That was wild that she threw that out there like that but that was the plan. She knew that it was only a kiss but wording it a certain way and leaving vague will allow other people to interpret another way and make it seem like breh was super thirsty. That way she can be the victim without technically lying. I'm glad breh clarified that and didn't give that any room to breathe. That was some pro level manipulation
Arlette Amuli **Pop The Balloon Or Find Love** Official Thread
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Rev Leon Lonnie Love
damned mine eyes, DAMNED mine eyes!!
Man…
This is the essence of what women want. Have you spending all your money just to turn around and say “Ehh”
Son flew her out, put her up and had her weekend planned like an all inclusive vacation yet he had to question whether she was even into him lol
I doubt he was after p*ssy immediately…Just wanted to know if he was doing it for her
Long story short he ended up getting blocked
2024 is the worst time to be a good guy in the dating market.
This market is tailor made for cutthroat dudes. Godspeed to him
Rev Leon Lonnie Love
damned mine eyes, DAMNED mine eyes!!
The truth is women in general don't need a show like this to find a man to begin with. So 95% of them will never take it seriously and will just use it as an opportunity to get a free food/drinks and enjoy the "experience" of flying out and being on a popular show. Even here, you have two birds younger than 25 with 2 kids from 2 different men each and they of all people treating the opportunity to "find love" like "Eh, if it happens, cool". Because even they know, with their used car value in the dating market, that even they can get some chump to pay for a few drinks, smash, and even potentially give them another kid if they truly wanted that. They have no incentive to take dating seriously because they've never had to once try in their life.
There's a reason you keep seeing the dudes end up on the short-end of the stick with these post-show experiences. Think about how often you see a woman unbothered on these catch-ups vs a man who can't make sense of what he did wrong. The man spent money trying to make that shyt work. Flying them out, putting them in hotels, going to Greece, taking time out of work. And for all their effort, they get a "We can still be very good friends" or if they're really lucky, they just get blocked. On the other hand, it's just another day in the life for the woman
In contrast, there's plenty of men out there that don't deal with the struggle too, but they're just not coming on a Pop the Balloon show wasting people's time like that. Women are diabolical
Man…
This is the essence of what women want. Have you spending all your money just to turn around and say “Ehh”
Son flew her out, put her up and had her weekend planned like an all inclusive vacation yet he had to question whether she was even into him lol
I doubt he was after p*ssy immediately…Just wanted to know if he was doing it for her
Long story short he ended up getting blocked
She in the comments fighting for her life
Spoiled it for nikkas who want to read her babble.
CLEARLY, I tried to spare details for a reason. At the end of the day, for being a woman with values, I’ll never change that, but here’s to clear some things up for the general public:
The majority of events took place during a second hangout and only knowing one another for around two weeks.
The man said I’m exactly who I represented myself to be, outside the show.
I clearly communicated I was not interested in anything sexual BEFOREHAND, but it came up in a card game, during bowling, during dinner, and upon asking for a “good night kiss”
Someone taking me bowling and saying “if I win I want you butt-naked in only an apron cooking for me” is weird, especially even more cringe if you say you’re actually trying to build a sustainable relationship AND if you keep bringing it up.
If I was a gold digger, I would’ve stayed on that side of the grass.
Playing a card game that poses a question “Name a type of movie you’d like to make with the person you’re with” and the response is “Oh that’s easy, onlyfans” is cringe.
Hearing through the grapevine from some of the cast that one was only on the show to “beef up their dating profile” was telling.
Smiling up at the ceiling and fanning out when you’re supposed to be on a “date” about women commenting on your IG “shooting their shot” was a red flag.
When asked about marriage, the response was “if that’s something my partner wants” which doesn’t necessarily align with intent and sharing the same values.
When asked about religion, mine is Christianity and he didn’t believe in one.
Telling me it’s hard for men to think with one head and that one feels “I’m too wholesome” concluded he lacked self-control, which at 38 is a huge red flag.
It was shared with me that he’s used to women being all over him, and I feel because I wasn’t fanned out, it did not strike his ego enough.
