@Gloxina I feel like being handsome puts a man in a different criteria. A handsome man is equivalent to a "baddie". Add sex appeal, this skyrockets his success.
We say looks don't matter.
Truth is we live in a superficial world. Looks is the first we see on a person. Not just with face, we also notice a person's swag, style, body language, ways of expression.
The halo effect is real. Being attractive is a flex. More opportunities. With admirers also comes with haters.
As soon as I gained muscle and upgraded my wardrobe, female "friends" started to make indirect passes at me.
How do I look? I look like this dude
In general, we all should strive to be the most attractive version of ourselves.