Bed Wenchers Gonna Wench - Regina King: More Black Women Should Date Outside Their Race

[MalikX]

I'm in DC every weekend nikka stop crying like a hoe. Like said transplants are different than natives.

I've seen interracial couples but it definitely ain't no "big issue" like y'all fukk nikkas trying to put out. That said bed wenching ain't a problem in DC. if it is to you nikka maybe you need some more black friends.

Everyone I know is basically from NE SE PG. and i don't know any chicks dating other races I barely know nikkas checking for other races.

Okay then be quiet nikka.

5 seconds ago you were up here saying you never saw interracial couples now you saying you do. Make up your mind. I never said it was an epidemic. I said it existed and you can't walk around the city and without seeing some. I went to Howard breh. You not gonna tell me what I saw with my own eyes walking around town.

And just a second ago you was trying to include white ass NW with NE and SE when the demographics of NW ain't shyt like NE and SE. Ain't no black people in NW like that cut it out nikka. The average apartment price is closing on $2000 for a 1 BD. All y'all nikkas cross the river like I said

And nobody cares if you're a native nikka. When I see black chicks with white dudes around town, I'm not walking up and asking if they were born in DC or not. Who cares. Nobody cares breh. shyt...Most the bad bytches in DC are not from DC. They from MD, VA or Howard chicks from outta town. Ain't nobody dying to date no hoe from SE DC

 

[Woman of god]

@princess125 bring your punk ass into the thread and throw down with ya nikkas. fukk all them novels you writing in ya negs, speak your fukking mind.

LOL I ain't no punk. And at least I gave u the courtesy of negging with u an explanation. But yea the attitude reflected in the post u quoted is just a veiled way of saying "nobody else wants u because [insert insult]" live and let live. If a black person thinks they can find true love with a non black person why rain on there parade before it even gets started ? Go with who goes for u. Seems like u guys are a little too hell bent on convincing bw that no one wants them

 

[TMNT4000]

@princess125 Is there something you like to add to this thread instead of negging in message?

 

[Woman of god]

@princess125 Is there something you like to add to this thread instead of negging in message?

I thought the point of the explanation box in the rep thing was for stating the reason. I'm supposed to come in the thread too?

 

[Woman of god]

@princess125 Is there something you like to add to this thread instead of negging in message?

And I negged you because from your post I got the sense that u have the impression that any old bum ass meth head no money having ugly piece of garbage white man can get the highest caliber black woman. Which in addition to putting white people on much too high of a pedestal is just logistically highly unlikely.

 

[marcuz]

And I negged you because from your post I got the sense that u have the impression that any old bum ass meth head no money having ugly piece of garbage white man can get the highest caliber black woman

they can

i've seen some shyt in cali. a beach bum type cac with nothing to his name can pull a beautiful black woman with ease--and she wont even mind tricking off on him. these are not isolated incidents either. if you're in cali and see some of these couples in public, look how often the BW is paying for bills

 

[TMNT4000]

I thought the point of the explanation box in the rep thing was for stating the reason. I'm supposed to come in the thread too?

U don't know what the message you sent in the neg got to do with my post

Are you offended of the idea that white men don't like black women enough to marry or impregnate them(if its true or not)?

 

[Woman of god]

they can

i've seen some shyt in cali. a beach bum type cac with nothing to his name can pull a beautiful black woman with ease--and she wont even mind tricking off on him. these are not isolated incidents either. if you're in cali and see some of these couples in public, look how often the BW is paying for bills

I don't believe you in any capacity. There's sociological factors behind mate selection. One of the biggest determinants of who you date is peer group and proximity. A well educated and high paid black woman likely has a social network comprised of similarly paid white ppl, Asians, and perhaps a few other blacks. From what social connections do u suspect a high status black woman would be meeting the aforementioned beach bums?