Kept insisting I stay in the guest room, but I offered to get myself a hotel. “I was just thinking if we get to watching a movie and you fall asleep, you know you’re not going to want to head back to your room..” after we’ve had a convo about me not being comfortable staying overnight in his place at that point.
Intimacy was present, just not to the level one probably wanted or thought my coach ticket and 3 star-hotel would get him.
Saying you didn’t want to be on the full episode and you’re thankful I was a good catch that came out first.. were we there for the same reasons?
Telling me a woman previously flown out and one was seeing actually broke into his house while a new girl that was “flown out” was present….. is a red flag and screams drama.
ETC
Clear reasons why I became no longer interested in pursuing further, but admired his drawing talent / ability and some other things. Those of you who were able to read between the lines, I’m glad you got it and thank you for your kind words.
Experience and maturity has taught me anything worth sustaining, authentic, and genuine takes time, effort, and commitment; a grown man in my opinion would understand that and we’d be on the same page naturally. During a dating process, I like to get to know someone outside of the representative I first meet. Nothing good comes from anything fast. I am intentional about my expectations, and ultimately allow men to be themselves and I choose if he’s a person I can see myself aligned with. In this case, nothing beyond a friendship / cordial basis made sense.
I wasn’t interested in doing the catch-up either, but kept being asked. I’m 100000% glad I stuck to my standards. Because I have a heart and he previously shared with me his family is cross-country, I reached out to send holiday cheer. Other than that, we do not maintain a relationship and I sincerely wish him well. I hope this provided the clarity that some of you need. I will not be going back and forth in the comments. God bless
The majority of events took place during a second hangout and only knowing one another for around two weeks.
The man said I’m exactly who I represented myself to be, outside the show.
I clearly communicated I was not interested in anything sexual BEFOREHAND, but it came up in a card game, during bowling, during dinner, and upon asking for a “good night kiss”
Someone taking me bowling and saying “if I win I want you butt-naked in only an apron cooking for me” is weird, especially even more cringe if you say you’re actually trying to build a sustainable relationship AND if you keep bringing it up.
If I was a gold digger, I would’ve stayed on that side of the grass.
Playing a card game that poses a question “Name a type of movie you’d like to make with the person you’re with” and the response is “Oh that’s easy, onlyfans” is cringe.
Hearing through the grapevine from some of the cast that one was only on the show to “beef up their dating profile” was telling.
Smiling up at the ceiling and fanning out when you’re supposed to be on a “date” about women commenting on your IG “shooting their shot” was a red flag.
When asked about marriage, the response was “if that’s something my partner wants” which doesn’t necessarily align with intent and sharing the same values.
When asked about religion, mine is Christianity and he didn’t believe in one.
Telling me it’s hard for men to think with one head and that one feels “I’m too wholesome” concluded he lacked self-control, which at 38 is a huge red flag.
It was shared with me that he’s used to women being all over him, and I feel because I wasn’t fanned out, it did not strike his ego enough.
Kept insisting I stay in the guest room, but I offered to get myself a hotel. “I was just thinking if we get to watching a movie and you fall asleep, you know you’re not going to want to head back to your room..” after we’ve had a convo about me not being comfortable staying overnight in his place at that point.
Intimacy was present, just not to the level one probably wanted or thought my coach ticket and 3 star-hotel would get him.
Saying you didn’t want to be on the full episode and you’re thankful I was a good catch that came out first.. were we there for the same reasons?
Telling me a woman previously flown out and one was seeing actually broke into his house while a new girl that was “flown out” was present….. is a red flag and screams drama.
ETC
Clear reasons why I became no longer interested in pursuing further, but admired his drawing talent / ability and some other things. Those of you who were able to read between the lines, I’m glad you got it and thank you for your kind words.
Experience and maturity has taught me anything worth sustaining, authentic, and genuine takes time, effort, and commitment; a grown man in my opinion would understand that and we’d be on the same page naturally. During a dating process, I like to get to know someone outside of the representative I first meet. Nothing good comes from anything fast. I am intentional about my expectations, and ultimately allow men to be themselves and I choose if he’s a person I can see myself aligned with. In this case, nothing beyond a friendship / cordial basis made sense.
