And you never take a chick on vacation without getting the cheeks beforehand (or ya'll at least talked about it)
nope.
his mistake was taking her somewhere remote that she (alone) wanted to visit.
once you check for basic red flags and that you can get along you should be able to spend extended time together.
he should have taken her somewhere mainstream where there were plenty of things to do / distractions (incl. substitutes / repeats for missed events) just in case things went south.
somewhere were they could both feel comfortable separately.
i.e. caribbean, london, portugal (maybe).
and arguing with a women you just met back and forth? about what exactly?
I even seen someone say she had post-trip clarity
the important thing is, is her distance a sign of some other red flags?
if it is not, then you just decide if you want to put up with it.
if not you bounce.
she seems a bit slow-ish and subdued (not high introspective tho). breh needs to know how to manage someone like that.
emotionally she might be the occasional dead zone, so you need to be secure in yourself.
if you are the emotional type and need repeat reassurance she ain't the type for you.