At 23 and never having a GF.. ive come to realization im going to have to settle for a single mother

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Honestly, Nigerian is right, they won't come flocking when he makes money unless he does things to attract them or makes a lot of money. They don't know him and then a lot of his time would be taken as it is. His issue stems from Chuckie Finster like fear and a complete lack of confidence.

Exactly... Pablo make a lot of money playa!!!!!
 

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Nah, you're wrong. I just turned 28 and I know quite a few women that I went to highschool with who are single, with BAs/Masters good jobs and no kids.

The bad chicks that you wanted to smash so bad in HS usually are the ones that have kids sooner than the girls that haven't came into their own during that time.
 

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Say what you want @PabloEscobar but Nigerian has a point. Some might think he looks like a fool but LA Times, Fuse, and many others are contacting him and many girls who are hot are giving him play for trying and not being scared to fail. While I don't agree with some of the things Nigerian is doing I know one thing and he is overly confident and not afraid to fail. Pablo, he is the anti you. You are afraid to fail and are scared to take risk. Then you come off abrasive when someone like Nigerian is being real yet an @sshole. You are the one talking about offing yourself and getting overly stressed about tests. You need something to live for. Living to cry about being scare of life isn't working for you. Maybe you should pass out flyers for Nigerian and then get an idea to do something creative for yourself. I am pretty sure you can do it. Like Nigerian, you tend to be engaging when you aren't scared.
Dude tells everyone straight up about how he has no friends. There's a reason for that. He's not chill and he can barely communicate with people. He has no idea how to strike up a friendship.

Man, I invited dude to come out and kick it with some cool people and all dude could talk about is if "bytches" would be there and how he doesn't smoke or drink.

As if I would invite his thirsty, awkward ass to chill with some chicks without seeing how he acts when it's just the guys. :comeon:

The funny thing is if I did have him over when I have a bunch of girls at the spot all he'd do is awkwardly sulk in the corner. Or maybe he'd try to throw shade on one of the guys in a lame attempt to win favor with the women.

Guys like him are insufferable. It's good to know that his genes will soon be eraticated from the gene pool.
 

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Dude tells everyone straight up about how he has no friends. There's a reason for that. He's not chill and he can barely communicate with people. He has no idea how to strike up a friendship.

Man, I invited dude to come out and kick it with some cool people and all dude could talk about is if "bytches" would be there and how he doesn't smoke or drink.

As if I would invite his thirsty, awkward ass to chill with some chicks without seeing how he acts when it's just the guys. :comeon:

The funny thing is if I did have him over when I have a bunch of girls at the spot all he'd do is awkwardly sulk in the corner. Or maybe he'd try to throw shade on one of the guys in a lame attempt to win favor with the women.

Guys like him are insufferable. It's good to know that his genes will soon be eraticated from the gene pool.

do you have a girlfriend? when was your last relationship? have you ever had a girlfriend? you come off like a jerk/douche/pompous a$$hole on the coli and in tinychat. do people (other than that half naked nerdy white kid always sleeping on your couch) actually enjoy your company? maybe its just me, but you seem like you have an one of those antagonistic personalities that stem from insecurities, and those are the worse type of people to be around.
 

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Pablo be trollin the hell out of us :pachaha:
Nah, this dude is exactly who he says he is. Trust me.

Think about it this way... you're a young black man who's doing physics in college, you already won :manny:
Won what? The Ditto Sheet game? In case you haven't heard college (from a learning perspective) is a joke.

No friends in college and dude is winning? The point of college to make friends and network with other tuition payers. The goal is to build a better social network than the one available in your neighborhood.

One of the biggest mistakes people make is approaching college like its checkers when it's really chess.

Watch as dude leaves college with a no job, mountain of debt, and no b!tches.

Pablo is on the fast track to become the next mass killer, just watch as dude slides deeper and deeper into an existential meltdown.
 

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you think you're ready to have a gf?

it seems you have a lot of self problems you need to take care of before you go out in the dating word

If hes serious...this...

A lot of dudes make the mistake of believing that the answer to their inherit issues in live revolves around not having a girlfriend.

You can not expect a girl to fix your issues for you, its not her responsibility. As curly and a few other said, ace that exam, get right with yourself, build some confidence however you may, THEN worry about members of the opposite sex. Being on the coli all day isn't going to conjure up the girl of your dreams.

And:skip: at your first post Pablo, I can't tell if this is level 2 :troll: but if you're serious:snoop:.
 

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Dude tells everyone straight up about how he has no friends. There's a reason for that. He's not chill and he can barely communicate with people. He has no idea how to strike up a friendship.

Man, I invited dude to come out and kick it with some cool people and all dude could talk about is if "bytches" would be there and how he doesn't smoke or drink.

As if I would invite his thirsty, awkward ass to chill with some chicks without seeing how he acts when it's just the guys. :comeon:

The funny thing is if I did have him over when I have a bunch of girls at the spot all he'd do is awkwardly sulk in the corner. Or maybe he'd try to throw shade on one of the guys in a lame attempt to win favor with the women.

Guys like him are insufferable. It's good to know that his genes will soon be eraticated from the gene pool.
Everyone can change. It's clear he's scared and I don't know why. I am not saying he needs to get into what you do but he needs to open up personality wise and he can go from there. I can't kill the man for what he is today when he can be a leader tomorrow. Only God can say.
 
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