I wasn’t interested in doing the catch-up either, but kept being asked. I’m 100000% glad I stuck to my standards. Because I have a heart and he previously shared with me his family is cross-country, I reached out to send holiday cheer. Other than that, we do not maintain a relationship and I sincerely wish him well. I hope this provided the clarity that some of you need. I will not be going back and forth in the comments. God bless
So she's open and transparent which she couldn't display at all during the show when the camera and lights were on her. But she has all the time to give a perfectly crafted response in the comments...that just shows how inauthentic and crazy she is. I don't know whose in her corner giving her advice but they're failing her big time lolShe in the comments fighting for her life
Spoiled it for nikkas who want to read her babble.
CLEARLY, I tried to spare details for a reason. At the end of the day, for being a woman with values, I’ll never change that, but here’s to clear some things up for the general public:
The majority of events took place during a second hangout and only knowing one another for around two weeks.
The man said I’m exactly who I represented myself to be, outside the show.
I clearly communicated I was not interested in anything sexual BEFOREHAND, but it came up in a card game, during bowling, during dinner, and upon asking for a “good night kiss”
Someone taking me bowling and saying “if I win I want you butt-naked in only an apron cooking for me” is weird, especially even more cringe if you say you’re actually trying to build a sustainable relationship AND if you keep bringing it up.
If I was a gold digger, I would’ve stayed on that side of the grass.
Playing a card game that poses a question “Name a type of movie you’d like to make with the person you’re with” and the response is “Oh that’s easy, onlyfans” is cringe.
Hearing through the grapevine from some of the cast that one was only on the show to “beef up their dating profile” was telling.
Smiling up at the ceiling and fanning out when you’re supposed to be on a “date” about women commenting on your IG “shooting their shot” was a red flag.
When asked about marriage, the response was “if that’s something my partner wants” which doesn’t necessarily align with intent and sharing the same values.
When asked about religion, mine is Christianity and he didn’t believe in one.
Telling me it’s hard for men to think with one head and that one feels “I’m too wholesome” concluded he lacked self-control, which at 38 is a huge red flag.
It was shared with me that he’s used to women being all over him, and I feel because I wasn’t fanned out, it did not strike his ego enough.
Kept insisting I stay in the guest room, but I offered to get myself a hotel. “I was just thinking if we get to watching a movie and you fall asleep, you know you’re not going to want to head back to your room..” after we’ve had a convo about me not being comfortable staying overnight in his place at that point.
Intimacy was present, just not to the level one probably wanted or thought my coach ticket and 3 star-hotel would get him.
Saying you didn’t want to be on the full episode and you’re thankful I was a good catch that came out first.. were we there for the same reasons?
Telling me a woman previously flown out and one was seeing actually broke into his house while a new girl that was “flown out” was present….. is a red flag and screams drama.
ETC
Clear reasons why I became no longer interested in pursuing further, but admired his drawing talent / ability and some other things. Those of you who were able to read between the lines, I’m glad you got it and thank you for your kind words.
Experience and maturity has taught me anything worth sustaining, authentic, and genuine takes time, effort, and commitment; a grown man in my opinion would understand that and we’d be on the same page naturally. During a dating process, I like to get to know someone outside of the representative I first meet. Nothing good comes from anything fast. I am intentional about my expectations, and ultimately allow men to be themselves and I choose if he’s a person I can see myself aligned with. In this case, nothing beyond a friendship / cordial basis made sense.
I wasn’t interested in doing the catch-up either, but kept being asked. I’m 100000% glad I stuck to my standards. Because I have a heart and he previously shared with me his family is cross-country, I reached out to send holiday cheer. Other than that, we do not maintain a relationship and I sincerely wish him well. I hope this provided the clarity that some of you need. I will not be going back and forth in the comments. God bless
MoveForward
Veteran
^^^ In all fairness, he did admit to some of the things that
I gotta be fair, this does make sense but I keep my gator on these bytches necks because they’re usually on the bs.She in the comments fighting for her life
Spoiled it for nikkas who want to read her babble.
