Bed Wenchers Gonna Wench - Regina King: More Black Women Should Date Outside Their Race

[Woman of god]

So saying my blanket statement about said group is not justified?

Are you really trying to tell me "all white men ain't bad?

The group I was referring to is/are black women. You keep tying to make wm the subject of this conversation, but I am specifically referencing the implication of making blanket statements about black women

 

[Poitier]

Statitistically speaking, once u get into into certain economic ranks and labor markets , the number of available black spouses dwindles. Add in the variability of physical attraction and the numbers are not in ur favor. If we were solely speaking at the high school/undergraduate level, u guys might have a valid rebuttal.

Then why are Black men who make over 100k somehow finding Black spouses just fine but Black women in that same bracket somehow magically unable?

 

[Woman of god]

Not better....they've just leveraged violence and oppression into unfair advantage You have put-together brothers out here who get treated like shyt by Black women who would turn submissive and cooperative with a White man in an instant.....every Black man has experienced a Black woman using that girl playful voice and nice demeanor around White men when just seconds ago she was cussing you out and rolling her eyes

I feel bad for you. I am not trying to be funny when I ask this, but how much contact with black women do you have on an average daily basis? I sincerely hope that you will soon encounter some positive experiences to give u a more balanced perspective.

Do u ever see those videos or posts by sloppy fat black women with natural hair who are just so unabashedly confident? Those women have been told they are undesirable and that nobody wants them and they are not even a choice in the dating world and yet somehow they walk around with their heads extra high because basically they're like no matter what u say, I still know I got it. I think u need a dose of that type of confidence. Perhaps that wasn't the best parallel but I hope u can relate to what I mean

 

[Poitier]

I feel bad for you. I am not trying to be funny when I ask this, but how much contact with black women do you have on an average daily basis? I sincerely hope that you will soon encounter some positive experiences to give u a more balanced perspective.

Do u ever see those videos or posts by sloppy fat black women with natural hair who are just so unabashedly confident? Those women have been told they are undesirable and that nobody wants them and they are not even a choice in the dating world and yet somehow they walk around with their heads extra high because basically they're like no matter what u say, I still know I got it. I think u need a dose of that type of confidence. Perhaps that wasn't the best parallel but I hope u can relate to what I mean

I'm overly-cocky and fine with the women I attract but that doesn't stop me from being objective about the realities of white supremacy in the dating world Why you keep denying it is the interesting question

 

[Woman of god]

Then why are Black men who make over 100k somehow finding Black spouses just fine but Black women in that same bracket somehow magically unable?

U r not this stupid my friend. If we have a pool of 50 black women and 25 black men, the black men have plenty to choose from, the women not so much.

 

[Woman of god]

I'm overly-cocky and fine with the women I attract but that doesn't stop me from being objective about the realities of white supremacy in the dating world Why you keep denying it is the interesting question

I don't accept it as a reality, largely because what I encounter and am surrounded with daily is quite the opposite. Black women going for black men and vice versa. I'm aware of the ok cupid study about like who gets the most online messages or something, but other than that in the world I live in ain't nobody checking for whitey

 

[Poitier]

U r not this stupid my friend. If we have a pool of 50 black women and 25 black men, the black men have plenty to choose from, the women not so much.

Black women who make over 100k are somehow confined to their city and country? Just admit Blackness and toppling White supremacy is not a concern because secretly you like the White supremacist.

 

[Gravity]

It's more so the implied insult that comes with making such a generalized statement. U could say, for example, WhiteBoy625 likes women who are short, have small breasts, and natural waist length golden blonde hair. BlackLady437 is tall, curvy, and has a short black afro. WhiteBoy will not like black lady. That is a fair and totally fine statement.

When u make a blanket statement such as white men don't like black women, u r presenting bw as 1 negative monolith, and by talking about who white dudes like, u r holding them in some sort of superior light where they r the ones who have to approve of the bw, and not the other way around

at this bullshyt. People who are scared or hurt by the truth are usually very dishonest. White men see black women as inferior to all other races of women. Sugar coating that fact does nothing but distort the truth. The truth often times may hurt your feelings but you do yourself a disservice dodging or sugar costing it.

 

[Beck.er.]

a lot have way too much time on their hands....

...says the pot

 

[TMNT4000]

The group I was referring to is/are black women. You keep tying to make wm the subject of this conversation, but I am specifically referencing the implication of making blanket statements about black women

What blanket statements I said about black women?

 

[capt_saveahoe]

U r not this stupid my friend. If we have a pool of 50 black women and 25 black men, the black men have plenty to choose from, the women not so much.

GTFOH

Black men make more than black women on average. IF there is an income disparity at the top end it is not that significant.

The excuse that black women are doing better than black men therefore they must seek others does not holdup.

 

[Wild self]

this not true. we actually produce more estrogen than other women hence of full hips, ass, and breast. Lame ass.I swear black males use our enemies racism to tear down their own women. Shame

Give me first person proof

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

Not Huey

 

[GR13]

Yall want white dikk so bad

bytch be like

when brad (average white guy) starts a conversation with her and ask for her phone number

 

[twhatever]

Black women have more testosterone than other groups of women.... and testosterone influences what you find attractive.... since black women have more testosterone, they typically focus on physical appearance of black men.... (like testosterone makes men focus on the physical beauty of women)

Go to youtube and type in 'Boyfriend Tag' and search for all of the black couples.... you'll notice a pattern with black women... they like a specific type of black guy.....

The only study I've ever found said non Hispanic white women have the highest T levels.


In an analysis of perimenopausal women in the Study of Women's Health Across the Nation (SWAN) (4, 5), non-Hispanic white women (NHW) had higher T and dehydroepiandrosterone sulfate levels than African-American women (AA) and higher T than Hispanics, after adjustment for body size.

Source:Racial/Ethnic Differences in Sex Hormone Levels among Postmenopausal Women in the Diabetes Prevention Program