 

[marcuz]

I don't believe you in any capacity. There's sociological factors behind mate selection. One of the biggest determinants of who you date is peer group and proximity. A well educated and high paid black woman likely has a social network comprised of similarly paid white ppl, Asians, and perhaps a few other blacks. From what social connections do u suspect a high status black woman would be meeting the aforementioned beach bums?

acouple of things, how come black men are never allowed this type of leeway? a college educated BM with a cac is still a self hating c00n, right? but with BW, suddenly its proximity. also, BW earning over 100k date out at a much higher rate than BM earning over 100k.

also, although BW/WM couples do better financially, can someone repost those stats citing BW are usually bread winners in IR marriages? also, i don't know what high status black means. status usually derives from the male and his patriarchy, the black community doesn't have "high status" outside of a few celebs and a handful of wealthy elites.

 

[Poitier]

also, although BW/WM couples do better financially, can someone repost those stats citing BW are usually bread winners in IR marriages?

For example, the hypergamy ratio of white women in black male/white female (BM/WF)
unions over the period was 1.252, while the expected ratio was only 0.928, indicating that white
women are much more likely to marry up than would be expected under a model which assumes
that white women in interracial and intraracial marriages have the same underlying propensity
for educational hypergamy. Similarly, the hypergamy ratio of men in white male/black female
(WM/BF) unions was 1.099, compared to an expected value of 0.776, indicating significant upward
marriage for white men in these unions.


http://pages.uoregon.edu/aarong/pape...intermared.pdf

http://sociology.uoregon.edu/faculty/gullickson.php

Aaron Gullickson is the leading researcher of interracial marriages today.

 

[Woman of god]

U don't know what the message you sent in the neg got to do with my post

Are you offended of the idea that white men don't like black women(if its true or not)?

It's more so the implied insult that comes with making such a generalized statement. U could say, for example, WhiteBoy625 likes women who are short, have small breasts, and natural waist length golden blonde hair. BlackLady437 is tall, curvy, and has a short black afro. WhiteBoy will not like black lady. That is a fair and totally fine statement.

When u make a blanket statement such as white men don't like black women, u r presenting bw as 1 negative monolith, and by talking about who white dudes like, u r holding them in some sort of superior light where they r the ones who have to approve of the bw, and not the other way around

 

[marcuz]

For example, the hypergamy ratio of white women in black male/white female (BM/WF)
unions over the period was 1.252, while the expected ratio was only 0.928, indicating that white
women are much more likely to marry up than would be expected under a model which assumes
that white women in interracial and intraracial marriages have the same underlying propensity
for educational hypergamy. Similarly, the hypergamy ratio of men in white male/black female
(WM/BF) unions was 1.099, compared to an expected value of 0.776, indicating significant upward
marriage for white men in these unions.


http://pages.uoregon.edu/aarong/pape...intermared.pdf

http://sociology.uoregon.edu/faculty/gullickson.php

Aaron Gullickson is the leading researcher of interracial marriages today.

thank you, that was the most shocking statistic to me

use to think BW were just getting with these balling out of control cacs, but the truth is these hos still find themselves being head of the homes with cacs.

 

[Poitier]

When u make a blanket statement such as white men don't like black women, u r presenting bw as 1 negative monolith

Yall want white dikk so bad

 

[The M.I.C.]

Yall want white dikk so bad

Yeah, fukk her..on ignore she goes.

 

[Woman of god]

acouple of things, how come black men are never allowed this type of leeway? a college educated BM with a cac is still a self hating c00n, right? but with BW, suddenly its proximity. also, BW earning over 100k date out at a much higher rate than BM earning over 100k.

also, although BW/WM couples do better financially, can someone repost those stats citing BW are usually bread winners in IR marriages? also, i don't know what high status black means. status usually derives from the male and his patriarchy, the black community doesn't have "high status" outside of a few celebs and a handful of wealthy elites.

I can't speak on the leeway other bw give bm for interracial dating, the same way that you can't speak for the entire "black community " on various issues. We are not a monolith. From what I see majority of bm who date out always had non black friends and were generally culturally interested in alternative things, so I don't consider them c00ns just different. I wouldn't label anyone a c00n until they explicitly or implicitly demonstrate they believe white superiority .

And by high status I mean a black person with a high amount of social capital, which usually comes in the form of a marketable degree, income, occupation, and string ties with important people.

Let me look at the stat u referenced on the breadwinners and get back to you on that 1, as I've never heard of it and it seems fishy to me