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I think all the dudes were skeptical of that."Honestly, I thought she was older than 31."
so did I.
Arlette Amuli **Pop The Balloon Or Find Love** Official Thread
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WTF is up with erbody bigging that waverly chick? If there wasn’t a perfect Wikipedia example of a cac cum dump before this chick, it’s here now. This brawd definitely has a ghetto gaggers episode out there somewhere. You don’t get hair that wavy without it being soaked in nut gravy. She said she wants to be a homemaker and that’s likely by a cac, so you know what she’s looking for. She ain’t that good lookin either.
Now, the little engineer chick Lyn is probably wifey material fo sho. She came without makeup and all of the bullshyt lashes and shyt so you can see what she really looks like. She can be groomed easily to dress and wear very light complementary makeup over time. She has great hair as well. She’s on that retirement security plan, so you know right there she has a life plan. Yall overlooking a good one.
I know she’s goofy, but I kinda like Shalene, the Jamaican chick with the dyed low cut. Yes, she can’t cook but we can work on that and she’s cute and seems classy. That accent is nice. She’s also a clean freak like me and wants no kids, so bonus points.
The others are background noise, fukin wallpaper.
These bruhs, tho….yall know the fukin questions that Arlette’s gonna ask you when you come out…have yo shyt ready when you come out, damn. First negro taking half the episode to think of questions and make decisions. Arlette needs to send these clowns a form to fill out with questions to ask.
Now, the little engineer chick Lyn is probably wifey material fo sho. She came without makeup and all of the bullshyt lashes and shyt so you can see what she really looks like. She can be groomed easily to dress and wear very light complementary makeup over time. She has great hair as well. She’s on that retirement security plan, so you know right there she has a life plan. Yall overlooking a good one.
I know she’s goofy, but I kinda like Shalene, the Jamaican chick with the dyed low cut. Yes, she can’t cook but we can work on that and she’s cute and seems classy. That accent is nice. She’s also a clean freak like me and wants no kids, so bonus points.
The others are background noise, fukin wallpaper.
These bruhs, tho….yall know the fukin questions that Arlette’s gonna ask you when you come out…have yo shyt ready when you come out, damn. First negro taking half the episode to think of questions and make decisions. Arlette needs to send these clowns a form to fill out with questions to ask.
she shoulda said that in the catch up.She in the comments fighting for her life
Spoiled it for nikkas who want to read her babble.
CLEARLY, I tried to spare details for a reason. At the end of the day, for being a woman with values, I’ll never change that, but here’s to clear some things up for the general public:
The majority of events took place during a second hangout and only knowing one another for around two weeks.
The man said I’m exactly who I represented myself to be, outside the show.
I clearly communicated I was not interested in anything sexual BEFOREHAND, but it came up in a card game, during bowling, during dinner, and upon asking for a “good night kiss”
Someone taking me bowling and saying “if I win I want you butt-naked in only an apron cooking for me” is weird, especially even more cringe if you say you’re actually trying to build a sustainable relationship AND if you keep bringing it up.
If I was a gold digger, I would’ve stayed on that side of the grass.
Playing a card game that poses a question “Name a type of movie you’d like to make with the person you’re with” and the response is “Oh that’s easy, onlyfans” is cringe.
Hearing through the grapevine from some of the cast that one was only on the show to “beef up their dating profile” was telling.
Smiling up at the ceiling and fanning out when you’re supposed to be on a “date” about women commenting on your IG “shooting their shot” was a red flag.
When asked about marriage, the response was “if that’s something my partner wants” which doesn’t necessarily align with intent and sharing the same values.
When asked about religion, mine is Christianity and he didn’t believe in one.
Telling me it’s hard for men to think with one head and that one feels “I’m too wholesome” concluded he lacked self-control, which at 38 is a huge red flag.
It was shared with me that he’s used to women being all over him, and I feel because I wasn’t fanned out, it did not strike his ego enough.
Kept insisting I stay in the guest room, but I offered to get myself a hotel. “I was just thinking if we get to watching a movie and you fall asleep, you know you’re not going to want to head back to your room..” after we’ve had a convo about me not being comfortable staying overnight in his place at that point.
Intimacy was present, just not to the level one probably wanted or thought my coach ticket and 3 star-hotel would get him.
