Be in a relationship brehettes

[Ashley Banks]

Read below.





@Poitier already pointed him out




Very messy





Last we spoke, he told me he was banned.

Can I cuss him out?

 

[Flywin Lannister]

I forgave. I did.
But even with that, he continued to do it. Cried, talked me into staying & working it out, cried some more but just wouldn't stop. But with that, I learned not to do that again because it's like when you forgive, they now have no fear of losing you. Once you lost that, they'll do anything with the thought in mind that you won't leave.

I forgave & stayed. 10 months later is when I finally called it quits. He wouldn't change, I miscarried with all the stress of "working it out," financially struggled, been verbally & mentally abused by him..... And this was my husband.

I feel free now.

I just know now to forgive but to still leave. Never take back a repeated offender.

Respect to you brehette. Still standing, stronger than before.

 

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

Can I cuss him out?

Be my guest

 

[Elle Driver]

I have forgiven and I've stayed. It's hard.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Every single man that I've known that's cheated and had a partner that stayed continued to cheat. They even got sloppier after the gf/wife stayed because it showed them that she's weak and will stay no matter what they do. From that I've learned that staying with a man after he cheats on you is stupid. I do not forgive. I've left men for less and I won't hesitate to leave a cheater. I won't even attempt to work it out. There is no chance of us getting back together in the future, we can't even be friends.

Not only that, but it makes men in general less concerned about cheating because they believe that most won't leave their man just because he cheats.

 

[Mr Rager]

I forgive while cheating backand using him.

Sorry but u betray me and all the love is gone. He'll do ridiculous shyt to make up for the mistake and you forgive him and act like it's okay. Meanwhile u use his moolah and hop on the dyck of ur choice until ur finished using the cheater. Meanwhile sex with the cheater should be stopped with a bunch of excuses. When he cries u know ur doing it right. Oh and that fine ass homie of his that makes you laugh is TOTALLY acceptable.

Don't fukk with me in love. U get more than just ur feelings hurt.I don't play them reindeer games. I'm nice and sweet and supportive, go out of my way for everybody in my life. I adore people and inconvenience myself for them. So if u take that kind of love and shyt on it for a nut, I feel justified in tearing ur world apart and skipping away.
Oh and pls don't get violent.
I own a 12 gauge and a 9mm and I have excellent aim.

If u open up that can of worms with cheating then u gotta take the Ls that come with it. Yo couch might have some strange DNA on it fukkin round with me. I know my dark. I'm vindictive.

Psychopath bytch
And i bet these other birds will cosign this insanity like 'yasss girl'

Get help.

 

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Psychopath bytch
And i bet these other birds will cosign this insanity like 'yasss girl'

Get help.

Don't cheat and u won't have to see that side of me

I'm good to those who are good to me and downright evil to ones who try to hurt me. It is what it is...

 

[Ashley Banks]

Don't cheat and u won't have to see that side of me

I'm good to those who are good to me and downright evil to ones who try to hurt me. It is what it is...

what's hilarious is if you were a dude doing this to a female, you would have gotten daps and reps and cosigns and you wouldn't have been insulted just called HOHs. When men cheat women should just be okay with it. When women cheat, anything goes, even beating her to death. But since you're a woman, you're a psychopath and a bytch and anyone that encourages you is a bird.

 

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what's hilarious is if you were a dude doing this to a female, you would have gotten daps and reps and cosigns and you wouldn't have been insulted just called HOHs. When men cheat women should just be okay with it. When women cheat, anything goes, even beating her to death. But since you're a woman, you're a psychopath and a bytch and anyone that encourages you is a bird.

You already know what the deal is with double standards.
So fukk their feelings. Some dudes just feel entitled to causing hurt and cheating and but get uber butt hurt at even the mere thought of it happening to them. It is what it is.

My thing is I feel totally justified in my actions if u try to hurt me. I'm probably one of the nicest people in the world and I ALWAYS support others, encourage people, the works.

If ur dumb enuff to take advantage of that then I've got a right to fukk up ur world. My philosophy is if ur that damaged where u want to fukk people over unprovoked then stay ur damaged ass out of a relationship. Waste my time and I'll waste ur life.
And any chick silly enuff to stay in an abusive situation is crazy. I'm just not built for that. Come for my joy and I'm coming for u. Lmao!

 

[Youhadasparkwhenustarted]

Every single man that I've known that's cheated and had a partner that stayed continued to cheat. They even got sloppier after the gf/wife stayed because it showed them that she's weak and will stay no matter what they do. From that I've learned that staying with a man after he cheats on you is stupid. I do not forgive. I've left men for less and I won't hesitate to leave a cheater. I won't even attempt to work it out. There is no chance of us getting back together in the future, we can't even be friends.

This is how it happens most of the time, people try to see how much they can push rather than change, some you gotta catch someone multiple times before they really try to stop. Better to just break up then and get it over with if you s/o cheats, because you'll be back at that point again sooner or later if you choose to forgive and stay; cheaters rarely learn their lesson.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I have forgiven and I've stayed. It's hard.

Damn ur husband cheated already
Wow

 

[Biscayne]

bullshyt. My slimy ass soon to be ex-husband is on thecoli.

He's a Haitian just like me. We Haitian men are scumbags, murders, thieves, psychopaths, and all around dangerous people.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I forgave. I did.
But even with that, he continued to do it. Cried, talked me into staying & working it out, cried some more but just wouldn't stop. But with that, I learned not to do that again because it's like when you forgive, they now have no fear of losing you. Once you lost that, they'll do anything with the thought in mind that you won't leave.

I forgave & stayed. 10 months later is when I finally called it quits. He wouldn't change, I miscarried with all the stress of "working it out," financially struggled, been verbally & mentally abused by him..... And this was my husband.

I feel free now.

I just know now to forgive but to still leave. Never take back a repeated offender.

I cheated on my girl but she took me back
And never cheated again

Mistakes happen

 

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

He's a Haitian just like me. We Haitian men are scumbags, murders, thieves, psychopaths, and all around dangerous people.

He's an authentic Haitian at that .


I'm Haitian too but you don't see me using my heritage as reasons why I can't be faithful. Let's not forget that I did mention I forgave him but it's as if that forgiveness gave him permission to continue to cheat.

 

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

I cheated on my girl but she took me back
And never cheated again

Mistakes happen

I know mistakes happens. That's why I forgave him. But then I found out that that one girl was one of many. I found out that his cheating dated back all the way to when we were dating. She was one of a dozen or more even. And not only that he was pillow talking. Telling these girls about my childhood stories that I confined only in him. shyt I never told anyone else. Showing these girls our home videos. Bringing them home to our bed, in our car, using our money. This nikkah was too calculating. He had time to think. He had time to stop. Know how i found out? We decided I should get off birth controls and go thru the tests with my doctor to try for a kid. Out of the numerous tests i was taking, i popped up positive for chlamydia.

He's been doing it for years. And still I forgave. Granted I stayed after finding out that there were many other girls, truth be told, besides me not wanting to give up on my marriage, I also only did it because I was pregnant and I didn't want to break up my family. I didn't want to be another statistic. A black 21 year old single mother.

Every situation is different. I'm sure you showed your girl that you didn't want to lose her, you showed her some kind of change. Mines didn't.