“At this point I’ve realized that black men really just don’t like black women”

[Savvir]

I know @ the bolded, that's my point. Was alluding to that discussion we had about Russell Wilson and ciara's union feeding into women's unrealistic expectations of how things should go and how when those expectations aren't met those women want to lash out at men instead of practicing self reflection and taking a critical look at the role their bad decisions played in where they are in life now. I feel this thread is empirical evidence that backs up my claim that's why I mentioned you.

so you're saying that if ciara and russel werent together this woman wouldnt have made that post?

lol

wut?

the woman said men dont like michelle or cardi b...

Her post is not based on any observation of celebrity relationships...

It's based on her not being attractive and being treated as such

ciara and russel dont perpetuate the idea that unattractive women get high income men

an attractive multimillionaire woman who is agreeable will find love no problem...

this woman is not basing her ideology on that reality

 

[Taadow]

What does it matter what we may like?? Because:

1. They don’t like us
2. They ain’t gonna try to be what we might like anyway

 

[Savvir]

What does it matter what we may like?? Because:

1. They don’t like us
2. They ain’t gonna try to be what we might like anyway

1. vast majority of all black relationships are between black men and black women.... how the fukk is that possible if "they dont like us"
2. refer to #1

yall nikkas be on that delusional internet shyt forreal..negged

 

[The Fade]

I could hook these bitter broads up with some white dudes if they want.

 

[Taadow]

1. vast majority of all black relationships are between black men and black women.... how the fukk is that possible if "they dont like us"
2. refer to #1

yall nikkas be on that delusional internet shyt forreal..negged

1. They view us as property, and a want a nicca to bankroll them and their lifestyle.
That doesn’t mean they like us or care about us outside of what we “owe” to them
2. Refer to #1

You can be blind to this if you want, but you can stay blind by yourself.
Don’t try to bring me along with your stupid ass.

 

[Tha_Mac]

Actually I think she might have a point. Particularly regarding young men.

Dissed Megan and them for WAP and dissed Kamala for getting the VP nod. Some of these dudes don't like women at all , applauding domestic violence and men putting hands on women.

 

[Black Steph Curry]

so you're saying that if ciara and russel werent together this woman wouldnt have made that post?

lol

wut?

the woman said men dont like michelle or cardi b...

Her post is not based on any observation of celebrity relationships...

It's based on her not being attractive and being treated as such

ciara and russel dont perpetuate the idea that unattractive women get high income men

an attractive multimillionaire woman who is agreeable will find love no problem...

this woman is not basing her ideology on that reality

Lol I never said Russell and ciara was a direct inspiration for the way she personally sees things, don't do that. My point is that the ideology she subscribes to that has her on fb shytting on black men, and the underlying theme behind Russell and ciara's union that makes it such a polarizing topic of discussion, are one in the same.

The fact is if she was willing to try for a fruitful relationship with someone on her level she wouldn't be exuding toxic femininity on social media the way she is now, so when you say the problem is her lack of attractiveness i fail to see how that's relevant. People in worse shape than her that are honest about where they stand in life get chose by their counterparts everyday, and if they're not satisfied with their options then they improve themselves until they are, what they're not doing is throwing pity parties on social media.

Her entitlement to mr perfect and her unwillingness to give a man on equal footing as her a shot only leaves her open to be used by higher value men for a quick nut, which feeds into her bitterness.

You say ciara and russel dont perpetuate the idea that unattractive women get high income men but i beg to differ. Because the attractiveness of a potential relationship with someone isn't just relegated to the physical part of things. Let's be real, if men had their way nobody would be getting into a relationship with a woman that already had a kid by a questionable father. It doesn't automatically make a woman uglier but it is definitely a strike against the woman in a man's eyes and makes the prospect of a relationship with the woman less attractive, especially for a man who has no kids of his own let alone kids with a low quality mate.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

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[Savvir]

Let's be real, if men had their way nobody would be getting into a relationship with a woman that already had a kid by a questionable father.

you're stuck on some weird self righteous view of men and women

Russel could have chosen any woman he wanted
Russel DID have his way...
and he did choose a chick with a baby

if you think the SMALL amount of women with chldren who find sucessful men are enough to influence a whole demographic...

then how come the LARGE amount of women with chldren who are alone doesnt?

the answer is because they arent basing their opinions on the real world anyways...

so a celebrity relationship in the real world has no bearing on the argument

 

[Savvir]

1. They view us as property, and a want a nicca to bankroll them and their lifestyle.
That doesn’t mean they like us or care about us outside of what we “owe” to them
2. Refer to #1

You can be blind to this if you want, but you can stay blind by yourself.
Don’t try to bring me along with your stupid ass.

what city do you live in?

the black women in that city treat their men like property?

 

[AngryBaby]

another ugly woman making a "ya'll hate black women" point, to distract herself from the fact that shes just not that attractive.

for example, dudes ain't out here not tryna smash jessica white.

 

[Wiseborn]

1. vast majority of all black relationships are between black men and black women.... how the fukk is that possible if "they dont like us"
2. refer to #1

yall nikkas be on that delusional internet shyt forreal..negged

Black women seem to be unhappy with the sexual market value. Like you said the majority if not all the individuals listed had a Black boyfriend or husband. Yet Black Men "hate" Black women. What author hates is her choice in men. And yeah those men tend to be Black.

 

[Taadow]

what city do you live in?

the black women in that city treat their men like property?

It doesn’t matter what city I live in, and it doesn’t matter what color - this is women’s nature in general.

They are out here to get their needs met, them “liking” men is secondary,
and I only say “secondary” because “thirddary” isn’t a word.

 

[Savvir]

It doesn’t matter what city I live in, and it doesn’t matter what color - this is women’s nature in general.

They are out here to get their needs met, them “liking” men is secondary,
and I only say “secondary” because “thirddary” isn’t a word.

you never had relationships where the chick worshipped you?

why are you embarrassed of where you live?

 

[Savvir]

Black women seem to be unhappy with the sexual market value. Like you said the majority if not all the individuals listed had a Black boyfriend or husband. Yet Black Men "hate" Black women. What author hates is her choice in men. And yeah those men tend to be Black.

single women of all races over 30 are typically unhappy with the sexual market

but it's just not true that black women hate black men otherwise the majority of our marriages and relationships wouldnt be with them