TreySav
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These new age dudes wanna be women and the new age women wanna be dudes
I’m not talking about LGBTQ by the way
I’m not talking about LGBTQ by the way
I had a short convo with a woman earlier. She was trying to convince me that me being ok with single would lead to loneliness and bitterness.Untrue. Men have it easy that's why women envy us so much. The only thing we gotta worry about is money and violence. Women gotta worry about self esteem and all that other stuff.
A man being "ugly" should not stop much if he has confidence, style and a unique mindset. He has to know how to apply his thoughts, bring them to fruition and showcase his talents to women without being cocky. I was attracted to a guy who many would say was unattractive, because he had something rare.
Also, I am in full support of brehs "putting their hair back on" in Turkey, if they want.
Did you date said guy?
It’s not the sameHaircuts
Beard
GYM
Nice FITTING clothes
Tattoos
Skin care routine
All of these can make an “ugly” man at least presentable.
I did, for almost 3 years. Not only did I date him, but he was the only man I was in love with, so far. I spoke about him before in an older post and how he had my full cooperation.
You should make a thread on what he was able to demonstrate to you to get that level of devotion.
Hoes can get all those too except beards lmaoHaircuts
Beard
GYM
Nice FITTING clothes
Tattoos
Skin care routine
All of these can make an “ugly” man at least presentable.
I have been thinking about doing that, but I don't want to be ashamed that I was so in love with him. Love can be tricky to some people and if they are frustrated, people can be very dismissive and angry. You used the CORRECT term. Devoted, is the word. It was a combination of who I am, how he presented himself and how he viewed me, that led to the love. It took me just as many years (3) to get over him. God took pity on my heart and released the feelings, after he showed up at my house after those years. It's a long story.
Your perspective would have value. Not a lot of dudes know how to entrance a woman. A big part of the todays issues.
I got you +Thanks for the rep, by the way.
I know what you mean about men not knowing how to "get into a woman's head"and hold it just for him. Better yet, they don't know how to get the woman to hold herself just for him. Since I've been here, I have noticed a lot of people don't like to read long posts. It's a really long story. Before I could get into what happened, I have to tell why it happened. Meaning, who I am as a person , how I was raised, who I am as a woman to a man , my views, as well as his. I don't know if this is a place that would be receptive to that. In addition, I am very private. I don't even have social media.
But,a huge factor in men finding a woman who can be devoted to him is mate selection. Men are guilty of doing the same thing that women do, trying to convert a cold/lukewarm person and make them burn hot for you.
I would say 50% of the reason I was able to be so into him was the fact that I was raised by multiple men. I had a VERY strong father and 2 of my friend's fathers, one of which I lived with during a portion of my teenage years in another state. My father was as extremely strong leader. I looked for a man to lead. I expect it. When I ran across one who was also a very strong leader, had personality and vision, we took off like lightning. The dynamic was magical. I didn't care what he looked like when I found him, I was going.