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Ibeatpeoplekids_ said:
I know mistakes happens. That's why I forgave him. But then I found out that that one girl was one of many. I found out that his cheating dated back all the way to when we were dating. She was one of a dozen or more even. And not only that he was pillow talking. Telling these girls about my childhood stories that I confined only in him. shyt I never told anyone else. Showing these girls our home videos. Bringing them home to our bed, in our car, using our money. This nikkah was too calculating. He had time to think. He had time to stop. Know how i found out? We decided I should get off birth controls and go thru the tests with my doctor to try for a kid. Out of the numerous tests i was taking, i popped up positive for chlamydia.

He's been doing it for years. And still I forgave. Granted I stayed after finding out that there were many other girls, truth be told, besides me not wanting to give up on my marriage, I also only did it because I was pregnant and I didn't want to break up my family. I didn't want to be another statistic. A black 21 year old single mother.

Every situation is different. I'm sure you showed your girl that you didn't want to lose her, you showed her some kind of change. Mines didn't. :yeshrug:
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I'm sorry about that...

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Are you in Austin now?
 
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Ibeatpeoplekids_ said:
I know mistakes happens. That's why I forgave him. But then I found out that that one girl was one of many. I found out that his cheating dated back all the way to when we were dating. She was one of a dozen or more even. And not only that he was pillow talking. Telling these girls about my childhood stories that I confined only in him. shyt I never told anyone else. Showing these girls our home videos. Bringing them home to our bed, in our car, using our money. This nikkah was too calculating. He had time to think. He had time to stop. Know how i found out? We decided I should get off birth controls and go thru the tests with my doctor to try for a kid. Out of the numerous tests i was taking, i popped up positive for chlamydia.

He's been doing it for years. And still I forgave. Granted I stayed after finding out that there were many other girls, truth be told, besides me not wanting to give up on my marriage, I also only did it because I was pregnant and I didn't want to break up my family. I didn't want to be another statistic. A black 21 year old single mother.

Every situation is different. I'm sure you showed your girl that you didn't want to lose her, you showed her some kind of change. Mines didn't. :yeshrug:
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You honestly couldn't tell EJ was a scumbag from his post on here? I bet that nikka 1000000 more obnoxious irl too:francis:
 
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Ibeatpeoplekids_ said:
I know mistakes happens. That's why I forgave him. But then I found out that that one girl was one of many. I found out that his cheating dated back all the way to when we were dating. She was one of a dozen or more even. And not only that he was pillow talking. Telling these girls about my childhood stories that I confined only in him. shyt I never told anyone else. Showing these girls our home videos. Bringing them home to our bed, in our car, using our money. This nikkah was too calculating. He had time to think. He had time to stop. Know how i found out? We decided I should get off birth controls and go thru the tests with my doctor to try for a kid. Out of the numerous tests i was taking, i popped up positive for chlamydia.

He's been doing it for years. And still I forgave. Granted I stayed after finding out that there were many other girls, truth be told, besides me not wanting to give up on my marriage, I also only did it because I was pregnant and I didn't want to break up my family. I didn't want to be another statistic. A black 21 year old single mother.

Every situation is different. I'm sure you showed your girl that you didn't want to lose her, you showed her some kind of change. Mines didn't. :yeshrug:
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Damn sucks that u had to go thru that
But what's the race of this a$$hole ?
 
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malcolmxxx_45 said:
It's not easy to walk away from someone you been with 10+ years
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But it's easy to cheat on em? One would think if you've been with someone for 10+ years the least you could do is not cheat on them.

If the love you supposedly have for me isn't enough to deter you from doing something you know will cause me pain, then fukk you, honestly (general you, of course LOL).
 
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Poitier said:
You honestly couldn't tell EJ was a scumbag from his post on here? I bet that nikka 1000000 more obnoxious irl too:francis:
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He showed me a totally different person these 4 years. A false image. A facade. Didn't see it till everything blew up in my face.

Besides that I don't follow what he posts just as he doesn't follow mines, as far as I know.
 
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Meh said:
I'm sorry about that...

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Are you in Austin now?
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On my way there now. I start at eBay on the 30th, till then I'm going to be looking around for apartments.

I got 7 more hours of driving :sadbron: been driving since last night.
 
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Rusty Kuntz said:
But it's easy to cheat on em? One would think if you've been with someone for 10+ years the least you could do is not cheat on them.

If the love you supposedly have for me isn't enough to deter you from doing something you know will cause me pain, then fukk you, honestly (general you, of course LOL).
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The girl I cheated on well wants to get married tonight
But I can't take a knee, 'cause I'm wearin' all white
 
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