CLEARLY, I tried to spare details for a reason. At the end of the day, for being a woman with values, I’ll never change that, but here’s to clear some things up for the general public:
The majority of events took place during a second hangout and only knowing one another for around two weeks.
The man said I’m exactly who I represented myself to be, outside the show.
I clearly communicated I was not interested in anything sexual BEFOREHAND, but it came up in a card game, during bowling, during dinner, and upon asking for a “good night kiss”
Someone taking me bowling and saying “if I win I want you butt-naked in only an apron cooking for me” is weird, especially even more cringe if you say you’re actually trying to build a sustainable relationship AND if you keep bringing it up.
If I was a gold digger, I would’ve stayed on that side of the grass.
Playing a card game that poses a question “Name a type of movie you’d like to make with the person you’re with” and the response is “Oh that’s easy, onlyfans” is cringe.
Hearing through the grapevine from some of the cast that one was only on the show to “beef up their dating profile” was telling.
Smiling up at the ceiling and fanning out when you’re supposed to be on a “date” about women commenting on your IG “shooting their shot” was a red flag.
When asked about marriage, the response was “if that’s something my partner wants” which doesn’t necessarily align with intent and sharing the same values.
When asked about religion, mine is Christianity and he didn’t believe in one.
Telling me it’s hard for men to think with one head and that one feels “I’m too wholesome” concluded he lacked self-control, which at 38 is a huge red flag.
It was shared with me that he’s used to women being all over him, and I feel because I wasn’t fanned out, it did not strike his ego enough.
Kept insisting I stay in the guest room, but I offered to get myself a hotel. “I was just thinking if we get to watching a movie and you fall asleep, you know you’re not going to want to head back to your room..” after we’ve had a convo about me not being comfortable staying overnight in his place at that point.
Intimacy was present, just not to the level one probably wanted or thought my coach ticket and 3 star-hotel would get him.
Saying you didn’t want to be on the full episode and you’re thankful I was a good catch that came out first.. were we there for the same reasons?
Telling me a woman previously flown out and one was seeing actually broke into his house while a new girl that was “flown out” was present….. is a red flag and screams drama.
ETC
Clear reasons why I became no longer interested in pursuing further, but admired his drawing talent / ability and some other things. Those of you who were able to read between the lines, I’m glad you got it and thank you for your kind words.
Experience and maturity has taught me anything worth sustaining, authentic, and genuine takes time, effort, and commitment; a grown man in my opinion would understand that and we’d be on the same page naturally. During a dating process, I like to get to know someone outside of the representative I first meet. Nothing good comes from anything fast. I am intentional about my expectations, and ultimately allow men to be themselves and I choose if he’s a person I can see myself aligned with. In this case, nothing beyond a friendship / cordial basis made sense.
I wasn’t interested in doing the catch-up either, but kept being asked. I’m 100000% glad I stuck to my standards. Because I have a heart and he previously shared with me his family is cross-country, I reached out to send holiday cheer. Other than that, we do not maintain a relationship and I sincerely wish him well. I hope this provided the clarity that some of you need. I will not be going back and forth in the comments. God bless
Cool Dr. Money
I’m Lil Jimmy but my boys call me J-Murder!
Candi pulled a air pod out of her ear while wearing beats 
. The two young chicks are way too close it’s some coochie bumpin going on in that apartment and i wouldn’t be surprised if they share a baby daddy their stories are too similar
. The two young chicks are way too close it’s some coochie bumpin going on in that apartment and i wouldn’t be surprised if they share a baby daddy their stories are too similarShe in the comments fighting for her life
Spoiled it for nikkas who want to read her babble.
CLEARLY, I tried to spare details for a reason. At the end of the day, for being a woman with values, I’ll never change that, but here’s to clear some things up for the general public:
The majority of events took place during a second hangout and only knowing one another for around two weeks.
The man said I’m exactly who I represented myself to be, outside the show.
I clearly communicated I was not interested in anything sexual BEFOREHAND, but it came up in a card game, during bowling, during dinner, and upon asking for a “good night kiss”
Someone taking me bowling and saying “if I win I want you butt-naked in only an apron cooking for me” is weird, especially even more cringe if you say you’re actually trying to build a sustainable relationship AND if you keep bringing it up.