Saying you didn’t want to be on the full episode and you’re thankful I was a good catch that came out first.. were we there for the same reasons?
Telling me a woman previously flown out and one was seeing actually broke into his house while a new girl that was “flown out” was present….. is a red flag and screams drama.
ETC
Clear reasons why I became no longer interested in pursuing further, but admired his drawing talent / ability and some other things. Those of you who were able to read between the lines, I’m glad you got it and thank you for your kind words.
Experience and maturity has taught me anything worth sustaining, authentic, and genuine takes time, effort, and commitment; a grown man in my opinion would understand that and we’d be on the same page naturally. During a dating process, I like to get to know someone outside of the representative I first meet. Nothing good comes from anything fast. I am intentional about my expectations, and ultimately allow men to be themselves and I choose if he’s a person I can see myself aligned with. In this case, nothing beyond a friendship / cordial basis made sense.
I wasn’t interested in doing the catch-up either, but kept being asked. I’m 100000% glad I stuck to my standards. Because I have a heart and he previously shared with me his family is cross-country, I reached out to send holiday cheer. Other than that, we do not maintain a relationship and I sincerely wish him well. I hope this provided the clarity that some of you need. I will not be going back and forth in the comments. God bless
I know a girl exactly like her down to the not wanting kids, religion thing, cant cook .......surface level seems cool and has her stuff together...but trust me you dont want someone like that..shes lazy, and wants to do bare minimum to keep a man hence why she cant ever keep a man.
Busted_Toes
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who the waverly chick?
nvm
nvm
Busted_Toes
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cute .. why everyone mad at her?
Playaz Eyez
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Kid aside, she seemed to be the most genuine chick on there. She’s cute, but just not as attractive physically as some of the others. Maybe it was just the makeup and outfit, but she definitely seems more late 30s than just 31.Carmella the auntie looks like a good 38-45 but a good-looking one. Her being 31 is nuts to me. But I would still shotgun blast the snow across the hair or the back. Toes not showing 31 either. I think she lying
These were actually some decent chics. I was feeling the one in the black with the stockings. She's the type I would pull up on until she started talking
. But has anyone noticed that the lineups with dudes usually have the most matches than the lineup with the females. These chics are in a dating show being way too picky and disingenuous lolThose type of chics and men never actually wanna date someone at their church. That should be the perfect environment for them. But alot of them are hypocrits. She wants a godly man but she also values gifts and expensive dates and the aesthetic of things. Valuing worldly things like that is antithetical to the whole point of ChristianityIf you want a christian man who reads the bible and talks to God everyday, who is also successful at being celibate....go on christian mingle or go to church...you can also give them the same grace the Lord gives you
Playaz Eyez
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Watch the episode and find out
cute .. why everyone mad at her?
Also have to echo some of the same sentiments after doubling back, this is a white man’s Black woman. Clearly has unreasonable standards for Black men, but the first white dude that shows her interest, everything would go out the window 
Yeah he should have told them to say 2 positive and 2 negative things to put the heat on them. But you're right once there is over 2 pops or a chic highlights something she doesn't like about a breh the wave of pops start. No chic wants a man that other chicks don't want and we see that play out every week lolI also loved the "How would your ex describe you?" question
...And apparently all of their exes only had positive things to say about them
Fellas don't waste your time asking that bullshyt
And tall breh lasted a good 2 mins and then the tallness wore off. Once the first girl popped because he was too tall, it was a wrap for him
no one was mad at them..
yeah but here's the rub on that. even though the guys match more the catch-ups always show that the women are not really interested in them.These were actually some decent chics. I was feeling the one in the black with the stockings. She's the type I would pull up on until she started talking
a poster already said this - the women don't have issues pulling guys so to them it's just another day and that's how they approach the matches - not serious at all about finding a lifetime husband. it's really a crapshoot for the guys. women will accept the match out of shear competitive nature but aren't interested in the guys frfr.
I was watching another one of these shows and dude came out and had all the balloons pop except one. And when the last girl decided to pop at the last minute on him, the host asked why and she said
“Well everyone else popped and that’s a red flag to me”.
Idk if I was more surprised at the words that came out of her mouth or surprised that she admitted it
