being 30+ and having no desire to settle down

[Xtraz2]

funny thing is its not even about new p*ssy brehs

a nikka just like being independent, this feeling is i can go wherever i want, whenever i want, tha world is my canvas, no restrictions, don't have my balls in anybodies purse

i'm not one of them dudes that gets lonely or depressed, so i don't care about all that shyt

if i'm bored i can go out and meet up with new people and learn new things, go to tha gym, hit up a new bytch and check a movie out, etc etc.....

but i know eventually i need to settle down, i need to lose this mentality, but ........ i can't

 

[babylon1]

yep. marriage? bushes. commitment? bushes. settling down? bushes. never settle down

 

[Soundbwoy]

do you brehs being happy alone>>> being miserable with the wrong person

 

[Mr. Negative]

if you don't wanna settle down, then don't settle down. lmao

You don't "need" to do anything.

Why conform to social norms if it fukks up your personal progress?

Wasn't it Frank Zappa that said without deviation from the norm, progress is not possible? or..... something.

anyway, do it when it feels natural, and not when you feel like you "should".

 

[Vandelay]

I want have a kid, just 1...but im not ready...im 29 and quite frankly i dont know when thats gonna happen. Im happy having no one to answer to but myself.

2 of my cousins didnt have kids until 40...Both 6 figure+ cats who had fun for years. I think they did it right.

 

[TheArchitect]

That's what I wanna do...I eventually would LIKE to settle down, but I'm gonna need to finish my objective of traveling the world doing my thing....

 

[Theraflu]

You're going to be that dude hollering at young girls.

Unless you're rich your pissed no one wants a broke nikka.

 

[Chris.B]

where did this idea of being in a committed relationship and not being happy come from?
Damn the black woman has really fukked yall up....but I don't blame you doe.


I used to think like you when I dated them

 

[CrimsonTider]

I dont understand why you lames think being with someone means you can't live life how you want to and you don't have to be happy.

Threads like this prove how much real interaction yall have had with women

 

[LOUD]

I dont understand why you lames think being with someone means you can't live life how you want to and you don't have to be happy.

Threads like this prove how much real interaction yall have had with women

A lot of negativity in this post b, why you mad cause he want to be alone? You trying date that nikka?

 

[Kilgore Trout]

You're going to be that dude hollering at young girls.

Unless you're rich your pissed no one wants a broke nikka.

People always say this.....Is this some kind of scare tactic? I rarely see dudes hollering at young dimes and since when is your 30s plus there are always going to bed 25-30 year old girls to holla at.


I wanna settle down but I gotta find a girl that's worthy. Its not that my standards are too high its just i need a girl im compatible with and wont get bored of after a few years....still figuring out all the things i want in a chick. My last chick was dope but thats not the kind of chick you wife up.........the chick before that was wifey status but I wasn't at the point of my life yet to settle down.

 

[CrimsonTider]

A lot of negativity in this post b, why you mad cause he want to be alone? You trying date that nikka?

nothing negative.

 

[CrimsonTider]

People always say this.....Is this some kind of scare tactic? I rarely see dudes hollering at young dimes and since when is your 30s plus there are always going to bed 25-30 year old girls to holla at.

Those girls are going to want dudes thats 30+ when they can get with dudes their age that is better than the older man.

Its not a scare tactic... its the truth.

The amount of dudes you see that are 30+ thats has a roster full of women is few and far between

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Those girls are going to want dudes thats 30+ when they can get with dudes their age that is better than the older man.

Its not a scare tactic... its the truth.

The amount of dudes you see that are 30+ thats has a roster full of women is few and far between

Why is a guy that's her age better?

Eventually girls want some direction in life and someone that will put her in her place.

If your a 30 year old square working a 9-5 then I can understand why girls would find you boring but if you got things going on and have some swag you should be able to have your pic. Thats the kind of life my mentors are living. Thats the kinda life im trying to set up by the time im 30. On the same tip tho.....Id prefer to be cuffed up by then.

 

[Da Jungles]

do you brehs being happy alone>>> being miserable with the wrong person

Being happy with the right person >>>> being happy alone