At 23 and never having a GF.. ive come to realization im going to have to settle for a single mother

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Nah, you're wrong. I just turned 28 and I know quite a few women that I went to highschool with who are single, with BAs/Masters good jobs and no kids.

The bad chicks that you wanted to smash so bad in HS usually are the ones that have kids sooner than the girls that haven't came into their own during that time.
There's no reward for not fvcking these chicks in their prime.

And no, women don't get "better with age." Nobody is tripping over their d!ck to fvck some chick that was hot 10 years ago.


Everyone can change. It's clear he's scared and I don't know why. I am not saying he needs to get into what you do but he needs to open up personality wise and he can go from there. I can't kill the man for what he is today when he can be a leader tomorrow. Only God can say.
Dude is one of those "No drink, no smoke" kind of guys that makes everyone feel awkward as fvck. I doubt dude would even make a decent DD. He can't hang socially because he's a straight up b!tch.
 

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Nah, this dude is exactly who he says he is. Trust me.


Won what? The Ditto Sheet game? In case you haven't heard college (from a learning perspective) is a joke.

No friends in college and dude is winning? The point of college to make friends and network with other tuition payers. The goal is to build a better social network than the one available in your neighborhood.

One of the biggest mistakes people make is approaching college like its checkers when it's really chess.

Watch as dude leaves college with a no job, mountain of debt, and no b!tches.

Pablo is on the fast track to become the next mass killer, just watch as dude slides deeper and deeper into an existential meltdown.


Exactly, I mean, I wouldn't downplay the role of a good education, especially when you're learning a subject that's considered an employable one, (bonus points for graduating with honors like me).

However, college is what you make it, being sociable, crafting connections and marketing yourself is the true takeaway from going to college. Life ain't like the movies where the awkward, inherently interesting bookworm dude somehow bumps into the girl of his dreams by studying, going to class and being on the coli all the time:duck:. You gotta get out there and socialize breh, :myman:there's a statistical impossibility that someone is just going to fall in your lap.:ufdup:
 

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There's no reward for not fvcking these chicks in their prime.

And no, women don't get "better with age." Nobody is tripping over their d!ck to fvck some chick that was hot 10 years ago.
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do you have a girlfriend? when was your last relationship? have you ever had a girlfriend? you come off like a jerk/douche/pompous @sshole on the coli and in tinychat. do people (other than that half naked nerdy white kid always sleeping on your couch) actually enjoy your company? maybe its just me, but you seem like you have an one of those antagonistic personalities that stem from insecurities, and those are the worse type of people to be around.
You can't be judgmental at the bottom confidence wise. It doesn't hurt him one bit and all it does is make you feel better and do nothing to make your situation better. It's clear Nigerian is an ahole at times and doesn't reframe from it but he's going do him. He's grown into that and feel comfort with that. You are the one who is feeling discomfort, not Nigerian. You are the one who needs work. Nigerian just offered you advice from his perspective. Which is cutthroat then he offers a solution which is why he invited you to hang with him. Now what do you want, solution or a pitty party? It seems like you want people to feel sorry for you and hope women feel sad to give you some. Well, that doesn't happen unless she is feeling you and you are leaving another girl and she thinks she is a better option which is clearly not the case with you. I don't know what you want to do. You tend to be a hardass when it comes to people coming at you. That's might be effective at 16-21 but when you talking to adults who do things, we don't care. We will just look at your situation and move on like, whatever man. I tried to help but oh well.

Not one of these women even really like you. Not one. So what is this pitty party for?
 

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Nah, this dude is exactly who he says he is. Trust me.


Won what? The Ditto Sheet game? In case you haven't heard college (from a learning perspective) is a joke.

No friends in college and dude is winning? The point of college to make friends and network with other tuition payers. The goal is to build a better social network than the one available in your neighborhood.

One of the biggest mistakes people make is approaching college like its checkers when it's really chess.

Watch as dude leaves college with a no job, mountain of debt, and no b!tches.

Pablo is on the fast track to become the next mass killer, just watch as dude slides deeper and deeper into an existential meltdown.

:what: where the fukk are you getting at with all this shyt breh? i told a lot my frosh/soph friends about being virgin, and they didn't believe me at first. some even offer to get bytches for me, but i respectfully declined because i get my own women. its not like im just out here struggling with the opposite sex. im dealing with issues on a whole another level of thinking me and my virginity. you wouldn't understand tho. i had multiple chances just within the last year of girls I know i couldve slept with if i wanted to, and i have a girl in my phone right now im sure i could smash with effort... i just not trying to rush into anything. whats wrong with that?
 

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Dude tells everyone straight up about how he has no friends. There's a reason for that. He's not chill and he can barely communicate with people. He has no idea how to strike up a friendship.

Man, I invited dude to come out and kick it with some cool people and all dude could talk about is if "bytches" would be there and how he doesn't smoke or drink.

