Average Looking, Future Cat Lady Details Why She Plans On Being Single Forever....

[YouMadd?]

I mean I think she should shut the fukk up, but can we stop posting these types of threads…..

I feel like Kevin Samuel theme music should just play in the background on this fukking site…

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

I think the issue here is that she has a completely valid point, in not being interested in getting into a relationship to be taken for granted, but is presenting it in the absolute worst possible fashion.

Starting your argument with "I don't want to do anything for you" is completely different than saying "I want someone who contributes and doesn't take me for granted." The way ol' girl was presenting it was like saying that whoever is interested in her needs to be completely fine with basically just having a female roommate who may occasionally let them clap cheeks.

True, but we're men and it's not such a groundbreaking concept for us to say fukk it.

She tired of I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired on top of any other mental shyt she got going on before making her post. I'll never understand it, but it's the way these birds talk now

 

[Still Benefited]

On average men work more hours than women… So if he’s working more and paying a lion share of the bills, is it unreasonable that she would do a majority of the household chores? The man is going to take care of the curb appeal of the home and fix things as well, so it evens out.

If your woman works,you are in a polygamous relationship with you,her and the white man. And its even worst if your woman has fully taken on a masculine ego.


Now we are talking about two black men fighting for control of the relationship. And whenever theres a stalemate,the white man always takes "her" side.


Thecoli mocked me when I said childless,older women should be couple mothers for young couples. Meanwhile ironically, much of thecoli will end up in relationships where the white man will be their "couple mother"


But,yall wanna stay in this sick situation and subject yourselves and your woman to white supremacy

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

The difference is a husband is no different than your boss

 

[13473]

Unless she is saying she wants to he treated like a housewife but not put in housewife work , I don't see the issue

She said each carry their own load. That sounds like 50 50 to me.

Also she is a divorced mom not a single mom

 

[MajesticLion]

 

[Gloxina]

Mental illness.

Wtf is going on with women.

Y’all might be right about this women and attention thing, because I’ll be damned…what was the reason to post this

 

[Brolic]

Does she have a job? I bet she has a boss she does all that for and more. But it’s “different” because she gets paid for it. And her boss makes her feel smart and important and maybe even pretty.

The difference is a husband is no different than your boss and a lot of women don’t want to hear that. You wouldn’t tell your boss “be a damn grownup” or “I ain’t doing all that” because he will fire you.

And for you men out there, women can only serve one master at a time. It is either you or some cac who is paying her $60k per year. If you can’t replace that cac and his money, you are going to have problems.

Why is this only a problem with black women? You don’t hear the majority of white women spew this nonsense.
Mexicans come over here and sell corn on the side of the road and stand the around Home Depot, you don’t hear their women talkings like this.

 

[Hazel Brown]

While I can already tell this nutty bimbo is a chore to be around and all around insufferable based on her mini rant here, I agree with her somewhat. I've basically accepted that I'll be single forever because I refuse to be in a transactional relationship where I'm some chick's retirement plan and her walking, talking, breathing ATM

I remember once upon a time, a woman used to like you for you. How you made them laugh, how you made them feel. And while I'm sure there are some women out there fitting this description, they are snatched up and wiped quickly, as they should be. Finding one of the aforementioned women that are single, feminine, agreeable, soft spoken with a pleasant disposition is as rare as finding Candace Owens in a soul food place or BLM rally. Is there any hope left for any of us? Does this angry bird have a point?

@Henri Christophe What are your thoughts on this?

 

[Rekkapryde]

Why do average women get to talk shyt now?

the internet

 

[Nigerianwonder]

A lot of wives end up being exactly what she described. Basically care givers to the whole family and end up feeling like a maid or servant. It can be thankless. However you just have to communicate and set boundaries.

If 2 people are working then 2 people should be cooking and cleaning. It's that simple and many relationships are like that.

Its supposed to be a thankless job. Your kids didn't ask to be here. You want them to say thank you? Too many westernized women are selfish and think marriage and being a wife is about what they can get out of it individually instead of what they can contribute to it. That's the only way you could warp your mind to think being mother and wife taking care of your family and kids is in any way like being a maid or servant.

Imagine a man and husband saying he is tired of protecting his wife cause he feels like he is a security guard. See how silly and absurd that sounds. You never hear men say stuff like this cause we understand our purpose in marriage and family is bigger than ourselves.

 

[13473]

I don’t think what she’s saying in unreasonable, but she seems unhinged and brainwashed by tiktok videos she saw. There are men who can cook, clean and make appointments for themselves, plenty of them.

I bet you she would find one of them boring though

She claims her ex was a narcissist who mentally/verbally abused her calling her sexually repulsive, ugly etc regularly even when she went out of her way to please him. I'm guessing she has low tolerance now for certain kinds of behaviors

I don't think there is anything wrong with 50 50 if both are fully doing it and prefer it, but she may also want to see a therapist about the past abuse.

 

[Gloxina]

It’s one thing if she didn’t have kids saying this rhetoric
But she has two kids and she don’t even know how this not only effects her daughter but her son
This is the shyt people talk about when it comes to parenting
The kids see this shyt
The kids hear this rhetoric
So once they get out here in the world
They either fear trying to love/be loved
Or become straight sociopaths
No in betweens
Then it’s years of fukkery trying to be corrected at an old age
Regrets and “why the fukk did I do that”
Develop poor communication skills with friends and loved ones
All kinds of shyt to unpack
But you can’t critique or say anything about single mothers because that means you just hate women
Thecoli ain’t built for this conversation at all
It’s apparent by the posters that already posted
And the goofies that will inevitably come in afterwards
You the same nikkas that dap a rapist
I don’t take none of you nikkas serious
That’s on gawd

You aren’t wrong.

 

[Gloxina]

Its supposed to be a thankless job. Your kids didn't ask to be here. You want them to say thank you? Too many westernized women are selfish and think marriage and being a wife is about what they can get out of it individually instead of what they can contribute to it. That's the only way you could warp your mind to think being mother and wife taking care of your family and kids is in any way like being a maid or servant.

Imagine a man and husband saying he is tired of protecting his wife cause he feels like he is a security guard. See how silly and absurd that sounds. You never hear men say stuff like this cause we understand our purpose in marriage and family is bigger than ourselves.

Yeeeeeeeea but those are the feelings that set it once you have a husband who starts cheating or leaves you for someone else. Then it feels like it was all pointless.