Arlette Amuli **Pop The Balloon Or Find Love** Official Thread

[jay83]

This show is a really interesting social experiment. In regards to younger women, you’re right about the clout chasing except when the younger women have a child. It seems like the younger women with a child on the show drop their standards and are genuinely looking for love the same way childless women 10 years older than them are looking. The 24-25 year olds with kids seem less likely to pop off the rip, similar to how the 34+ year old women are more likely to hear dudes out.

Basically 24 year old child less women do whatever the hell they want because they can.

Makes sense.

 

[Shadow King]

I agree. Unlesss ofcourse it was prefaced with “very” handsome. Then that i believe means different.

Fine & sexy are deff 2 adjectives that imply strong sexual desire though.

And working out can take you from handsome to sexy (provided ofcourse you have a nice/decent face).

Even "very handsome" gets watered down a bit on this show because there's a save face/play nice at play. But overall I agree.

 

[AAKing23]

This show is a reflection of the dating pool for BM

Baby Mamas R’US
Hypocrites
Entitled
Extremely Superficial
Overweight
Delusional


Brothas need to seek better for themselves, I think we tolerate it for sexual reasons (And some of these hoes do look good af) but that is not enough. Leave these hoes to drown

 

[Playaz Eyez]

I am legit shocked that people are bashing the chic that popped the balloon after the flowers guy started giving out flowers to all the ladies at the end. He actually had a match and instead of focusing on her he went round giving roses to other women. I know he came with a bunch of flowers for her at the end but it just wasn’t an overall good look. Personally I think she was justified.

The third guy was amazing I am shocked no one picked him. Breh seemed so chilled and
genuinely nice. He also had a lot going for him, had a doctorate and seemed to be seeking to better himself.

I look at it like he was being very courteous with everybody despite the pops, just wanting to show all of them some respect. Plus, that same chick was the height confused chick when interacting with the dude with multiple degrees. That’s another woman with depth perception issues. He didn’t miss out on anything, but he probably should’ve rolled with the light skinned curly haired chick instead.

 

[ZEupTWN]

Imagine having multiple degrees, in shape, and making decent income only to be rejected by a single mom because of your attire.

Guarantee if these same american brothas were in a city like Sao Paolo, Cape Town or Paris, they would have a good selection of beautiful black women to choose from.

Let’s keep it real tho..These brehs do it to themselves..They seeking these thots, just like these thots are seeking simps and tricks..

All these dudes are grown too, no need to cap for them..

One thing we should learn from this show is that qualifications do not equal sense and character…

 

[WesCrook]

The Mississippi chick criticized the guy for "chasing money"

And the home entertainment business guy before him for being "always on the go"

So we're shytting on men who are ambitious now?

Oan, the 1st rapper girl criticizing the entrepreneur's fit was dressed like she was headed to the prom.......in 1991.

Bytch looked like a backup singer for En Vogue.

 

[Gizmo_Duck]

The Mississippi chick criticized the guy for "chasing money"

And the home entertainment business guy before him for being "always on the go"

So we're shytting on men who are ambitious now?

Oan, the 1st rapper girl criticizing the entrepreneur's fit was dressed like she was headed to the prom.......in 1991.

Bytch looked like a backup singer for En Vogue.

I was about to say yall are equally tacky, perfect match

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Can’t even count on that honestly, remember that group of women where everybody was older than 33 and nearly all of them had 2+ kids, including 20 year old kids?

One of the funniest episodes they had

Man wtf

When was this

 

[Playaz Eyez]

Man wtf

When was this

I think it was this one lmao

I’m not sure if this is the same one where a chick said she had a 21 year old and the dude was like “ahhh I might have to fight that lil nikka”

 

[Rain]

Why is it so hard for women to admit they found a dude attractive on this show? They don't want to concede shyt after their balloon was popped

"So why did you have your balloon unpopped"

"Oh I just wanted to hear him out "



You held that balloon for 15 MINUTES until bro popped it. You just wanted to hear him out..for that long? You didn't like anything else about him huh?

I'm sure #uglygang is trying to see what this "hear him out" experience is like since ya'll pop the balloons as soon as they come out

 

[RickyGQ]

TikTok - Make Your Day

 

[ZEupTWN]

Why is it so hard for women to admit they found a dude attractive on this show? They don't want to concede shyt after their balloon was popped

"So why did you have your balloon unpopped"

"Oh I just wanted to hear him out "



You held that balloon for 15 MINUTES until bro popped it. You just wanted to hear him out..for that long? You didn't like anything else about him huh?

I'm sure #uglygang is trying to see what this "hear him out" experience is like since ya'll pop the balloons as soon as they come out

LOLLL...This something definitely prevalent in modern women...too much aimless pride...

 

[TEH]

This show is a reflection of the dating pool for BM

Baby Mamas R’US
Hypocrites
Entitled
Extremely Superficial
Overweight
Delusional


Brothas need to seek better for themselves, I think we tolerate it for sexual reasons (And some of these hoes do look good af) but that is not enough. Leave these hoes to drown

 

[Canon]

Imagine having multiple degrees, in shape, and making decent income only to be rejected by a single mom because of your attire.

Guarantee if these same american brothas were in a city like Sao Paolo, Cape Town or Paris, they would have a good selection of beautiful black women to choose from.

dudes on this show are too good for the women and no one wants to say it.

Couldn't be me

 

[Carlton Banks]

Why is it so hard for women to admit they found a dude attractive on this show? They don't want to concede shyt after their balloon was popped

"So why did you have your balloon unpopped"

"Oh I just wanted to hear him out "



You held that balloon for 15 MINUTES until bro popped it. You just wanted to hear him out..for that long? You didn't like anything else about him huh?

I'm sure #uglygang is trying to see what this "hear him out" experience is like since ya'll pop the balloons as soon as they come out

Women have been programmed to see us as threats and enemies