Average Looking, Future Cat Lady Details Why She Plans On Being Single Forever....

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You're saying a quiet part out loud that speaks to her point. Many men believe if they out-earn their partner or pay a lion's share of the bills the woman should do all of this additional labor in the home, even if she has a job of her own.

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On average men work more hours than women… So if he’s working more and paying a lion share of the bills, is it unreasonable that she would do a majority of the household chores? The man is going to take care of the curb appeal of the home and fix things as well, so it evens out.
 

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Does she have a job? I bet she has a boss she does all that for and more. But it’s “different” because she gets paid for it. And her boss makes her feel smart and important and maybe even pretty.

The difference is a husband is no different than your boss and a lot of women don’t want to hear that. You wouldn’t tell your boss “be a damn grownup” or “I ain’t doing all that” because he will fire you.

And for you men out there, women can only serve one master at a time. It is either you or some cac who is paying her $60k per year. If you can’t replace that cac and his money, you are going to have problems. 🤷🏿‍♀️
 

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Aint a damn thing wrong with what she's saying tho?

If I was single with almost grown kids, I wouldn't want to be doing shyt for my next lady either. Smash and grab and take yo ass to your own crib when we finished...I don't want to be bothered.

The whole "getting to know you, texting 24/7, and I love you too baby at 6 am" can get tossed in the bushes too :camby:

I think the issue here is that she has a completely valid point, in not being interested in getting into a relationship to be taken for granted, but is presenting it in the absolute worst possible fashion.

Starting your argument with "I don't want to do anything for you" is completely different than saying "I want someone who contributes and doesn't take me for granted." The way ol' girl was presenting it was like saying that whoever is interested in her needs to be completely fine with basically just having a female roommate who may occasionally let them clap cheeks.
 

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I don’t think what she’s saying in unreasonable, but she seems unhinged and brainwashed by tiktok videos she saw. There are men who can cook, clean and make appointments for themselves, plenty of them.

I bet you she would find one of them boring though :sas2:
 
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