As if I would invite his thirsty, awkward ass to chill with some chicks without seeing how he acts when it's just the guys. :comeon:

The funny thing is if I did have him over when I have a bunch of girls at the spot all he'd do is awkwardly sulk in the corner. Or maybe he'd try to throw shade on one of the guys in a lame attempt to win favor with the women.

Guys like him are insufferable. It's good to know that his genes will soon be eraticated from the gene pool.

:smugdraper: I know TOO many dudes when I was in college and even now in post-college life who are so insecure with themselves that they always act fake as soon a girls come around. The funny thing is that 10 times out of 10 the girls see right through that shyt on some:childplease:. I think Budden said it on one of those Youtube videos he does/did, something to the effect of, "If you ever want to expose virgins in your circle, bring girls around...the ones who talk the most shyt and act in the most awkward fashion:ufdup:"

Self-esteem issues brehs.
 

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sitting here take a break from studying for my physics II exam at 6:00 pm. ive realized how long and lonely my life has been. being alone all these years allows me to take an introspective look at my life. a light bulb came on in my head that maybe im not meant to find love til my late 20s early 30s. at the point most girls my age will have had their fun and be left with kids from guys who she thought were best for her at the time. after realizing whats she's been missing all along is me a funny, handsome, financially responsible, stable virgin who's willing to overlook her past and her love her for who she is. hopefully trey folks or d-lord (or whoever) doesn't try to come back into the picture after his release date or at least he'd be willing to share because i am to the future love of my life if youre reading this just know that ill always be there for you, so have fun and know ill never judge you for being gangbanged, recipient of multiple train sessions w/e cause were all young and dumb once.
Uh, how old are you?

Plenty of fish in the sea. Seriously, you are looking at things from the inside out. There are tons of single women out there with no kids in their 30s and 40s. Not saying you are going to wait until you are in your 40s, I'm just saying they are out there. eHarmony and whatever is loaded with single/divorced women in their 30s and 40s. Why? Not everyone gets married in their 20s. They pursue career. Never meet a good man or who wants to settle down in their 20s. There are tons of people who get married in their 30s. First marriage, no kids.

Just chill out dude. It's all good.
 

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:comeon: There are plenty of chicks in Chiraq.
It doesn't matter where he's at, he's defective. He'd come up pvssyless in Ibiza.

Yup, dudes are out here saying that, "if only I was in Brazil, I'd get all of the p*ssy in the world!" :beli:
 

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damn-- title is pure self ether-- got to church-- start goin to any extra activity within ur church-- ull find a good 25+ girl.
 

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:what: where the fukk are you getting at with all this shyt breh?
I've lived a pretty full life and I've done a lot of reading. I've also helped a number of virgins lose their virginity. Trust me, being an incel is a nasty disease with brutal outcomes. The experience you're articulating is just the first part of the failed life of the typical incel.


i told a lot my frosh/soph friends about being virgin, and they didn't believe me at first.
Dude, those people are neither your peers nor are they your friends. All they'll do is clown you while they move forward in life and you're stuck trying to befriend the next batch of little kids.


some even offer to get bytches for me, but i respectfully declined because i get my own women.
You don't get ANY women. Why? Well you're profoundly mentally deficient. You realize that most adult pairings in the world are facilitated by a 3rd party? You think you're above getting help in finding pvssy? Hell, what the fvck do you think a wing man is for?

Oh, wait, you know nothing about that. Why? Because you don't have friends and you don't get pvssy.


its not like im just out here struggling with the opposite sex.
:comeon:


im dealing with issues on a whole another level of thinking me and my virginity. you wouldn't understand tho.
Homie, I understand incels and virgins pretty well. Like I stated earlier I've helped more than a few virgins lose their virginity.

You're a stubborn, hardheaded man-child that refuses to be helped.

You'll either develop into a pedophile or become some sort of twisted mass killer. Watch.


i had multiple chances just within the last year of girls I know i couldve slept with if i wanted to, and i have a girl in my phone right now im sure i could smash with effort... i just not trying to rush into anything. whats wrong with that?
Breh, no woman wants to fvck what you are right now. NO WOMAN. You broadcast your deficiency. You are pvssy repellant.
 

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Isn't OP the same guy who started a thread about how he was gonna be a hustler and charge women for sex?

:usure:
 

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Pablo, as a Christian, I am worried about you. Not because you are virgin, but about your mentality and sanity. Like I said, maybe Nigerian, is not a right person for you to hang but at least he's a start. He is trying to make things happen, he is constantly moving, and he is confident. If anything, you will learn from some of his good and take it with you. I had many guys use me to get confidence, cool, and popular when I was younger. Watched how they used my tactics even better than I did. They weren't getting girls before me, after me, they were getting the best looking girls on the block and it wasn't like they were ugly and super lames from the start. You need to get a hold Pablo before. Getting girls ain't just about sex, you get get girls and refuse sex because you are waiting. But getting no girls and being a super lame is a negative.
 

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I don't see anything wrong with being a virgin/staying single in your twenties, but you and other dudes (like on the Bodybuilding forums) low-key try to act like it is a trophy because you fail so badly with the opposite sex or are just too lazy to get in the game.
 
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