“At this point I’ve realized that black men really just don’t like black women”

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because your viewpoint of women not liking men and just using them doesn't match up with my experience...

every chick I've dated when i had nothing to offer except personality worshiped me...

That doesn’t negate what I said, though. You’re viewing this from a “personal experience” lens -
I’m speaking from a general sense like the woman in the OP.

Whatever you had that made them “worship” you is something they thought was a “need”.
Their “needs” take precedence over their supposed “likes”.

Also, I said women generally aren’t going to change to try to conform to whatever it is
men generally like. It doesn’t matter that much to them.
 

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They not sexually attracted to them. Women in general are more picky with who they are attracted to (studies have shown that women find the vast majority of the male population unattrqctive). They would rather hold out and wait for an attractive male. It makes sense :yeshrug:. This is also why polygamy was popular with women back in the day. Women would rathet share a high value man than be monogamous to a loser :yeshrug:. Makes sense from an evolutionary point if view:ohhh:.
1. So you think that 53% of black men are not having sex with black women or seen as attractive by black women. ???

2. Women back in the day when polygamy was the norm DIDNT HAVE A CHOICE. And broke nikkas who couldn't afford dowry's or to maintain their wives didn't partake.
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That doesn’t negate what I said, though. You’re viewing this from a “personal experience” lens -
I’m speaking from a general sense like the woman in the OP.

Whatever you had that made them “worship” you is something they thought was a “need”.
Their “needs” take precedence over their supposed “likes”.

Also, I said women generally aren’t going to change to try to conform to whatever it is
men generally like. It doesn’t matter that much to them.
So you're saying that you disagree that a man should have something about him that a woman thinks she needs in her life.

Women should date men simply for being nice good men?
 

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so you're saying that the 53% of men who are single are due to black women not liking those 53%?

are you single?

:patrice:
Yes I'm single (technically) Of course it's not Black women's fault that 53% of men aren't married. But lets keep it real the whole manosphere Red Pill community is very small so it ain't that Black Men are anti marriage per se. It's a combo of women over looking these men and the men over looking the women send choosing signals.

But with such a high number and a concern trolling article about the plight of single Black women you'd think women would do what it takes to get wifed up and they would but not with the nikkas in that 53%.
 

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So you're saying that you disagree that a man should have something about him that a woman thinks she needs in her life.

I don’t recall saying this at all.

But what I will say is that many women have “wants” that they consider “needs”, and they
select partners based on these. That’s fine, and that’s up to them.

...but if women say the reason they don’t have the partners they want (or as some say “deserve”)
is because men’s standards are too high, then I’m not buying what they’re selling and I don’t
believe what they’re telling.
 

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I don’t recall saying this at all.

But what I will say is that many women have “wants” that they consider “needs”, and they
select partners based on these. That’s fine, and that’s up to them.

...but if women say the reason they don’t have the partners they want (or as some say “deserve”)
is because men’s standards are too high, then I’m not buying what they’re selling and I don’t
believe what they’re telling.
Ok.....

Do you run into women who say your standards too high?
 

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Yes I'm single (technically) Of course it's not Black women's fault that 53% of men aren't married. But lets keep it real the whole manosphere Red Pill community is very small so it ain't that Black Men are anti marriage per se. It's a combo of women over looking these men and the men over looking the women send choosing signals.

But with such a high number and a concern trolling article about the plight of single Black women you'd think women would do what it takes to get wifed up and they would but not with the nikkas in that 53%.
Why are you single?
 

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Russel could have chosen any woman he wanted
Russel DID have his way...
and he did choose a chick with a baby
First off It ain't about Russell's choices it's about what his choices signify. Of course russ had his way, he's a devout Christian who probably sees taking care of out of wedlock children as the morally pious thing to do, which is all fine and good, for him and ciara. Not all men are thinking like him though.

Secondly what's not talked about enough is the fact that men are prone to undervaluing themselves the same way women are prone to overvaluing themselves. Not that I know for fact that this is the case for Russ, but he might have took one good look at ciara and said to himself "this is as good as it's gonna get," when in reality, for a man of his caliber, it could be better.
if you think the SMALL amount of women with chldren who find sucessful men are enough to influence a whole demographic...

then how come the LARGE amount of women with chldren who are alone doesnt?
You didn't stop to think while typing this, why there is such a large amount of women with children who are alone in the first place? The simple truth is women tend to value feelings over facts and love a feel good fantasy and will block out anything that contradicts those good feelings. So yeah they'll look at ciara and see themselves in her and won't even stop to really think about why their own reality doesn't line up let alone be thinking about the many other women who are in their position.

As a matter of fact looking back at your response we're in agreeance on this, they don't base their mindset on the real world, where you're mistaken is that you think what russ and ciara have going on is somehow indicative of what's realistic and to be expected in the real world. If that was the case then there wouldn't be so many bitter single mothers wondering why they can't find love, they'd have their own "russ" to speak of, relatively speaking. What he and ciara have going on is some shyt straight out of a tyler perry movie. :mjlol: Wholesome Christian mr perfect saves beautiful and talented yet wayward woman and her illegitimate child from lifelong damnation at the hands of her no good thug baby daddy. Fitting considering mr perry makes his bones catering to the sensibilities of women and what they want to see.

And I'm not understanding your reasoning to throw the self righteous label on me. You act as if I'm saying having children oow is an unforgivable sin and single mothers deserve to be alone and bitter for the rest of their life. When all I'm advocating for is for those kinds of women to practice some self reflection and hold themselves accountable. If I wanted them to be alone and jaded I'd sell them dreams about what they "deserve" like everybody else in their life did and then fall back and watch when reality doesn't line up with the bs they've been fed.

If more women understood the real like i do instead of putting their faith and feelings into fallacies that do them no good then naturally less woman would be bitter because they would have their eyes on the right men to try for fruitful relationships with and would be more mindful of their actions knowing it would hurt them in the long run, instead of what we have now, a bunch of hurt and confused lost causes running to public internet platforms to shyt on and lay blame on entire races of men that don't deserve being villainized. I'm not for that shyt at all.
 

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Its because she got hurt so now its 'all'. No sweetie its just you. Make better choices.
 
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