he shows leadership. Our first conversation he went in talking about his vision for his life, goals and dreams. He showed me he was intelligent, had direction and charm. We both fell in love within 24 hours of meeting.

There is so much talk about a High Value Man. I helped create one. We went to work in each other's lives and made monumental changes. When we met, he made a nice income for his age at the time. He has a business that does multiple 6 figures a year now. He was in a completely different field when we first got together and ended up starting a new industry about the second month into the relationship, trucking. His dream was to have several trucks and drivers. I learned his industry for him. We would brainstorm at 2 and 3 in the morning and crunch numbers while he would break from driving. By the time it was over, he was making much more than the job he had when we met. When he showed up at my house a few years later, he had several more trucks. That is the power of working together with someone of a like mindset and having a woman who sees you as the end all be all.
 
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To get a woman to cast aside any and everything she though she was attracted to physically, a man has to present himself as a rare find first, then he shows leadership. Our first conversation he went in talking about his vision for his life, goals and dreams. He showed me he was intelligent, had direction and charm. We both fell in love within 24 hours of meeting.

There is so much talk about a high value man. I helped create one. We went to work in each other's lives and made monumental changes. When we met he made 75k. He has a business that does multiple 6 figures a year now. He was in a completely different field when we first got together and ended up starting a new industry about the second month into the relationship, trucking. His dream was to have several trucks and drivers. I learned his industry for him. I invested in him. Invested with him, as well. We would brainstorm at 2 and 3 in the morning and crunch numbers while he would break from driving. By the time it was over, he was making much more than the job he had when he met. When he showed up at my house a few years later, he had several more trucks. That is the power of working together with someone of a like mindset and having a woman who see you as the end all be all.

Why aren't ya'll married?

You both as a couple operated how an intelligent and ambitious young couple are supposed to think.
 

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The business took off so quickly that we became all business. We thought the love could wait until certain milestones were reached, it could not. It was business on every phone call and interaction. It fell apart and it was for the best. I guess one of the most embarrassing parts of it was that I did not get to really reap the fruits of my labor. But, I received countless intangibles from it: lessons, transformation, and a spiritual awakening that I would not have without that relationship. We were never meant to be married. We went as far as we were supposed to. We were young then. It ended in 2010. When it was over, I was sick. I had a hard time getting over it, but God did ease my heart and made it new.
 
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The business took off so quickly that we became all business. We thought the love could wait until certain milestones were reached, it could not. It was business on every phone call and interaction. It fell apart and it was for the best. I guess one of the most embarrassing parts of it was that I did not get to really reap the fruits of my labor. But, I received countless intangibles from it., lessons, transformation, spiritual awakening that I would not have without that relationship. We were never meant to be married. We went as far as we were supposed to. We were young then. It ended in 2010. When it was over, I was sick. I had a hard time getting over it, but God did ease my heart and make it new.
Gotta say that was a pretty intimate perspective on on the depth of a relationship through a woman's perspective on here.

Much appreciated.

I have witnessed similar dynamics. A great woman helps her man's ambitions and allows him to soar to new heights, but that comes at a cost to the woman I have noticed. Even for myself.

I apologize, us men can be very selfish and we sensual creatures so are whims shift on animal instinct.

Good that you got the growth out of it, never a wasted moment in life, just learning opportunities.
 

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Haircuts
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Nice FITTING clothes
Tattoos
Skin care routine

All of these can make an “ugly” man at least presentable.
fukk all of that.

A substantial bank account can make any “ugly” man attractive.

Jay Z got Beyoncé.
 

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Is this why you switched teams? :ohhh::russ:
Don’t know what you’re referring to, you must be talking about ya mother, sis. He didn’t do a good job of containing your emotions as a child, it seems. Did you double Dutch with the girls or double dip with your “friends”?
 

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Oh stop pretending like you didn't transform Nicholas
Yawnnnnnn - catch up to 2022. That’s played. Stop derailing that man’s thread. I mean, you can’t even climax to actual women…you seem to be on real homo shyt about what hard is
Smashed raw on the first night , didn’t cum

:snoop:


Whisky dikk?


I've only had that happen once with a dime piece. Fukkin the bytch from the back like :blessed: but nothing comes out :snoop:


:russ:
:francis:
 

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How annoying is it when the person who tries to pop shyt on threads about you, ends up dapping you. Like a cease fire of retreat after they end up shooting themselves.
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Dude spent the past hour of his life starting what he couldn’t finish. Oh boi
 

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Yawnnnnnn - catch up to 2022. That’s played. Stop derailing that man’s thread. I mean, you can’t even climax to actual women…you seem to be on real homo shyt about what hard is

:francis:

Is this why you keep harrassing me treh?

You trying to sell your bussy you dirty bytch? :dame:

I don't want you treh! :scust:

Back off nikka!

No means No Nikka!
 
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