If I was a gold digger, I would’ve stayed on that side of the grass.
Playing a card game that poses a question “Name a type of movie you’d like to make with the person you’re with” and the response is “Oh that’s easy, onlyfans” is cringe.
Hearing through the grapevine from some of the cast that one was only on the show to “beef up their dating profile” was telling.
Smiling up at the ceiling and fanning out when you’re supposed to be on a “date” about women commenting on your IG “shooting their shot” was a red flag.
When asked about marriage, the response was “if that’s something my partner wants” which doesn’t necessarily align with intent and sharing the same values.
When asked about religion, mine is Christianity and he didn’t believe in one.
Telling me it’s hard for men to think with one head and that one feels “I’m too wholesome” concluded he lacked self-control, which at 38 is a huge red flag.
It was shared with me that he’s used to women being all over him, and I feel because I wasn’t fanned out, it did not strike his ego enough.
Kept insisting I stay in the guest room, but I offered to get myself a hotel. “I was just thinking if we get to watching a movie and you fall asleep, you know you’re not going to want to head back to your room..” after we’ve had a convo about me not being comfortable staying overnight in his place at that point.
Intimacy was present, just not to the level one probably wanted or thought my coach ticket and 3 star-hotel would get him.
Saying you didn’t want to be on the full episode and you’re thankful I was a good catch that came out first.. were we there for the same reasons?
Telling me a woman previously flown out and one was seeing actually broke into his house while a new girl that was “flown out” was present….. is a red flag and screams drama.
ETC
Clear reasons why I became no longer interested in pursuing further, but admired his drawing talent / ability and some other things. Those of you who were able to read between the lines, I’m glad you got it and thank you for your kind words.
Experience and maturity has taught me anything worth sustaining, authentic, and genuine takes time, effort, and commitment; a grown man in my opinion would understand that and we’d be on the same page naturally. During a dating process, I like to get to know someone outside of the representative I first meet. Nothing good comes from anything fast. I am intentional about my expectations, and ultimately allow men to be themselves and I choose if he’s a person I can see myself aligned with. In this case, nothing beyond a friendship / cordial basis made sense.
I wasn’t interested in doing the catch-up either, but kept being asked. I’m 100000% glad I stuck to my standards. Because I have a heart and he previously shared with me his family is cross-country, I reached out to send holiday cheer. Other than that, we do not maintain a relationship and I sincerely wish him well. I hope this provided the clarity that some of you need. I will not be going back and forth in the comments. God bless
So if it was a five-star hotel and first class ticket, you would've given him a kiss?
Listen, if you tell me you're not interested in anything sexual beforehand, keep your ass home
You already deciding before we meet-up that intimacy is off the table (yeah this his fault too for entertaining this nonsense). That's cool but I'm not wasting my time. If you go through a date and you not feeling it at the end, I at least get it. But I offered to fly you out, and you already decided BEFOREHAND to set a boundary that we're gonna be friends, FRIENDS?? You think we in middle school? I mean if you wanna go there with it, bro basically paid to fly an escort out and didn't get cheeks at the end of the night. Let's be honest here 
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So if it was a five-star hotel and first class ticket, you would've given him a kiss?
Listen, if you tell me you're not interested in anything sexual beforehand, keep your ass home
He should’ve asked for a non refundable deposit.
Playaz Eyez
Veteran
I’m still laughing at both of them being friends, and both having kids by two different men. These chicks are 5 years apart. You mean to tell me BOTH chicks got in terrible situations and one didn’t learn from the other ???Candi pulled an air pod out of her ear while wearing beats
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You know chics like that share the same brain/frequency. They both probably enabling and giving each other bad advice in regards to relationships lolI’m still laughing at both of them being friends, and both having kids by two different men. These chicks are 5 years apart. You men to tell me BOTH chicks got in terrible situations and one didn’t learn from the other ???
WavyHair ChippedTeeth
All Star
We back. NYD special.
