Arlette Amuli **Pop The Balloon Or Find Love** Official Thread

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Just catching up on this ep now. Serious question, why do only Black folks ask those stupid questions like "if I'm driving, who sits in the front seat you or my mom" and "in what order do you rank God, husband/wife and children"? It's just dumb lol.
Those are fair questions. There are men out here who put their mothers over everything. Imagine being number 2 to your spouse’s family.

If you genuinely say your mother sits up front, you are far gone. Now their may be African cultures who put the elderly in the front seat, so you would have to explain that in your culture blah blah blah.

If you are a Christian, God is always first. It’s important to believers of Christ that you put God over Wife over children. It’s an easy screening question.

To those who don’t care for religion, that question seems stupid. It’s understandable. If faith is important to you, you will lead with that before engaging in a possible relationship.
 

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Just catching up on this ep now. Serious question, why do only Black folks ask those stupid questions like "if I'm driving, who sits in the front seat you or my mom" and "in what order do you rank God, husband/wife and children"? It's just dumb lol.
Because you may have have been around enough non-Black to know they’d do the same
 

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Just catching up on this ep now. Serious question, why do only Black folks ask those stupid questions like "if I'm driving, who sits in the front seat you or my mom" and "in what order do you rank God, husband/wife and children"? It's just dumb lol.
One of the previous contestants said that it was just to see where a person's mind is. Nothing make or break about it.
 

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Those are fair questions. There are men out here who put their mothers over everything. Imagine being number 2 to your spouse’s family.

If you genuinely say your mother sits up front, you are far gone. Now their may be African cultures who put the elderly in the front seat, so you would have to explain that in your culture blah blah blah.

If you are a Christian, God is always first. It’s important to believers of Christ that you put God over Wife over children. It’s an easy screening question.

To those who don’t care for religion, that question seems stupid. It’s understandable. If faith is important to you, you will lead with that before engaging in a possible relationship.

The mother seat up front is a dumb question. There are much better questions to ask to gauge someone’s mindset. And the God/wife/children question isn’t necessary either. Just ask how religious someone is and based on their response and body language that will tell you enough. And IMO deeper religion questions can be brought up later on one-on-one dates.
 

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Just catching up on this ep now. Serious question, why do only Black folks ask those stupid questions like "if I'm driving, who sits in the front seat you or my mom" and "in what order do you rank God, husband/wife and children"? It's just dumb lol.
Facts.
 

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Look at her IG she used to be slim in 2018.

She still thinks she looks like that now.
Yeah I saw the Tpindell one showing that. She talking like she still look the same as 08. It's a few chicks out here that blew up during COVID and still trying to move like they still got the same juice. At least remove them old photos because you got some audacity when I can see the before and after pics :mjlol:
 

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My guy was up there straight yapping. I finally understood what them chics talking about when they go on a date and the dude only talks about himself and won't let them get a word in:russ:
As a man, you absolutely never expose too much of yourself....especially to a complete stranger.

Maintain a cliff notes approach and let her do the talking.
 

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So my wife wanted to give the Netflix version a try, and a little more than 15 minutes in, it’s much better than what I barely saw the week before. They clearly faced so much backlash from the premier that they actively reigned things. Far less cringe and extra stuff. Even the studio audience was noticeable only when they had to be. Last week it’s like you had Vince McMahon in the back piping in inauthentic crowd noise. Now I still don’t see myself watching this on a weekly basis, cause every white person on here is an eyesore and have natural cringe that jumps off the screen.

EDIT: as I’m bout to hit Post Reply, they cut backstage to something called The Love Lounge with some cheesy looking dude and nah that shyt is corny as hell :laff: :laff: :laff:100% YouTube it is :salute:
 

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Just catching up on this ep now. Serious question, why do only Black folks ask those stupid questions like "if I'm driving, who sits in the front seat you or my mom" and "in what order do you rank God, husband/wife and children"? It's just dumb lol.
They heard one person say it and repeat it.

Honestly, when I drive my mom around I have her sit in the backseat even if no one else is in the car with us because I don't wanna hear her complain about my driving.
 
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