In a way, trans identity is very much tied to patriarchy and misogyny. If you ever read any trans men stories, they often talk about their internalized hate for women because they were taught that women were less than.
You have stories of trans women who feel they failed to perform masculinity so badly that they feel that they must be women.
And both trans men and women often transition because instead of standing proudly in their queerness, they rather transition to help better replicate normal man/woman parings that are endorsed by patriarchy.
I’m fukking with you. You make a valid point.