Bruh when women get fly they not doing that shyt for their man. They know their man thinks they the shyt, they getting fly to make other women jealous and to validate they still got it. Let me expand here, women want they nikka to get fly not because they want their man to look great but because they want to make the other women jealous that they can get a fly nikka and the other woman can't. So essentially other women wanting their man makes them feel better.
And to go along with that nobody wants someone that nobody else would want. If you found out nobody was checking for your woman, ever, you wouldn't be happy the first thing that would pop in your mind is "well damn, what's wrong with her that I'm not seeing".
Again I say speak for yourself. I do not look around to see who is checking for my woman. As long as I want her that is all that matters to me. I'm too possessive to want some other man to want hter. And I think tha'ts stupid to be honest. That being petty, insecure in your own choices, and slightly feminine. I've dated eccentric women that other guys thought were weird. I didn'dt care because she is with me and my sole validation is enough.