being 30+ and having no desire to settle down

[Jahmal]

Those girls are going to want dudes thats 30+ when they can get with dudes their age that is better than the older man.

Its not a scare tactic... its the truth.

The amount of dudes you see that are 30+ thats has a roster full of women is few and far between

Where do you live breh? Here in Atlanta, 30+ yr old dudes with a roster of chicks is the NORM!

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

I notice people get mad at guys that don't want to start a family. They seem to take it as a personal rejection of all women in general when it's really more about a pursuit of being independent and happy. Besides, why get so mad? It's not as if someone else being single affects you in some sort of way. People are perfectly capable of being happy and productive citizens without being married.

 

[Jahmal]

I notice people get mad at guys that don't want to start a family. They seem to take it as a personal rejection of all women in general when it's really more about a pursuit of being independent and happy. Besides, why get so mad? It's not as if someone else being single affects you in some sort of way. People are perfectly capable of being happy and productive citizens without being married.

misery loves company

 

[Desirous]

I notice people get mad at guys that don't want to start a family. They seem to take it as a personal rejection of all women in general when it's really more about a pursuit of being independent and happy. Besides, why get so mad? It's not as if someone else being single affects you in some sort of way. People are perfectly capable of being happy and productive citizens without being married.

True. It's better to be honest with yourself and realize that rather than marry just for the sake of it, but then cheat because you're "not able to be with just one person." I also feel that it's difficult for some people to see themselves with someone because they haven't met someone they can be serious with. Like, I'm not in love with the idea of being married, I'm in love with the idea of finding the right man. Once that happens, marriage is a natural progression.

 

[MikelArteta]

looks at sig

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

True. It's better to be honest with yourself and realize that rather than marry just for the sake of it, but then cheat because you're "not able to be with just one person." I also feel that it's difficult for some people to see themselves with someone because they haven't met someone they can be serious with. Like, I'm not in love with the idea of being married, I'm in love with the idea of finding the right man. Once that happens, marriage is a natural progression.

 

[King Poetic]

I notice people get mad at guys that don't want to start a family. They seem to take it as a personal rejection of all women in general when it's really more about a pursuit of being independent and happy. Besides, why get so mad? It's not as if someone else being single affects you in some sort of way. People are perfectly capable of being happy and productive citizens without being married.

I get this alot. especially from single women wit kids that are in there 30's and 40's.. They see i'm doing ok and being responsible and they want to cuff me down because majority of them can't find men because majority of men are going for women without kids and able to do things without being tied down.. I'm not saying ALL WOMEN WITH KIDS CAN'T DO shyt, but the ones i come in contact with.

and they tend to hate on me after i reject them.

 

[MikelArteta]

I get this alot. especially from single women wit kids that are in there 30's and 40's.. They see i'm doing ok and being responsible and they want to cuff me down because majority of them can't find men because majority of men are going for women without kids and able to do things without being tied down.. I'm not saying ALL WOMEN WITH KIDS ARE CAN'T DO shyt, but the ones i come in contact with.

and they tend to hate on me after i reject them.

yup especially if you are a black male with his stuff together, it bothers em.

I can't tell you the amount of times i've been accused of being a "player", just because i'm in my late 20's single, no kids

Same with family I always get, "so wheres your gf", "wheres the special girl" "when are you getting married"