At what point in life did you figure you can't save certain people
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Plankton
All Star
You're supposed to exploit the people who can't be saved.
Living up to that screen name
Doobie Doo
Veteran
Don't save him
Fill Collins
I like the one that says shum pulp
In my very early 20s, the mf was nearly 40 and stubborn as hell, long story short, he lives out a truck with expired tags 
This
All im gonna say is if someone doesnt realize when they are getting in their own way and has too much pride and ego to check themselves on their bullshyt. You can push someone to be their best selves or be their higher selves but if they hate themselves, want to self destruct, dont believe in themselves or dont want to be great.... 
even if youre down and out, you can still get back up as long as youre alive. We all have to be our own best advocate.
even if youre down and out, you can still get back up as long as youre alive. We all have to be our own best advocate.
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Yes, we sometimes spend too much energy trying to help people change, and it's good to be hopeful...but detrimental to yourself to be delusional or even stubborn about their unwillingness to change or want more for themselves too.
After a couple tries and / or years, you just have to accept people as they are and hope for the best. If it means distancing yourself, so be it.
Set realistic expectations and meet people where they are...especially once you're in your 30s / 40s.
After a couple tries and / or years, you just have to accept people as they are and hope for the best. If it means distancing yourself, so be it.
Set realistic expectations and meet people where they are...especially once you're in your 30s / 40s.
I’m in my 30s and I finally cut off my crashed out homeboy who I have wrote about on here
It’s been about four days with no contact and this bytch ass nikka texted me this morning talking about he got a promotion.
I haven’t responded back because I feel like it’s a trap. And I specifically told him a couple days ago to respect my boundaries and don’t hit me up at all. But he has shown he cannot respect my wishes.
It’s been about four days with no contact and this bytch ass nikka texted me this morning talking about he got a promotion.
I haven’t responded back because I feel like it’s a trap. And I specifically told him a couple days ago to respect my boundaries and don’t hit me up at all. But he has shown he cannot respect my wishes.
I just give em the cold shoulder. I can't even be worried past a certain point. If you disappoint me too many times you dead to me.